Two people we ĥad long term relationships with, and trusted as friends, managed to obtain some of our personal and intimate photos and videos, and shared some of them to our social media. They were quickly taken down both times, but the secret was out. These reveals happened about a year apart. We obviously didn't learn enough from the first incident. Be careful who you trust and understand that some people play the long game pretending to be someone they are not. We are extremely careful now, mainly due to my husband's employment.