Easiest way to tell wife you want to be cuckolded?

[jane mintu]

Hi pvak74 - have you shared your desire to be cuckolded with your wife?

After several years of keeping it to myself, I finally opened up to my wife about the lifestyle and what truely excites me sexually - post-sex as we were lying next to each other I finally mustered the courage to be honest about my sexuallity - wanting be a cuckold. She was very suppportive and admitted she was getting a little tired of our bedroom routine - and even sensed something was "off". I provided her some information on the topic and we have been slowly progressing since that night. While we are still an aspiring couple, the idea has ignited our bedroom play and opened up our communication. And I am happier because I can be me in the bedroom - more submissive.

My advice is don't over think it and share in the right moment...soon - you are behaving sexually like you have already shared this with her and she is onboard - she is obviously confused about your lack of desire to want penetrative sex with her - as you state "she wants you and not the toy". She may be thinking that you don't want her sexually - creating a potential toxic situation to your relationship.

Good luck.

great ideas

 

[jane mintu]

I was trying to tell my conservative wife I love being cuckolded but am afraid of how she would react. Wasn't totally sure how to do this. Sex with us used to be far better but since I started getting into it, i started fantasizing about it especially during sex and do cum a lot faster. The wife is pretty conservative and I am afraid how she'd react to it. We have used larger dildos at times and she seems to react pretty good to using them. She cums pretty hard on them. She would tell me at times she wants me and not the dildo but after a few years of conditioning myself with cuckolding, I am now almost premature when we fuck. Sex has gotten less and less, and now mostly consists of us mutually masturbating each other to orgasm. Occasionally I can use the big dildo on her if I ask (she cums so hard on it when it's used) and once in a blue moon we have intercourse and I cum really fast partly because I don't get it often and partly because I'm imagining her getting pounded by huge bbc. The best idea I had was from a forum member who said to tell her the next time we start mutual masturbating each other that I had a wet dream where I was watching her fuck a huge cock. And to tell her that I woke up cumming from the dream and it was so hot watching her with a big dick. Hopefully she would then take it from there. Still hesitant on this, but it seems the best way of introducing my cuckolding to her. Anyone have other ideas?

yes...........................

 

[Cuckloversissy]

It started with us arguing and her telling me I have a small penis and other guys she has been with were way bigger. That evolved into me asking about them and her being shy but eventually talking about how they had big dicks and how a few of them were so big she could barely handle it.

I got so excited and one time asked to go down on her and jerk off while she told me about getting fucked by the biggest cock she has felt. She got super into it and how much she loved it and I begged her to keep telling me and she admited my dick was pathetic and started more and more about humiliating me at the hands of another man and I admitted I would love that.

The rest is about 15 months of us exploring the fantasy and her admitting what she wants and me saying what I want.

 

[Whitebetasub]

What I've told women is just something like, "you know honey, you look so good to me that I fantasize about you all the time. In fact, the other night I had a dream you were getting the ******* fucked out of you by some other guy and I couldn't believe how turned on I was."

 

[dunacouple]

It started with us arguing and her telling me I have a small penis and other guys she has been with were way bigger.

A woman who starts to talk about your dick size when you are in a fight sounds like a horrible person.

 

[Cuckloversissy]

A woman who starts to talk about your dick size when you are in a fight sounds like a horrible person.

Well she's not. Hence why I proposed to her.

 

[leephil]

I have been trying to get my wife experience another man we roleplay a lot and when we have sex I tell her she needs to fuck more and take more cockshe really gets hot with this talk but she'll I am big enough when we fuck I'll pull out of for awhile and then whe I reentered I tell now you have my friends cock in you then I move my fingers to her lips and she sucks wildly on them and I'll say now you are taking two cocks she gets hot as hell and she cums hard it is great now if I can move her to the real thing that would be great

 

[ok_couple49]

It's a shame Hallmark doesn't make a card for this.

"Roses are red. Violets are blue. You are so beautiful, I think you should only fuck black men while I watch."

OK- that doesn't really rhyme but you all get the idea. There a fortune to be made if anyone is an entrepreneur.

How about this:

Roses are red. Violets are blue. You are so sexy I know what do,
Find something to arouse you, excite you and make you coo
Get you a Bull, all dark skinned and black,
All muscular, Well hung, and with a six pack,
With a cock so large it will undoubtedly hurt,
But it’s pounding and thrusting will make you squirt!

 

[CuckToBeInWV]

A woman who starts to talk about your dick size when you are in a fight sounds like a horrible person.

Not really the best way (in my opinion) to get into this lifestyle. I think that could lead to her leaving him in the future due to it. But hey...if both are happy with the humiliation, I guess maybe it works for them.

 

[ashley cocks]

This may or may not help. What I did was, I started talking dirty during sex. Over time I hinted that a threesome with me and another man could be fun. Through some hinting and patience, we found a young white guy who was well endowed to bang her. I helped but I let him enjoy her mostly and then I got her when he left. Later I spoke of BBC and the size difference. Now she talks about it during sex also. It's been a long task but I think it's heading in the right direction.

What we did was after second white guy she was into it so the third guy she chated briefly with a couple times we set up a night to play 5 minutes before he arrived i told her he just called almost here snd he wanted to come in and find her blind folded on bed so before she had a chance to think about what was going on i blind folded her and had her naked on the bed. 1 minute later as he walked in and took his clothes off before coming back to bedroom . she could her his walking and i slid off her and she felt his hands slud from her ankles up spreading her legs as he slowly pushed his larger then mine cock in her and fucked her sliwly she was going nuts and to warch him fucking her with those long slow strokes was hot i had to share it with her so i removed blind fold and she kinda freaked for a minute . i seen her try to wiggle out from underneath him and maybe said a couple wtf's but he kept on top of her and slowly kept fucking her and then it happened she stopsd wiggling AND i went nuts as she gave in to him and instead of looking pissed and trying to get out from him she slowly started lifting her ass fucking him back and then vrabbing his ass and getting him deeper and now begging him to fuck her pussy good and dont stop and omg it was hot as hell. It could had went the other direction it was close but she gave in and fucked him again the next day.

 

[mw29]

I was trying to tell my conservative wife I love being cuckolded but am afraid of how she would react. Wasn't totally sure how to do this. Sex with us used to be far better but since I started getting into it, i started fantasizing about it especially during sex and do cum a lot faster. The wife is pretty conservative and I am afraid how she'd react to it. We have used larger dildos at times and she seems to react pretty good to using them. She cums pretty hard on them. She would tell me at times she wants me and not the dildo but after a few years of conditioning myself with cuckolding, I am now almost premature when we fuck. Sex has gotten less and less, and now mostly consists of us mutually masturbating each other to orgasm. Occasionally I can use the big dildo on her if I ask (she cums so hard on it when it's used) and once in a blue moon we have intercourse and I cum really fast partly because I don't get it often and partly because I'm imagining her getting pounded by huge bbc. The best idea I had was from a forum member who said to tell her the next time we start mutual masturbating each other that I had a wet dream where I was watching her fuck a huge cock. And to tell her that I woke up cumming from the dream and it was so hot watching her with a big dick. Hopefully she would then take it from there. Still hesitant on this, but it seems the best way of introducing my cuckolding to her. Anyone have other ideas?

Great posting, your honesty in needing real advise is very genuine. Much like yourself I am in the completly same situation with my life and wife, we are at the beginning stages of using a black dildo with her and I am trying to get her to open up to the idea to venture outside our comitted marriage and consider being sexual with a black man. When the time is right for us I am considering the same thing mentioning i had a dream of her with a black man as i watched from a distance I was so turned on seeing her pleasing and being pleased and you in lust, I wasent jealous but so turned on and just loved watching, I woke up as hard as ever almost about to cum..

I do think if you ever mention it it shoukd be a day or two after using the dildo with her and NOT in the heat of the moment, as it seems more genuine and you will have planted a seed and i am sure it will be brought up by her going forward and for sure she will be thinking about it since as yourself the bedroom has become a bore sexually, same time you never get a negitve reaction to her and you saying cuckolding , it was all a dream.

 

[mw29]

Great posting, your honesty in needing real advise is very genuine. Much like yourself I am in the completly same situation with my life and wife, we are at the beginning stages of using a black dildo with her and I am trying to get her to open up to the idea to venture outside our comitted marriage and consider being sexual with a black man. When the time is right for us I am considering the same thing mentioning i had a dream of her with a black man as i watched from a distance I was so turned on seeing her pleasing and being pleased and you in lust, I wasent jealous but so turned on and just loved watching, I woke up as hard as ever almost about to cum..

I do think if you ever mention it it shoukd be a day or two after using the dildo with her and NOT in the heat of the moment, as it seems more genuine and you will have planted a seed and i am sure it will be brought up by her going forward and for sure she will be thinking about it since as yourself the bedroom has become a bore sexually, same time you never get a negitve reaction to her and you saying cuckolding , it was all a dream.

 

[Netter69]

I was trying to tell my conservative wife I love being cuckolded but am afraid of how she would react. Wasn't totally sure how to do this. Sex with us used to be far better but since I started getting into it, i started fantasizing about it especially during sex and do cum a lot faster. The wife is pretty conservative and I am afraid how she'd react to it. We have used larger dildos at times and she seems to react pretty good to using them. She cums pretty hard on them. She would tell me at times she wants me and not the dildo but after a few years of conditioning myself with cuckolding, I am now almost premature when we fuck. Sex has gotten less and less, and now mostly consists of us mutually masturbating each other to orgasm. Occasionally I can use the big dildo on her if I ask (she cums so hard on it when it's used) and once in a blue moon we have intercourse and I cum really fast partly because I don't get it often and partly because I'm imagining her getting pounded by huge bbc. The best idea I had was from a forum member who said to tell her the next time we start mutual masturbating each other that I had a wet dream where I was watching her fuck a huge cock. And to tell her that I woke up cumming from the dream and it was so hot watching her with a big dick. Hopefully she would then take it from there. Still hesitant on this, but it seems the best way of introducing my cuckolding to her. Anyone have other ideas?

Did it work out?

 

[mw29]

Great posting, your honesty in needing real advise is very genuine. Much like yourself I am in the completly same situation with my life and wife, we are at the beginning stages of using a black dildo with her and I am trying to get her to open up to the idea to venture outside our comitted marriage and consider being sexual with a black man. When the time is right for us I am considering the same thing mentioning i had a dream of her with a black man as i watched from a distance I was so turned on seeing her pleasing and being pleased and you in lust, I wasent jealous but so turned on and just loved watching, I woke up as hard as ever almost about to cum..

I do think if you ever mention it it shoukd be a day or two after using the dildo with her and NOT in the heat of the moment, as it seems more genuine and you will have planted a seed and i am sure it will be brought up by her going forward and for sure she will be thinking about it since as yourself the bedroom has become a bore sexually, same time you never get a negitve reaction to her and you saying cuckolding , it was all a dream..