A few female friends know. They’ve even seen some vids of me riding bbc 
do your friends or family know about your lifestyle
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Our oldest ch ild hacked wife’s phone and discovered our lifestyle…it was a disaster for a year or so.
Hi, may I ask how it came about that they saw those videos of you riding BBC & what their reactions were, assuming you were with them? Were you surprised by their reactions ..."that's disgusting, I am so disappointed with you"....... or were they....."omG, that looks soooo hot , how did it feel having such a big cock in you"?A few female friends know. They’ve even seen some vids of me riding bbc
chambo8807
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One friend told me something incredibly personal in confidence and i panicked and thought i had to do the same so i blurted out “my husband films me fucking black guys” lol
The video was while I was scrolling through my phones photos next to two close friends from highschool and a video popped up. I was like “oh yeah… ummm” and they both said “damn girl get it, did (fiancées name) film that? You should do porn!” They are both single white women who also enjoy bbc.
My youngest da**ghter was in her mid 30s and teaching about four hours from here. She and her bf were drifting apart and one day she called and asked if I would come when I was off and pick up a couple of things she'd paid for and didn't intend to let walk out the door. At some point I knew there was more to it. She told me on my drive up she had a slave cage for him. She was so nervous I told her that her late mom and I had had our own alternative lifestyle place and it eased her nerves greatly. We agreed it was good we could share info if necessary but we also agreed it best not to ask too many questions at least at first....I have wondered about some of her friends over the years but I'm leaving it alone!
But I did reveal the reason I changed their friends coming and goings when they were in high school. I was a widowed Black man and a bunch of teen age girls hung out at my house. I insisted ALL parents knew when they were there, but when the twins kept wanting to roll around in the waterbed I strongly suggested they come less often-the fantasy was getting more dangerous and they knew it.
But I did reveal the reason I changed their friends coming and goings when they were in high school. I was a widowed Black man and a bunch of teen age girls hung out at my house. I insisted ALL parents knew when they were there, but when the twins kept wanting to roll around in the waterbed I strongly suggested they come less often-the fantasy was getting more dangerous and they knew it.
@sharedsubwife I admire you for this. And following your Bulls request, it makes perfect sense. Be proud. No need to give folk details. But just be proud and enjoy that your wife has such a man in her life.
sounds like that overshare was the equivalent of producing 5 Aces to win a poker hand....all of them Spades 
....and maybe your buddies shared their videos & photos with you too...or gave details??Flipping my question onto them....were you surprised that those 2 women were also into black guys?
Thanks for answering my question by the way.
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There’s nothing with the lifestyle. People who judge it as bad are the problem.
In our role-play dirty-talk, I always bring up her telling her BFF she is fucking ___ and that I want her to know. Then the “bull” (me w a mask, maybe extender, etc) says he wants to fuck my wife and her BFF together without me so an MFF them two and him without me the husband there. She gets so wet and always agrees despite her never being down for this with me otherwise. Her BFF is super hot and single still but a shitty disposition. I get so horny thinking of her joining another couple with me watching or not there on her own, esp them two. Im not a creep with the BFF and she has no idea I bring this up. I never talk about her BFF in any other setting other than this scenario also but she knows form my wife Im a freak and loosely knows about our roleplay. I can see my wife doing something like this if the stars aligned but never with me bc she’s a hotwife, territorial, and only she can play and I love this
What does he think ?
None of our friends know to our knowledge but it’s a small village and multiple black guys coming round must look suspicious. Villages talk so you never know 
Pharaoh1914
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Jamal again?
No they dont, and it will stay like this
This is the reality bc women get jealous, judgmental (maybe not to your face but with others), and isnt this the juiciest gossip available?No they dont, and it will stay like this
Pharaoh1914
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Nice.
Blklover1963
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And what did she say about it
