Doing a Cuck Hubby

We only role play "Her and a Bareback BBC".
When we get to the part of Her Telling me to
"GET DOWN THERE AND CLEAN HIS BIG BLACK COCK"
She cum's all over again.
It's only after that,that I'm aloud to cum.
why only role play? is she not interested in actually getting fucked by a big black dick?
 
i was the same way in the beginning, i definitely wanted it more than she, i just used the approach that i loved her so much that i wanted to see her satisfied in ways that i just wasnt physically gifted enough to provide for her and that i was willing to let another man provide that
 
Have any of you hubbies in here ever thought of going beyond watching your wife getting fucked and requested being fucked by the bull too?
No, I wouldn't ask. My wife likes to see me fluff, and usually gets her bull's feelings on that particular matter early on in the discussion. It's never a deal breaker either way, she's fine with strictly straight lovers, but she likes to include me, tells her bulls I'm submissive, likes to watch them extend their dominance to me as well, and has said a couple of times that she thinks it would be fun to have a regular that she could ask to "show my cuck what getting fucked by my strong bull feels like." I enjoy when my wife plays with my butt or lends me to other Dommes to be pegged, and I've sucked cock for her multiple times, so if she meets the right guy I'm sure it will come up.

I've very much enjoyed the naughty thrill of "******" bi scenarios (even though I don't think orientation should be taboo in this day and age), so even though I'm not explicitly attracted to men and don't seek them out, it's a fun part of our play, and I certainly can't imagine trying to say no if my wife and someone she's fucking decide it's something they want to happen. I love feeling submissive and obedient to her, and seeing the contrast in her behavior when she's with someone dominant, or serving her dominant lover as an extension of my service to her.

I've been required to refer to her bulls as "Sir" before, and been told to beg them to fuck her or thank them for fucking her. All of that has played to my kink as a submissive. So I suppose if part of the role play was that she actually wants to see me beg for it, I might someday find myself asking for it. But our play dynamic is that we do the things we do because she's in charge and gets what she wants. It would seem very outside of my place to request personal attention for me from her lover, and that's not my priority anyway. Time for playdates is limited enough as it is, and my biggest thrill comes from helping and watching her get fucked by other men.

TL;DR: if my wife wants her bull to fuck me, I can see her asking for it or maybe telling me she wants me to beg him to do it. If she has a bull who wants to do it, I can see her offering him my ass. But I can't imagine saying, "that looks fun, can I be next?" That might work for some, but doesn't really fit our dynamic.
 
No, I wouldn't ask. My wife likes to see me fluff, and usually gets her bull's feelings on that particular matter early on in the discussion. It's never a deal breaker either way, she's fine with strictly straight lovers, but she likes to include me, tells her bulls I'm submissive, likes to watch them extend their dominance to me as well, and has said a couple of times that she thinks it would be fun to have a regular that she could ask to "show my cuck what getting fucked by my strong bull feels like." I enjoy when my wife plays with my butt or lends me to other Dommes to be pegged, and I've sucked cock for her multiple times, so if she meets the right guy I'm sure it will come up.

I've very much enjoyed the naughty thrill of "******" bi scenarios (even though I don't think orientation should be taboo in this day and age), so even though I'm not explicitly attracted to men and don't seek them out, it's a fun part of our play, and I certainly can't imagine trying to say no if my wife and someone she's fucking decide it's something they want to happen. I love feeling submissive and obedient to her, and seeing the contrast in her behavior when she's with someone dominant, or serving her dominant lover as an extension of my service to her.

I've been required to refer to her bulls as "Sir" before, and been told to beg them to fuck her or thank them for fucking her. All of that has played to my kink as a submissive. So I suppose if part of the role play was that she actually wants to see me beg for it, I might someday find myself asking for it. But our play dynamic is that we do the things we do because she's in charge and gets what she wants. It would seem very outside of my place to request personal attention for me from her lover, and that's not my priority anyway. Time for playdates is limited enough as it is, and my biggest thrill comes from helping and watching her get fucked by other men.

TL;DR: if my wife wants her bull to fuck me, I can see her asking for it or maybe telling me she wants me to beg him to do it. If she has a bull who wants to do it, I can see her offering him my ass. But I can't imagine saying, "that looks fun, can I be next?" That might work for some, but doesn't really fit our dynamic.





yes, if she wants me too I will submit to the bbc in my ass, begging him for it, taking it in front of her
 
Mine said after a regular lover ****** me on his cock in front of her that she needed to see me suck his cock and submit to him dominating over me and do it because she loved me so much and held a lot of guilt until she saw me sucking his cock willingly. It took that to break that feeling she had for me and let go of her guilt, afterwards, she told me she was falling in love with him and wanted to explore her feelings for him sexually and me be ok and she was going to see how it went dating him and us all being together and him being around and her sometimes being with him alone at his place overnight sometimes.. and she spoke with him about what happened and they agree part of my role should be to accept what he does for us and he asked if she enjoyed him dominating me, she said she would like that and said I should suck his cock when they ask for it.. I agreed since she loved him.. It eventually lead to him pegging me in front of her as a way to encourage her to have more sex with him and hopefully let him breed her.. that part never happened but she did finally admit how much she loved me and needed to see me suck his cock and let him take me to prove to herself how much she loved him too and that I understood how much superior his cock was than mine and how much it pleased her.
 
Mine said after a regular lover ****** me on his cock in front of her that she needed to see me suck his cock and submit to him dominating over me and do it because she loved me so much and held a lot of guilt until she saw me sucking his cock willingly. It took that to break that feeling she had for me and let go of her guilt, afterwards, she told me she was falling in love with him and wanted to explore her feelings for him sexually and me be ok and she was going to see how it went dating him and us all being together and him being around and her sometimes being with him alone at his place overnight sometimes.. and she spoke with him about what happened and they agree part of my role should be to accept what he does for us and he asked if she enjoyed him dominating me, she said she would like that and said I should suck his cock when they ask for it.. I agreed since she loved him.. It eventually lead to him pegging me in front of her as a way to encourage her to have more sex with him and hopefully let him breed her.. that part never happened but she did finally admit how much she loved me and needed to see me suck his cock and let him take me to prove to herself how much she loved him too and that I understood how much superior his cock was than mine and how much it pleased her.
I'm a little confused she felt guilty about treating you bad by loving him more at that time? Do when she saw you submit to sucking his vock then it made her realize you were not the man she first loved because you have in and sub to the other man? So she thinks of you in her mind as less of a man for giving into your bisexual desires? Am I getting this right?
 
Mine said after a regular lover ****** me on his cock in front of her that she needed to see me suck his cock and submit to him dominating over me and do it because she loved me so much and held a lot of guilt until she saw me sucking his cock willingly. It took that to break that feeling she had for me and let go of her guilt, afterwards, she told me she was falling in love with him and wanted to explore her feelings for him sexually and me be ok and she was going to see how it went dating him and us all being together and him being around and her sometimes being with him alone at his place overnight sometimes.. and she spoke with him about what happened and they agree part of my role should be to accept what he does for us and he asked if she enjoyed him dominating me, she said she would like that and said I should suck his cock when they ask for it.. I agreed since she loved him.. It eventually lead to him pegging me in front of her as a way to encourage her to have more sex with him and hopefully let him breed her.. that part never happened but she did finally admit how much she loved me and needed to see me suck his cock and let him take me to prove to herself how much she loved him too and that I understood how much superior his cock was than mine and how much it pleased her.
If this is so it sounds like a really hot situation for the 3 of you. (I'd be horny all the time)
But it looks like a very risky business for you.
Please let us know how things are going for you all.
 
I'm a little confused she felt guilty about treating you bad by loving him more at that time? Do when she saw you submit to sucking his vock then it made her realize you were not the man she first loved because you have in and sub to the other man? So she thinks of you in her mind as less of a man for giving into your bisexual desires? Am I getting this right?
That's not how I read it at all. A lot of women feel guilty about cuckolding their husbands at first, until they see that he is genuinely enjoying what is happening and is getting something out of it himself. I could be wrong, but I think @Pegramguy was saying that when his wife saw him submit to her lover, it was clear he was going to be ok, that he still had a place in the relationship and was getting something rewarding out of the situation, so she stopped feeling guilty about the feelings she was starting to develop for another man.
 
That's not how I read it at all. A lot of women feel guilty about cuckolding their husbands at first, until they see that he is genuinely enjoying what is happening and is getting something out of it himself. I could be wrong, but I think @Pegramguy was saying that when his wife saw him submit to her lover, it was clear he was going to be ok, that he still had a place in the relationship and was getting something rewarding out of the situation, so she stopped feeling guilty about the feelings she was starting to develop for another man.
Ok I wasn't or don't understand this dynamic I truly have never quite understood what the cuck get out this that is positive emotionally and that would be as sexually satisfying as still having sex with the woman he loves.

He loses his woman to the lover bull whatever. The woman must get better sex, the bull lover bf is like a grandparent they are in it for the fun time gets too deep back off give wife back to cuck. But still he the bull gets sex without having to provide the emotional and financial support that the cuck still does.

So I see a win/win for the bull Hotwife but at the partial expense of the cuck who gets nothing but treated like second class by the other two IMHO. He may stop ll have his place status in three of them but regulated to clean up duty. But BBC only pussy but not getting to fuck the woman he loves would drive me mad.

I have a couple I'm Kik chat freinds with and he says to me he opened the door wanted to see his wife blacked then now he wished she wouldn't do it anymore. He says Everytime she fucks other men a little bit of him dies and he loses a little bit of love and respect for her. Something to think of he's trying to figure out how to get un-cucked, he don't want it no more. Sad to hear by me, like one story I read on here about nightmare cuckold story where he lost every thing his wife his position as a man to a BBC lover of Hotwife after 1 time one night of play.


And to the cucks already if you truly had to do it over again knowing what you know now would of you given up your manhood to the wife and bull or stayed some sort of bull yourself still. And I am not trying to put anyone down if this srraingment floats your boat great I'm just trying to understand
 
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Ok I wasn't or don't understand this dynamic I truly have never quite understood what the fuck get out this that is positive emotionally and that would be ad sexually satisfying as still having sex with the woman he loves. He loses his woman to the lover bull whatever. The woman must get better sex, the bull lover bf is like a grandparent they are in it for the fun time gets too deep back off give wife back to fuck.But still he s sex without having to provide the emotional and financial support that the fuck still does.

So I see a win/win for the bull Hotwife but at the partial expense of the fuck who gets nothing but treated like second class by the other two IMHO.
And to the fucks already if you truly had to do it over again knowing what you know now would of you given up your manhood to the wife and bull or stayed some sort of bull yourself still. And I am not trying to put anyone down if this srraingment floats your boat great I'm just trying to understand
I can only speak for myself here, but what I get out of being cuckolded by my wife is a bit complicated. First off, I get the satisfaction of seeing my wife in ecstacy. It's not simply that she's getting better sex... granted, it's definitely more intense, but we have satisfying sex when she's not with a bull. There was nothing broken in our love life before we started doing this. It's more accurate to say I derive pleasure from witnessing her pleasure. Look up the word "compersion." That word definitely applies in our marriage, but even that's not the whole picture.

I was submissive and my wife started keeping me in chastity long before she made the leap into cuckolding me. Tease and denial isn't truly about sexual inadequacy. For me anyway, it's about being kept in a constant state of arousal and desire for my wife. Whenever men get a full release, chemicals flood the brain that create a sense of satisfaction, and the chase is over. This is where we get the stereotype that men will roll over and go to sleep without cuddling or making sure his wife is satisfied. In practice I don't think most men are completely that cliché, but being teased and denied orgasm can keep a man constantly in the heightened, horny state of arousal that you might experience from intense foreplay, right up to the moments before climax. Being denied that release can obviously be frustrating, but it can also make a man laser focused on serving his partner. Taking away the possibly of release, or at least making it more rare and never guaranteed, means that climax is no longer the man's goal during sex. When I've been pent up for a couple of weeks and have come to expect that sexual activity more than likely won't involve an orgasm for me, my entire goal shifts from my own pleasure to the exclusive pleasure of my wife. I want to keep massaging her, worshipping her, kissing her, licking her, fingering her, devouring her and even fucking her (if she decides she wants to unlock me), for as long as I possibly can, relishing every single movement she makes. I react to every muscle she flexes, every change in the quickness of her breath, every word or gutteral sound that escapes her lips. My goal becomes exclusively to have her writhing and panting and screaming and bucking against me for as long as she will allow me to do it, and her satisfaction is my reward. I cum only if/when she tells me to.

So for us, cuckoldry was a logical next step to take from chastity and femdom kink. We describe our marriage as a female led relationship (flr), so my position as her submissive is pretty much constant. Having long been the dominant one in our relationship, she wanted to be able to explore her own submissive side, but it just never felt authentic for me to switch roles and try to dominate her. She does not see me as dominant, she sees me as her sub. A lot of our play involves weeks of teasing, so even if we could "pretend" and switch roles, she'd lose all the progress she's made in breaking me and making me her slave. It just made more sense to outsource. When she started seeking other men, she gravitated toward men that are nothing like me or the role I have in our relationship. She could indulge in her long held attraction to black men, she could play with men who spend the bulk of their free time in the gym or fucking, making them ideal playmates, even though that's not what she needs in a life partner at all. She doesn't wish I spent all my time working out, she likes that I'm an attentive caretaker, co-parent committed to selflessly raising our children, and a full partner in running our household, our finances, etc. She likes that much of my free time is spent being an artist, programmer, etc. That's not to say I don't take care of myself or that she wants me to be out of shape, or that she doesn't want to be with men who aren't two dimensional, simple, beefcakes... balance is important and she's not shallow at all, I'm just saying that what she enjoys in a sexual partner is sometimes very different from what she appreciates most about me as her life partner.

Once she started fucking black men, ranging from pretty good physical shape to impeccably sculpted, from mildly assertive to extremely dominant, from slightly above average endowment to obscenely hung, she developed a newfound appreciation for what being submissive feels like and what I get out of it, and she became a much more engaged and creative Domme. So that has been a very tangible benefit I get from being her cuck. Our femdom play has been taken up several notches. I've also watched her do things with other men that she's never done with me. A lot of people (perhaps understandably) wonder why I don't demand she do them with me, but again it comes back to authenticity. I am her sub, and she acts accordingly with me. Acting the way she does with her bulls isn't a conscious decision, it's a natural reaction to being with men like them. It's not her natural reaction to the way I play with her. So she could, for example, decide to be nice and give me more blowjobs, but that isn't the same thing as the way she hungrily worships and devours and gags on the big cocks of her strong, black bulls. You can't fake that hunger, and we never even would have known it existed within her if we hadn't decided to explore this path together. Cuckoldry has helped my wife develop and explore a whole new side of herself, and getting to see that in her is an extremely erotic and rewarding experience for me. It's not always easy, and there are moments of breathtaking jealousy, but clearly it adds a whole new level of intensity to our tease and denial play, it allows her to explore both sides of the spectrum from dominant to submissive, it's great for her confidence to have so much fantastic sex, sneaking away for a naughty tryst here and there reduces her stress and makes her happier at home, it lets us experience new dynamics we never had before, it's necessarily increased our communication and attentiveness to each other's desires and needs, and has generally helped us truly grow as a couple.

We're not damaging our relationship, nothing she does makes "a little bit of me die," and I certainly don't "lose a little bit of love and respect for her," as your Kik friend describes. Quite the opposite. I admire and appreciate her more and more. It's complicated, it's hard to explain, and it's not something I recommend to everyone, but it's made our marriage stronger than it was before. You know the expression, "if you love something, set it free?" Imagine how much faith you would have in your relationship if you literally put it to the test like that on a regular basis. My wife has every bit of freedom she could possibly want and she always comes back to me. Not everyone is cut out for it, but I absolutely love her more than anything and am reminded daily how lucky I am to have a partner that understands, accepts, cares for, supports and appreciates me the way she does, and I absolutely love helping make sure she gets to enjoy whatever she wants.
 
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