Easiest way to tell wife you want to be cuckolded?

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pvak74

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I was trying to tell my conservative wife I love being cuckolded but am afraid of how she would react. Wasn't totally sure how to do this. Sex with us used to be far better but since I started getting into it, i started fantasizing about it especially during sex and do cum a lot faster. The wife is pretty conservative and I am afraid how she'd react to it. We have used larger dildos at times and she seems to react pretty good to using them. She cums pretty hard on them. She would tell me at times she wants me and not the dildo but after a few years of conditioning myself with cuckolding, I am now almost premature when we fuck. Sex has gotten less and less, and now mostly consists of us mutually masturbating each other to orgasm. Occasionally I can use the big dildo on her if I ask (she cums so hard on it when it's used) and once in a blue moon we have intercourse and I cum really fast partly because I don't get it often and partly because I'm imagining her getting pounded by huge bbc. The best idea I had was from a forum member who said to tell her the next time we start mutual masturbating each other that I had a wet dream where I was watching her fuck a huge cock. And to tell her that I woke up cumming from the dream and it was so hot watching her with a big dick. Hopefully she would then take it from there. Still hesitant on this, but it seems the best way of introducing my cuckolding to her. Anyone have other ideas?
 
This may or may not help. What I did was, I started talking dirty during sex. Over time I hinted that a threesome with me and another man could be fun. Through some hinting and patience, we found a young white guy who was well endowed to bang her. I helped but I let him enjoy her mostly and then I got her when he left. Later I spoke of BBC and the size difference. Now she talks about it during sex also. It's been a long task but I think it's heading in the right direction.
 
pvak74 said:
I was trying to tell my conservative wife I love being cuckolded but am afraid of how she would react. Wasn't totally sure how to do this. Sex with us used to be far better but since I started getting into it, i started fantasizing about it especially during sex and do cum a lot faster. The wife is pretty conservative and I am afraid how she'd react to it. We have used larger dildos at times and she seems to react pretty good to using them. She cums pretty hard on them. She would tell me at times she wants me and not the dildo but after a few years of conditioning myself with cuckolding, I am now almost premature when we fuck. Sex has gotten less and less, and now mostly consists of us mutually masturbating each other to orgasm. Occasionally I can use the big dildo on her if I ask (she cums so hard on it when it's used) and once in a blue moon we have intercourse and I cum really fast partly because I don't get it often and partly because I'm imagining her getting pounded by huge bbc. The best idea I had was from a forum member who said to tell her the next time we start mutual masturbating each other that I had a wet dream where I was watching her fuck a huge cock. And to tell her that I woke up cumming from the dream and it was so hot watching her with a big dick. Hopefully she would then take it from there. Still hesitant on this, but it seems the best way of introducing my cuckolding to her. Anyone have other ideas?
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I would start off with asking her about how she thinks your sex life is as a couple. If needed put it in the context of a good marriage talk. Even a conservative woman should want that. Explain the change you have noticed from yourself. You do not have to tell her why you started to cum faster, just tell her you do. See how she reacts. If she says has noticed it too. If she says she did not ignore it and do not push for her to say things.

If the mood is right start telling her how much you enjoy the big dildo because you love the way she reacts to it. Something you are not able to give her. If the conversation allows it you can start telling her it is actually arousing you that you feel you can not pleasure her that way. These types of conversations are important. You do not start with the final goal, you first have to explain what it is that you want without being too explicit.

After all that you can tell her you had a wet dream about a BBC taking her. Without the proper context that is just way too graphic.

women are afraid it will ruin the relationship. So you must make sure you are doing everything you can to make her happy. Assure her you love her every step of the way.
 
dunacouple said:
I would start off with asking her about how she thinks your sex life is as a couple. If needed put it in the context of a good marriage talk. Even a conservative woman should want that. Explain the change you have noticed from yourself. You do not have to tell her why you started to cum faster, just tell her you do. See how she reacts. If she says has noticed it too. If she says she did not ignore it and do not push for her to say things.

If the mood is right start telling her how much you enjoy the big dildo because you love the way she reacts to it. Something you are not able to give her. If the conversation allows it you can start telling her it is actually arousing you that you feel you can not pleasure her that way. These types of conversations are important. You do not start with the final goal, you first have to explain what it is that you want without being too explicit.

After all that you can tell her you had a wet dream about a BBC taking her. Without the proper context that is just way too graphic.

women are afraid it will ruin the relationship. So you must make sure you are doing everything you can to make her happy. Assure her you love her every step of the way.
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Love your ideas. It's something that I may need to implement in baby steps
 
pvak74 said:
I was trying to tell my conservative wife I love being cuckolded but am afraid of how she would react. Wasn't totally sure how to do this. Sex with us used to be far better but since I started getting into it, i started fantasizing about it especially during sex and do cum a lot faster. The wife is pretty conservative and I am afraid how she'd react to it. We have used larger dildos at times and she seems to react pretty good to using them. She cums pretty hard on them. She would tell me at times she wants me and not the dildo but after a few years of conditioning myself with cuckolding, I am now almost premature when we fuck. Sex has gotten less and less, and now mostly consists of us mutually masturbating each other to orgasm. Occasionally I can use the big dildo on her if I ask (she cums so hard on it when it's used) and once in a blue moon we have intercourse and I cum really fast partly because I don't get it often and partly because I'm imagining her getting pounded by huge bbc. The best idea I had was from a forum member who said to tell her the next time we start mutual masturbating each other that I had a wet dream where I was watching her fuck a huge cock. And to tell her that I woke up cumming from the dream and it was so hot watching her with a big dick. Hopefully she would then take it from there. Still hesitant on this, but it seems the best way of introducing my cuckolding to her. Anyone have other ideas?
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Great posting, your honesty in needing real advise is very genuine. Much like yourself I am in the completly same situation with my life and wife, we are at the beginning stages of using a black dildo with her and I am trying to get her to open up to the idea to venture outside our comitted marriage and consider being sexual with a black man. When the time is right for us I am considering the same thing mentioning i had a dream of her with a black man as i watched from a distance I was so turned on seeing her pleasing and being pleased and you in lust, I wasent jealous but so turned on and just loved watching, I woke up as hard as ever almost about to cum..

I do think if you ever mention it it shoukd be a day or two after using the dildo with her and NOT in the heat of the moment, as it seems more genuine and you will have planted a seed and i am sure it will be brought up by her going forward and for sure she will be thinking about it since as yourself the bedroom has become a bore sexually, same time you never get a negitve reaction to her and you saying cuckolding , it was all a dream..
 
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pvak74 said:
I was trying to tell my conservative wife I love being cuckolded but am afraid of how she would react. Wasn't totally sure how to do this. Sex with us used to be far better but since I started getting into it, i started fantasizing about it especially during sex and do cum a lot faster. The wife is pretty conservative and I am afraid how she'd react to it. We have used larger dildos at times and she seems to react pretty good to using them. She cums pretty hard on them. She would tell me at times she wants me and not the dildo but after a few years of conditioning myself with cuckolding, I am now almost premature when we fuck. Sex has gotten less and less, and now mostly consists of us mutually masturbating each other to orgasm. Occasionally I can use the big dildo on her if I ask (she cums so hard on it when it's used) and once in a blue moon we have intercourse and I cum really fast partly because I don't get it often and partly because I'm imagining her getting pounded by huge bbc. The best idea I had was from a forum member who said to tell her the next time we start mutual masturbating each other that I had a wet dream where I was watching her fuck a huge cock. And to tell her that I woke up cumming from the dream and it was so hot watching her with a big dick. Hopefully she would then take it from there. Still hesitant on this, but it seems the best way of introducing my cuckolding to her. Anyone have other ideas?
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I think you should just be honest and see where it goes! Sometimes being straight edge is a go between! Or, you can just really hint at that in the dream sequence you mention and that should entice the Convo
 
JerseyGirl said:
It's a shame Hallmark doesn't make a card for this.

"Roses are red. Violets are blue. You are so beautiful, I think you should only fuck black men while I watch."

OK- that doesn't really rhyme but you all get the idea. There a fortune to be made if anyone is an entrepreneur.
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LMAO! Best idea yet!
 
JerseyGirl said:
It's a shame Hallmark doesn't make a card for this.

"Roses are red. Violets are blue. You are so beautiful, I think you should only fuck black men while I watch."

OK- that doesn't really rhyme but you all get the idea. There a fortune to be made if anyone is an entrepreneur.
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Roses are red, violets are blue. I've got a big black cock here for you! Happy birthday honey!
 
pvak74 said:
I was trying to tell my conservative wife I love being cuckolded but am afraid of how she would react. Wasn't totally sure how to do this. Sex with us used to be far better but since I started getting into it, i started fantasizing about it especially during sex and do cum a lot faster. The wife is pretty conservative and I am afraid how she'd react to it. We have used larger dildos at times and she seems to react pretty good to using them. She cums pretty hard on them. She would tell me at times she wants me and not the dildo but after a few years of conditioning myself with cuckolding, I am now almost premature when we fuck. Sex has gotten less and less, and now mostly consists of us mutually masturbating each other to orgasm. Occasionally I can use the big dildo on her if I ask (she cums so hard on it when it's used) and once in a blue moon we have intercourse and I cum really fast partly because I don't get it often and partly because I'm imagining her getting pounded by huge bbc. The best idea I had was from a forum member who said to tell her the next time we start mutual masturbating each other that I had a wet dream where I was watching her fuck a huge cock. And to tell her that I woke up cumming from the dream and it was so hot watching her with a big dick. Hopefully she would then take it from there. Still hesitant on this, but it seems the best way of introducing my cuckolding to her. Anyone have other ideas?
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Couple of ways to introduce idea
As you explained you can pretend that you saw a dream in which some well endowed guy fucked her and see how she reacts
Tell fictitious story of one of your aquantance as to how he became cuckold hubby and he really enjoys it and watch her reaction
Take her to swingers party on the pretext of curiosity ...dont try to be pushy..dont try to convince anything..just let her see how other women enjoy it..
Ask any of your friend to send you article on cuckolding and pretend dont know much about it and get her to read about and create curiosity for her...
 
mw29 said:
Great posting, your honesty in needing real advise is very genuine. Much like yourself I am in the completly same situation with my life and wife, we are at the beginning stages of using a black dildo with her and I am trying to get her to open up to the idea to venture outside our comitted marriage and consider being sexual with a black man. When the time is right for us I am considering the same thing mentioning i had a dream of her with a black man as i watched from a distance I was so turned on seeing her pleasing and being pleased and you in lust, I wasent jealous but so turned on and just loved watching, I woke up as hard as ever almost about to cum..

I do think if you ever mention it it shoukd be a day or two after using the dildo with her and NOT in the heat of the moment, as it seems more genuine and you will have planted a seed and i am sure it will be brought up by her going forward and for sure she will be thinking about it since as yourself the bedroom has become a bore sexually, same time you never get a negitve reaction to her and you saying cuckolding , it was all a dream..
Click to expand...
 
MOGAMBO said:
Couple of ways to introduce idea
As you explained you can pretend that you saw a dream in which some well endowed guy fucked her and see how she reacts
Tell fictitious story of one of your aquantance as to how he became cuckold hubby and he really enjoys it and watch her reaction
Take her to swingers party on the pretext of curiosity ...dont try to be pushy..dont try to convince anything..just let her see how other women enjoy it..
Ask any of your friend to send you article on cuckolding and pretend dont know much about it and get her to read about and create curiosity for her...
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good share..................
 
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