Hello. Yes, we would love advice on this! It's the very reason we just registered here at Blacktowhite. My husband and I through open talking which we do often, discovered that we share the same fantasy. I've always fantasized about having a threesome, and also kinda wondered how sex would be with a well endowed black man. Now I find out that my husband has fantasies about sharing me wit a well endowed black man.
Well, we've registered on a couple dating sites looking for a guy to join us. It's been less than promising and that's putting it lightly. Surely there's a method to finding the right guy? We simply want a respectful, well endowed black gentleman that can honestly handle a no strings relationship with us. So far we're not having much luck
Thanks!
If what you say is true, you should know that you are in an exceptional situation with a husband and wife sharing the same fantasy which is rare. Furthermore you have already established open communication with each other which is the basis for proceeding in a couple's lifestyle. Be thankful for all of that, you hit the jackpot!
If you want to turn your fantasies into reality, there are a few things you can do
on this site in order to get closer to your goal, and perhaps even establish a connection with a matching third player off of this site.
First, fill in your location info in your profile: Select your user name in the main menu (uper right corner of the page), follow the "Account details" link, then fill in the "Location" text field.
This will show the country and in some cases the state of your location next to your avatar to the side of your forum posts, and let people know if you're close to them. It will also make you show up in result lists of the 'find member by location' tool (now renamed to "Find your sex partner"
).
Second, consider verification as a "real" couple. You can find a short "how-to" here...
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This will open up further functionality and possibilities. But most importantly it will let others know that you are indeed a couple and not yet another misrepresenting 'fake' user.
Third, fill in the "About" section of your profile. Add something meaningful about the two of you. ImO that should include a short description of yourselves: your ages, approximate looks and sexual "orientations"(!). Also explain your desired lifestyle or scenarios, and what a third player should bring to the table (or bed
). Your basic likes and dislikes(!) should be included as well.
Fourth, get in touch with like-minded site members. Some couples jump right into exploration of a wifesharing lifestyle, others prefer to be more considerate and make it step-by-step. An alternative to searching for a third player that matches your lifestyle preference right away is to get in touch with other, preferably more experienced couples who are enabled to add some wisdom based on their experiences. And if you are lucky enough, perhaps they will even recommend a Black man they know and trust near you.
Good luck with proceeding in your lifestyle and with finding what/who you are looking for!
