It's understandable that his privileges would go down tremendously. If nothing else, you'd probably need a break to recover. 8" is pretty impressive, as well. It would be difficult to have sex with your wife totally out of the question. Also, if you wanted one more baby, is he secure enough to raise a baby that is obviously not from him? Just how common would you say this conversion to total denial of sex privileges is? I mean, I'd love to see a huge Black cock go in a woman I'm seeing, but can you really get all 11" in you, in the first place? Does he stretch you out THAT much differently? Why wouldn't you want both your husband's cock AND the huge Black one? That's the thing I don't understand. It's not like the Black friend would be there all the time; your husband WOULD. It seems like 20% for him, 80% for the huge guy, would be acceptable, but 0%?