Have yall ever been to a swingers or lifestyle party?

[Trayreloaded]

I'm only asking cuz i recommend 1000% especially for the black guys out there. U think seeing/fucking 1 sexy wife is fun, wait til you're in a whole room, better yet a whole hotel with fine and sexy women. All ages. All types. Most wanting to get fucked. Now obviously a large portion of those aren't particularly looking for a single bbc, but if u play your cards right you could be entertaining 1 or more by the end of the night. Idc what anybody else says, there's nothing more fun than huge lifestyle parties. They can make for some epic nights.


Ps.
Most good parties don't allow single men. So guy's you'll prolly need a fwb to attend with or find a couple that is willing to sponsor/vouch for u. After 8 years in the game I've developed a good reputation and rapport with several ppl in the lifestyle so being accepted at such events became easier over the course of time

 

[gregnginger]

I have not, where do they have them and how many people are there?

 

[James J]

yes, that is how I met my current couples.

 

[Trayreloaded]

I have not, where do they have them and how many people are there?

Well it depends on your location for the where. Lol. How many people also depends.
I've gone to hotel take over parties with 300+ people.
I've gone to house parties with 10-20 people.
I've gone to hotel suite parties with 20-50 people.
So it's all about the event. All the parties I've attended were posted on sls. And I've heard fetlife also has events posted. (I'm not a member there)

 

[MrRyanIron32]

I went to one last year on 4th of July and watched a threesome between a white woman and two black guys. I didn't play since there wasn't that many women at all (just one) and a couple, but I wasn't really interested and plus, I'm not into having sex in front of everyone since I'm more of a 1 on 1 private kind of guy. I'm going to two FetLife parties this weekend so hopefully I get to play to with a woman alone.

 

[VVERNBULL]

New Years Eve about 10 years ago, my wife and I went to a local ‘swingers’ club to see the new year in...virtually every legal sexual deviation, fetish, perversion, kink and fantasy was represented, cucks, swappers, bdsm, domination, transvestites...the lot.....it was FUCKING AWESOME....although it did feel weird going out to the smoking area and having a cigarette in the company of a large group of men and women totally naked, done fucking in the outdoor furniture.
My wife and I publically played on a large double bed and drew quite a crowd...and another guy joined in....one of the crowd was black and had a huge cock which he wanked off not three feet away from my wife....this is the closet I’ve ever come to seeing her blacked.

 

[gregnginger]

Well it depends on your location for the where. Lol. How many people also depends.
I've gone to hotel take over parties with 300+ people.
I've gone to house parties with 10-20 people.
I've gone to hotel suite parties with 20-50 people.
So it's all about the event. All the parties I've attended were posted on sls. And I've heard fetlife also has events posted. (I'm not a member there)

I never knew so many people went.

 

[Trayreloaded]

I went to one last year on 4th of July and watched a threesome between a white woman and two black guys. I didn't play since there wasn't that many women at all (just one) and a couple, but I wasn't really interested and plus, I'm not into having sex in front of everyone since I'm more of a 1 on 1 private kind of guy. I'm going to two FetLife parties this weekend so hopefully I get to play to with a woman alone.

Many of the hotel parties I've attended allowed for u to have privacy in a room away from the group playroom and crowd. I like to mingle in a crowd. Pick out some potential wives and shoot my shot. Often Im approached by the couple b4 i can even initiate anything. So there are perks. Obviously you or the couple you're with would need to have paid for that room though.

 

[Funmainecouple]

We've been to several. Not uncommon for us to hook up with three or four different partners each over the course of a party - we are swingers who play mfm, fmf and with couples. Generally, our experience is that these parties tend to draw cool, open people who are respectful of limits and nonjudgmental. Our gal half experienced her first super-hung BBC at one of these a few years back and she's been hooked ever since!

 

[dictonez]

I have been to several, some bbc specific others that were latin. Being that I'm Puerto Rican i fit in well in either. They are completely off the chain. I hope to get more of a party scene going in Sioux Falls because the parties are spares. Being a single male has never been a problem. Most parties I've been to let a small number of single males play if you get sponsored. The best ones I've been to were in Socal, and they happen every night somewhere if you search for them.

 

[38dddsquirter]

We've been to several. Since I love being watched they are always a big turn on.

 

[MarkandMary]

We have to lots of clubs and swinger parties include many hotel takeovers with 300 swingers attending. They can be a wild time.

 

[Ram197340]

Been to several both at a club, hotel and private home setting

 

[RandC]

Yes recently...there were four wives my age and about 9-10 black guys 25-45 yrs old...the house was large with a few bedrooms, most of the activity took place in the living room though....way more to the story

 

[VegascplXXX]

We've spent our entire life at swing parties and events. Don't just assume swing clubs won't allow single men, most do. The bottom line is more couples are looking for a threesome than another couple. Single men are willing to pay more to attend. It's simple economics. For what it's worth here are a few suggestion for single men going to a swing party.

Dress and groom like you are going on a date.
Flirt! Should be self explanatory, but it's not. You should not ignore the husband, but he is not who you are having sex with. Don't talk about sports with the husband! Make her feel beautiful and sexy.

As you are flirting watch her body language. If she is moving closer, pressing her brests against your arm, that's a good sign. However, that does not mean she is going to frisk you. It means you are on the maybe list. Make contact with her in a non sexual way. If she continues continues to touch you, then get more aggressive. Pretty much common sense, but so many guys screw it up.

Don't talk too much. It's so easy for guys to talk themselves out of getting laid! It's easy to do, just keep talking about you. If you want to get laid, it's about her.

Don't tell me about your big dick! This SHOW and tell. Leave something for my imagination. It's also nice not to be disapointed!

Don't just go to a club once. It takes time to get to know people.

I would personally love to see more single men, particularly black men at swing parties.

 

[Trayreloaded]

Don't just assume swing clubs won't allow single men, most do. The bottom line is more couples are looking for a threesome than another couple. .

I have to strongly but respectfully disagree. Where i live there are pretty much no swinger clubs. But rather just a bunch of different parties thrown by your average, everyday freak. And just about 90% of those parties are for couples and single women only. And the other part of most couplee seeking threesomes is also something I've noticed to be untrue. Unless you're referring to fmf threesomes. Lol. Maybe its different in your neck of the woods, but around here in Michigan certainly not the case

 

[VegascplXXX]

It does make a difference where you live. In Laa Vegas there are at least a dozen swing clubs. One of them is couples only. You are correct there a lot of couples looking for, Unicorns, single females, who are plentiful when you are not on the hunt. They like so many have a fantasy that will never be fuliled. Don't just assume swing clubs don't allow singles. Single men particularly good looking black men are in high demand, What's the risk? Try it a few times, if it's not your thing don't go back. It is by far your best option for casual sex.

 

[Cacpl33]

We have, but more into discreet meets.

 

[djfrantank]

Went to a few. Most arent near me. So far they just been overpriced hangout sessions with women im not interested in. Paying money to compete with other men to get with ok women.

Rather use that money to get into the party to rent a hotel room and have fun with my steady hotwife where i can cum in her multiple times for 3 hours and not use a condom with a stranger.

 

[Jessi3825]

So, open question: I am into interracial only (my profile sort of screams that, I guess). I know and respect the fact that, for lots of people on here, interracial sex is only one facet of their sexual life, outside of their marriage or primary relationship.

I have been to Splash Mocha (which I love and can't say enough positive things about). But reading this post makes me think there are actually a lot of big interracial events. One can always find great one-on-one (or even a gb), but I actually have a lot of difficulty finding big IR events where you can meet lots of great people at once. The play time can be amazing, but I love being able to connect to people in the IR lifestyle community too.

Can anyone recommend other great IR events (other than Splash Mocha)?