Honestly what I am looking for...

[YYZCuck]

I have been trying to convince my wife for about 8 years now.

We have never had any other lovers, and have been together for 21 years, we are both 35...do the math.

And honestly the sexiest thing I can imagine.

Is my wife finding her inner sexiness.

She's never been hit on, had a ******* bought for her, cat called, nothing.

And I would LOVE to see her self confidence go up when it comes to feeling sexy.

 

[Rene Mills]

After 8 years it’s not going to happen. Are you just hinting or asking direct and communicating?

 

[YYZCuck]

After 8 years it’s not going to happen. Are you just hinting or asking direct and communicating?

Little bit of both is I'm honest. And she plays with the idea when she's *******.

But she's never had the opportunity to "cheat"

 

[atsploda]

I have been trying to convince my wife for about 8 years now.

We have never had any other lovers, and have been together for 21 years, we are both 35...do the math.

And honestly the sexiest thing I can imagine.

Is my wife finding her inner sexiness.

She's never been hit on, had a ******* bought for her, cat called, nothing.

And I would LOVE to see her self confidence go up when it comes to feeling sexy.

Late 30's thru their 40's woman are in their sexual prime. I've been with many woman and that age bracket they are amazing.

 

[Rene Mills]

I call bullshit. You clearly are just fantasizing and you don’t communicate in your marriage

 

[YYZCuck]

I call bullshit. You clearly are just fantasizing and you don’t communicate in your marriage

That's a wild assumption. I've communicated a lot of what my wants are to her, she's had questions and concerns that she's brought up. I feel like she's never jumped on board because she's worried about my feelings

 

[Rene Mills]

That's a wild assumption. I've communicated a lot of what my wants are to her, she's had questions and concerns that she's brought up. I feel like she's never jumped on board because she's worried about my feelings

If she’s worried about your feelings then you aren’t communicating

 

[YYZCuck]

If she’s worried about your feelings then you aren’t communicating

She's worried about how I would feel if things did happen. And how we would navigate it

 

[Rene Mills]

She's worried about how I would feel if things did happen. And how we would navigate it

Again, then you aren’t communicating well or worse. You are pushing too hard while not communicating well. You’re a guy. You don’t understand

 

[YYZCuck]

Again, then you aren’t communicating well or worse. You are pushing too hard while not communicating well. You’re a guy. You don’t understand

I am very open to ideas and suggestions. I have been trying, but if you're saying I'm going about I wrong then guide me

 

[Rene Mills]

I am very open to ideas and suggestions. I have been trying, but if you're saying I'm going about I wrong then guide me

I just did and you’re arguing. I’m not going to help you seduce your own wife. You need to go at her pace and ask direct questions. If that means she’s never doing it then you have to accept that