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catalist121
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OK - I have to say this is a very deep thinking subject. It was actually on my mind over night. I am always trying to figure my own husband out or step into his mind if you will. But now thru this site I am learning that many white men/husbands seem to think the same way my husband does - and I can't for the life of me understand why.
The whole subject of interracial relationships (and more so Black men/white women) can be the most exciting fantasy for people. Sorry if this sounds racist in any way but lets face it - as young teens we even hear how black men are more aggressive more dominating sexually, how they possess larger cocks on average then all other races of men. This leads to a very explosive image sexually for most of us. Most of us fantasize about being taken and ravished by a strong dominating black man who is superior by all means sexually. And here lies my confusion - fantasy vs reality. Yes I am one of those that are here who is all talk - no action but it is because both my husband and I love the fantasy over anything else. BUT he has expressed an interest years ago for me to take it to the next level and try it for real . This had hurt me deeeply to hear and really made me mad at him for a long time - years ( which I have recently started to share in the fantasy again with him).
SO...... my confusion about doing it for real is how can my husband say he loves me yet want me with others! Were is his jealousy, his desire to protect me - his wife? How can he sit back and watch/know I am with a man who is his superior sexually and not want to step in and defend my honor as my husband - fight for me?
I could never sit back and let him be with say some other women like I have seen posting here. It would ******* me to see him with someone I feel is more sexual or has a better body then me. I should be all he wants sexually in reality. My jealousy would send me thru the roof! And this may be what CaptJoe's husband is feeling/struggling with now that it has gone past fantasy -the reality that he LET his wife step out sexually.
Sorry for the rambling but like I said this is really a subject that weights on my mind much deeper then I think I let on.
The whole subject of interracial relationships (and more so Black men/white women) can be the most exciting fantasy for people. Sorry if this sounds racist in any way but lets face it - as young teens we even hear how black men are more aggressive more dominating sexually, how they possess larger cocks on average then all other races of men. This leads to a very explosive image sexually for most of us. Most of us fantasize about being taken and ravished by a strong dominating black man who is superior by all means sexually. And here lies my confusion - fantasy vs reality. Yes I am one of those that are here who is all talk - no action but it is because both my husband and I love the fantasy over anything else. BUT he has expressed an interest years ago for me to take it to the next level and try it for real . This had hurt me deeeply to hear and really made me mad at him for a long time - years ( which I have recently started to share in the fantasy again with him).
SO...... my confusion about doing it for real is how can my husband say he loves me yet want me with others! Were is his jealousy, his desire to protect me - his wife? How can he sit back and watch/know I am with a man who is his superior sexually and not want to step in and defend my honor as my husband - fight for me?
I could never sit back and let him be with say some other women like I have seen posting here. It would ******* me to see him with someone I feel is more sexual or has a better body then me. I should be all he wants sexually in reality. My jealousy would send me thru the roof! And this may be what CaptJoe's husband is feeling/struggling with now that it has gone past fantasy -the reality that he LET his wife step out sexually.
Sorry for the rambling but like I said this is really a subject that weights on my mind much deeper then I think I let on.