First time. Not sure I liked it as much as I thought I would

MikeMan

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My wife of eleven years has always had a thing for black guys. It’s been a running joke between us but she started talking about it a lot over the last year. I finally asked how serious she was about it and she said she’s alwasy wanted to try a black dick. So if I was ever to be ok with it, she would do it.

I felt very secure in my marriage, never jealous, and didn’t think she would actually go through with it so I told her to go for it. Find a nice BBC, see what I care!

So we talked about how to find a guy. I suggested the internet which I wasn’t crazy about. She said there’s a black security guard at the hospital (she’s a nurse) that flirts with her a lot. She knew he’s hung because he doesn’t wear underwear so the outline is visible. I told her to set it up, which she did.

I was surprised but we all had a date. We met at a nearby casino and decided for comforts sake, they would fuck alone the first time while I drank and gambled. The security guard is named Terrance and he’s a really nice guy. Clearly a gym rat.

My wife excitedly went upstairs to the room with Terrance but I expected her to come back down shortly after they left. I expected her to get cold feet but she didn’t. They were in the room for damn near two hours before they came down. My wife had obviously been fucked. The smile on her face gave it away.

I felt sick. My wife had just fucked another guy! I didn’t like it much but figured it was done. Time to move right? Wrong. Terrance stuck around and drank with us, gambled, and danced with my wife.

Later on, tiff was ready for round two. She brought me up with them this time so I could watch. Apparently Terrance had only three condoms with him so he was out. My lovely wife said “don’t worry about it, I have an IUD.”

So Terrance fucked my wife without a condom. He really gave it to her. His dick lived up to its reputation. It is big! I watched it pound my wife’s pussy while I did nothing but snap a couple pics that she wanted.

My dick was hard from excitement but I also felt sick to my stomach. Jealousy crept in. I just wanted them to finish so it could be over and I could have my wife back. Terrance came inside her finally.

He didn’t leave though. He hung out longer at the invitation of my wife, and we all fell asleep on the king bed. I woke early in the morning to a rocking bed and sex moans. They were going at it again. I lay there watching Terrance fuck while I masfurbated and heard her whisper in his ear to cum inside her again.

After we checked out, I thought it was over. I was glad we did it so she could cross it off the list. I was wrong again. Terrance fucked Tiff only 3 nights ago, but Tiff is already trying to set up a date. She can’t wait to go again.

Is this like buying a new car. You get all excited to drive the thing, even if it’s just to the grocery store. Soon the novelty wears off and it’s just a car again. Is that what this is? Or am I going to be a regular ole cuckold husband?
 

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You need to talk o her and communicate your feelings. Bulls don't want to take your spouse. And given the choice of emotional and financial support or a big dick, woman will choose the provider and the mn she loves. BLACK DICK IS NOT LIKE CRACK an addictive white substance!! People on here just say that *******. Once you go black, you get a tee shirt and go home.
 
Sounds pretty strait forward and real to us... Its about understanding that we aren't really the center of their universe but rather a planet around them. Your feelings are real and you need to tell her about them. She may just be enjoying her new 'car' because she knows it can go away as fast as it came. She is trying it out to see what it can do and man you need to understand success is going to depend on how each of you handle the whole thing. As you know, his whole thing is risky... very risky and in the lifestyle anything can and will happen...good and bad. There is plenty of time to talk and sort this all out... own it and get a hold of the wheel and drive it before you hit a sharp curve that can bring lots of bad stuff. Good luck to you and keep us posted. Thanks!!
 
MikeMan said:
My wife of eleven years has always had a thing for black guys. It’s been a running joke between us but she started talking about it a lot over the last year. I finally asked how serious she was about it and she said she’s alwasy wanted to try a black dick. So if I was ever to be ok with it, she would do it.

I felt very secure in my marriage, never jealous, and didn’t think she would actually go through with it so I told her to go for it. Find a nice BBC, see what I care!

So we talked about how to find a guy. I suggested the internet which I wasn’t crazy about. She said there’s a black security guard at the hospital (she’s a nurse) that flirts with her a lot. She knew he’s hung because he doesn’t wear underwear so the outline is visible. I told her to set it up, which she did.

I was surprised but we all had a date. We met at a nearby casino and decided for comforts sake, they would fuck alone the first time while I drank and gambled. The security guard is named Terrance and he’s a really nice guy. Clearly a gym rat.

My wife excitedly went upstairs to the room with Terrance but I expected her to come back down shortly after they left. I expected her to get cold feet but she didn’t. They were in the room for damn near two hours before they came down. My wife had obviously been fucked. The smile on her face gave it away.

I felt sick. My wife had just fucked another guy! I didn’t like it much but figured it was done. Time to move right? Wrong. Terrance stuck around and drank with us, gambled, and danced with my wife.

Later on, tiff was ready for round two. She brought me up with them this time so I could watch. Apparently Terrance had only three condoms with him so he was out. My lovely wife said “don’t worry about it, I have an IUD.”

So Terrance fucked my wife without a condom. He really gave it to her. His dick lived up to its reputation. It is big! I watched it pound my wife’s pussy while I did nothing but snap a couple pics that she wanted.

My dick was hard from excitement but I also felt sick to my stomach. Jealousy crept in. I just wanted them to finish so it could be over and I could have my wife back. Terrance came inside her finally.

He didn’t leave though. He hung out longer at the invitation of my wife, and we all fell asleep on the king bed. I woke early in the morning to a rocking bed and sex moans. They were going at it again. I lay there watching Terrance fuck while I masfurbated and heard her whisper in his ear to cum inside her again.

After we checked out, I thought it was over. I was glad we did it so she could cross it off the list. I was wrong again. Terrance fucked Tiff only 3 nights ago, but Tiff is already trying to set up a date. She can’t wait to go again.

Is this like buying a new car. You get all excited to drive the thing, even if it’s just to the grocery store. Soon the novelty wears off and it’s just a car again. Is that what this is? Or am I going to be a regular ole cuckold husband?
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Talk to your wife. Tell her how you feel about this. Maybe a time out would do the trick. Point is, she has to know how you feel about this, that you are not comfortable right now. If you don 't it could get ugly.
 
What you’re experiencing is normal with the feelings of jealously and excitement! It’s a crazy twist of feelings! Like someone said communication is really the key! Your wife is probably excited like most women are when seeing a new person and I’m sure the sex is amazing between her and Terrance! Your wife may also be seeing your excitement when you get hard and jerk off while watching them! This is all new to both of you and you guys need to talk about it!

Do you still watch them or is she fucking him with out you being there?

Nurses are crazy, I’m dating one lol!

Thanks for the awesome pictures, hope we get to see more!
 
We have seen that reaction many times, where the wife loves it, and hubby gets jealous.

And your analogy "Is this like buying a new car. You get all excited to drive the thing, even if it’s just to the grocery store. Soon the novelty wears off and it’s just a car again. Is that what this is? Or am I going to be a regular ole cuckold husband?" We have a street-legal race car, and every time we turn the ignition on, the excitement is there. So, think of the new Ford, Chevy, etc, and how the newness wears off, and realize that your wife with a black man is experiencing a Ferrari! That never gets old. I admittedly had a similar feeling at one point and asked my wife to stop; she said "No!" All these years later I am happy she didn't, but for awhile I struggled.
 
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MikeMan said:
My wife of eleven years has always had a thing for black guys. It’s been a running joke between us but she started talking about it a lot over the last year. I finally asked how serious she was about it and she said she’s alwasy wanted to try a black dick. So if I was ever to be ok with it, she would do it.
I felt very secure in my marriage, never jealous, and didn’t think she would actually go through with it so I told her to go for it. Find a nice BBC, see what I care!
So we talked about how to find a guy. I suggested the internet which I wasn’t crazy about. She said there’s a black security guard at the hospital (she’s a nurse) that flirts with her a lot. She knew he’s hung because he doesn’t wear underwear so the outline is visible. I told her to set it up, which she did.
I was surprised but we all had a date. We met at a nearby casino and decided for comforts sake, they would fuck alone the first time while I drank and gambled. The security guard is named Terrance and he’s a really nice guy. Clearly a gym rat.
My wife excitedly went upstairs to the room with Terrance but I expected her to come back down shortly after they left. I expected her to get cold feet but she didn’t. They were in the room for damn near two hours before they came down. My wife had obviously been fucked. The smile on her face gave it away.
I felt sick. My wife had just fucked another guy! I didn’t like it much but figured it was done. Time to move right? Wrong. Terrance stuck around and drank with us, gambled, and danced with my wife.
Later on, tiff was ready for round two. She brought me up with them this time so I could watch. Apparently Terrance had only three condoms with him so he was out. My lovely wife said “don’t worry about it, I have an IUD.”
So Terrance fucked my wife without a condom. He really gave it to her. His dick lived up to its reputation. It is big! I watched it pound my wife’s pussy while I did nothing but snap a couple pics that she wanted.
My dick was hard from excitement but I also felt sick to my stomach. Jealousy crept in. I just wanted them to finish so it could be over and I could have my wife back. Terrance came inside her finally.
He didn’t leave though. He hung out longer at the invitation of my wife, and we all fell asleep on the king bed. I woke early in the morning to a rocking bed and sex moans. They were going at it again. I lay there watching Terrance fuck while I masfurbated and heard her whisper in his ear to cum inside her again.
After we checked out, I thought it was over. I was glad we did it so she could cross it off the list. I was wrong again. Terrance fucked Tiff only 3 nights ago, but Tiff is already trying to set up a date. She can’t wait to go again.
Is this like buying a new car. You get all excited to drive the thing, even if it’s just to the grocery store. Soon the novelty wears off and it’s just a car again. Is that what this is? Or am I going to be a regular ole cuckold husband?
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It is likely that Tiff will continue in the lifestyle, even after the NRE phase with Terrance quietens down. Unlike most couples, she was the one who instigated it, and she is clearly enjoying it. I know that some wives eventually tire of the lifestyle, but it is usually after many years. You are clearly enjoying it at some level. You are masturbating and taking pictures. It is not unusual for husbands to have early jitters, but I think that they will eventually disappear.
 
Thank you all for the input so far. It’s really putting some perspective on things. There was definitely a level of complacency I didn’t realize was there in my marriage. I thought it’s just sex right? The physical part was fun and exciting. Then here comes the emotional side I failed to consider. Now I’m playing catch up. I need to talk to her for sure so she knows how I’m feeling. She’s just so excited still and hasn’t come down from the high of experienceing a long time fantasy. I hate to burst that bubble with some negativity. I don’t even know if I want her to stop, I just wish I enjoyed it like some of the guys on the site do. Anyway, I’ll keep everyone posted. Thanks again
 
I would give anything to to watch my wife do that but am afraid she'd get too attached emotionally. She fucked a very well hung black guy in college and said it was the best she's ever had. So for now it's just a fantasy.
 
The title should be "A Guide How Not To Do It"!

MikeMan said:
My wife of eleven years has always had a thing for black guys. It’s been a running joke between us but she started talking about it a lot over the last year. I finally asked how serious she was about it and she said she’s alwasy wanted to try a black dick. So if I was ever to be ok with it, she would do it.(...)
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First ALARM bell ringing: Why is she (all of a sudden) willing to go for it for real?
Should also get you thinking... Why has she started talking about it a lot over the last year (as opposed to the years before)?
Should make you wonder: Is there a reason (= a person!) for that?
MikeMan said:
(...)I felt very secure in my marriage, never jealous, and didn’t think she would actually go through with it so I told her to go for it. Find a nice BBC, see what I care!(...)
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Sometimes men act like that, overconfidently with their relationship (even if they really are not). This may be in order to show their wives/girlfriends how serious about making it a reality, or maybe they simply want to exude strength. The problem is that no matter how often and intensely you have talked about this particular lifestyle/sexual kink already, it is still but a fantasy (at least for the women) and typically they will judge where the relationship stands based on "traditional relationship" values.

A man with no doubt nor jealousy at the prospect of the woman (his own wife or girlfriend!) having sex with another man is typically perceived as less caring for the relationship and less appreciating his woman. - Not good for the relationship at all!

Also your statement you "didn’t think she would actually go through with it" tells that you were actually not prepared for it!
MikeMan said:
(...)So we talked about how to find a guy. I suggested the internet which I wasn’t crazy about. She said there’s a black security guard at the hospital (she’s a nurse) that flirts with her a lot. She knew he’s hung because he doesn’t wear underwear so the outline is visible. I told her to set it up, which she did.(...)
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Of course she did! Because (most probably) he was her pick right from the beginning. From the moment she told you she was ready to go for it. From the moment she startet to "talk about it a lot" about one year ago. Even before that when she started to fantasize about her being with that exact security guard she now knows so well from every single day she had been at work with him, even before she had the guts to pillow-talk more with you about her being with "a black guy".
MikeMan said:
(...)I was surprised but we all had a date.(...)
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You didn`t take your responsibility as the "cuckold husband" to plan and set this up together. Instead you let it happen?!
MikeMan said:
(...)We met at a nearby casino and decided for comforts sake, they would fuck alone the first time while I drank and gambled. (...)
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So you let your wife play on her own (= outside the lifestyle) with a guy she had been "flirting with a lot" over the course of one year, she has had her talks and laughs with (= an emotional bond!) "for comforts sake"?
MikeMan said:
(...)My wife excitedly went upstairs to the room with Terrance but I expected her to come back down shortly after they left. I expected her to get cold feet but she didn’t.(...)
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And how? By the time she had decided to do this she exactly knew what (and who!) she wanted.
MikeMan said:
(...)They were in the room for damn near two hours before they came down. My wife had obviously been fucked. The smile on her face gave it away.

I felt sick.(...)
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...so much for the "comfort".
MikeMan said:
(...)My wife had just fucked another guy! I didn’t like it much but figured it was done. Time to move right? Wrong. Terrance stuck around and drank with us, gambled, and danced with my wife.

(...)

My dick was hard from excitement but I also felt sick to my stomach. Jealousy crept in. I just wanted them to finish so it could be over and I could have my wife back. Terrance came inside her finally.

He didn’t leave though. He hung out longer at the invitation of my wife, and we all fell asleep on the king bed. I woke early in the morning to a rocking bed and sex moans. They were going at it again. I lay there watching Terrance fuck while I masfurbated and heard her whisper in his ear to cum inside her again.

After we checked out, I thought it was over. I was glad we did it so she could cross it off the list. I was wrong again. Terrance fucked Tiff only 3 nights ago, but Tiff is already trying to set up a date. She can’t wait to go again.(...)
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She didn`t make you a (lifestyle) cuckold - a husband who not only gets excited but actually enjoys a shared sexual experience with his wife (even though he may have mixed feelings). But she made you a wittol - a husband who is left to accept his wife`s escapades even he is unsure of his own emotions.


This story was quite well-written i have to admit. But now that i gave a somewhat detailed answer, don`t let you be fooled. It doesn`t mean i believe the story is actually a true one. But, if by any chance it is, my only advice is: Be a husband and act like that! ...because your marriage is severely at risk!

The broblem is that (A) "Terrance " is not a stranger but (B) someone "Tiff" has (also) an emotional bond with, and (C) "you" did not do anything to show how much you love her and how less you want to lose her! Good luck (fictional) "Mike"!

MikeMan said:
(...)Is this like buying a new car. You get all excited to drive the thing, even if it’s just to the grocery store. Soon the novelty wears off and it’s just a car again. Is that what this is? Or am I going to be a regular ole cuckold husband?
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No. It is buying her a Ferrari and you sitting in an old side car that will get detached the first time he pushes the throttle.
 
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