1. This sounds nice and all. But in reality this so called white privilege has turned in to east asian privilege. That social control you claim does not exist. East asians out compete whites in all social aspects.
East Asians do out compete whites economically, but East Asians can be just as systematically racist as whites as well. That's why most of they're cultures are so homogeneous. There is also a lot of colorism within East Asian societies. For example, dark skinned Asians are looked down upon, and discriminated against by lighter skinned Asians. Asians, much like many white Americans practice supremacy as a group. Asians will also side against black people as well. I'm sure you know about Tila Tequila and the alt-right for example. In fact, most of what you said, sounds exactly like alt-right rhetoric. Richard Spencer and the rest of his crew, love bemoaning how white men are oppressed by non-white groups, when economically that's not true. Many black entrepreneurs have faced racism and white supremacy when trying to get money to start up businesses. Look up black wall street, and you will see how racism and white supremacy perpetuate.
2. EVERYONE is racist.Black people too. You just bought in to this lie about some invisible privilege. There might be effects from red lining. There might be policies that are negative for blacks (black families had a lower rate of divorce than whites before welfare for instance). That all might be true, but the framing that white men can get whatever they want because they are white is simply not true. The highest suicide rate in the country is young white men for a reason.
Everyone is not racist. There are people who evolve from negative thinking if they choose to and realize how racism - systematic racism works.
As far as white men getting whatever they want... yes, there are white people who struggle under white supremacy, but those same whites - typically the more rural, impoverished whites - can still hold racist views against black people. That's why the KKK flourish in those communities, while the alt-right flourishes in lower to middle income communities. Even if most white men and women don't have white privilege, they strive for it, through associations with other white men who already have it, or can share it. That's why the alt-right and the KKK, and even non-racist themed groups exist. There are still country clubs that aren't very inclusive towards minorities.
3. you say they give you the illusion of control, while they stay in control. I wonder what you expect from a married couple?
I have no idea where you are going with this statement. If you are talking about control in terms of protecting themselves, I get it. But, I was talking about control in a white privilege / white supremacy sense. Most white people, know that black men desire white women, and use that to subjugate black men sexually. Well, the best way to subjugate someone sexually, or in any form, is to give them the illusion they have control over you or a situation, when in reality, the person control the situation is the one in control. You don't really have choices, when someone else is telling you the choices you have. That's not freedom. A truly, non-racist, or non white supremacist couple, does not treat a black man as another penis or fetish. They make decisions mutually with a brother, and then let things pop off as they should. Sadly, though, this does not seem the case most of the time. Black men are disposable in this lifestyle, just as they are disposable at jobs run by white people, or other relationships with white people. If you can't see a black man beyond the pleasure he brings you, I strongly suspect that you might have racist or white supremacist leanings. Its just that simple, and for me, as a self-realized conscious black man, no piece of white ass is worth that treatment. None. Nada. Zilch.
