madison1155
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Wife and I (both white) have been very happily married for 14 years. I have known since before we were married that my wife had black lovers in her sexual history. There were so many hints. Only until recently did she finally confirm all this.
Knowing her sexual appetites very early on I have played on them in our bedroom. Our sexual satisfaction always reached a higher level for her when I did this. This was done either in fantasy or role-play. Afterwards, however, she would feel embarrassed at how aroused it made her. Her sexual excitement is my excitement. She knows that I do not feel threatened by any of this. Our love for each other is very firmly rooted.
For the sake of our own love life, I want her to feel more comfortable and confident about her sexual interest in black men. That she can share that with me without feeling like she is somehow betraying me. Any advice? Thank you.
Knowing her sexual appetites very early on I have played on them in our bedroom. Our sexual satisfaction always reached a higher level for her when I did this. This was done either in fantasy or role-play. Afterwards, however, she would feel embarrassed at how aroused it made her. Her sexual excitement is my excitement. She knows that I do not feel threatened by any of this. Our love for each other is very firmly rooted.
For the sake of our own love life, I want her to feel more comfortable and confident about her sexual interest in black men. That she can share that with me without feeling like she is somehow betraying me. Any advice? Thank you.