Welcome to the club. Many men want to experience the same thing with their wives. Questions:
1) Have you shared your fantasy with your wife?
2) How long have you been married?
3) Your ages?
4) Does she have any toys and if not has she ever used one?
5) Have you put any thought into a concrete plan to make this happen?
Many people on here, including myself, would be happy to help and give you advice on how to make this happen. Answer the questions above and provide any other information you might think is appropriate then we can start helping you. Good luck
Here are the answers given by the original poster.
1) Have you shared your fantasy with your wife? No, I don’t shared the fantasy with her, I don’t dare. I don’t want to lose her.
2) How long have you been married? 15 years
3) Your ages? wife 35 and I‘m 39
4) Does she have any toys and if not has she ever used one? yes, she have toys, vibrators and she used it.
5) Have you put any thought into a concrete plan to make this happen? No
1) If your wife loves you she is not going to leave you over a sexual fantasy you have of her getting pleasured albeit by another man. It’s a sexual fantasy it’s not real life, at least at this point. All the years I have been on here I have never heard of a wife leaving a husband over him sharing this fantasy. Worst I heard is one guy had to spend the night on the couch. This is a VERY common fantasy. It’s not easy to confess and it shows how much you love her and trust her to share something so personal. There are definitely ways to communicate this that improve a wife’s receptivity of this information. If interested myself and others can share our tips. There are no dress rehearsals in life. This is it. You don’t have a really strong marriage if you can’t be open and honest with your wife about something that’s important to your happiness.
2) 15 years is a good amount of years for a stable marriage.
3) Good ages to start getting into this.
4) Perfect, a woman who is open and confident enough to use toys isn’t going to freak out about you sharing a sexual fantasy. It also Opens the door to getting black toys to enhance your fantasy play. ******* if I can sell my conservative Catholic wife who never had a toy or oral sex to take and thoroughly enjoy a 10” jet black life like vibrator/dildo, and even suck on it, you should have a much easier time getting your wife to expand her horizons.
5) Ok well, do you want your wife to live out this fantasy or at least have some fun with you in the bedroom around it?