I've had a few ex's in my past and although the break-ups were all mutual with no bad feelings, I never think of them now. However, in my teens, I dated a girl who's prior bf was black and very well endowed. He was her 1st and she thought all guys were about the same! I never felt inadequate, with my average 5", as we had lots of sex and she orgasmed everytime. She dated a white guy, after me, and I don't know anything after that.