Did he or didn't he know?
- Thread starter James J
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We werent married yet but I set up her first IR fuck. We have been happily married for 3 years now
Didn't know.…….I was at the bowling alley I had bowled at for 3 years, never had a reason to go in the bar as our waitress took care of things. Couldn't find her one night, I offered to go in and get a round...……..3 hours later I was 2 hours late getting home, quite *******, and seriously considering taking someone up on one of the MANY offers I had that evening!! Logic somehow convinced me to sneak out a side door and drive home slow on sideroads...….I confessed it all to hubby when I got home, and my life changed SIGNIFICANTLY for the next 3 years!! But initially, he was not aware where I was or what I was doing!!
J (the wife)
J (the wife)
he knew and set it up
He doesn’t know and I continue to keep it secret
I cheated on my husband for 10yrs with BBC before he got involved 
We opened our relationship after 8 years of monogamy and lots of fantasizing together. So he knew, yes. And he supported. The only thing we didn't plan for is the occurrence of some health issues, namely HPV virus 2 years ago being detected and undergoing treatment. Learned a lot about STDs in the past few years.
Yes I knew. The guy was avidly pursuing and seducing my my. We talked about it a lot and for several weeks while she enjoyed his play.
I was all for it, but I wanted her to feel certain. Eventually she was ready. We had a great time getting her ready and an even better time reclaiming her after the date.
I was all for it, but I wanted her to feel certain. Eventually she was ready. We had a great time getting her ready and an even better time reclaiming her after the date.
to bad sweetie he is missing out from what I see
You and your hubby are so lucky to share this. I know my wife and I spent hours reliving her first date and the ones that followed. It really improved her sexual responses and she seemed to always be open to me. It was just so hot.
Very interesting in my case. No, he did not know. However, it only happened as a result of him wanting me to do it. We had not committed to it, but I started noticing black men and assessing them as potential sex partners. I even VERY weakly flirted now and then. I met a nice guy at a Starbucks at the mall. We were going to just go dancing but ended up fucking over the course of hours at his condo. I saw him for a couple months pretty regularly. My husband and I decided to try swinging. We did the meets and greets and parties. I gravitated toward black guys. But they were most often single males at events. If they had a girl, she was looking for g2g fun, not a swap. It was pretty universal. He was okay about it. I eventually told him I was a chocoholic before we started swinging, that I had the affair.
Your secret makes it even hotter.
No he didn't know. I was traveling and met someone
