Curious about the lifestyle (new)

Ok so..I have to change her maybe guide her onto the right path but not tell her that it is what I want?
exactly. you need to change your mind set too. because youre too focused on what you want, what you need. shift that to her instead. focus on her. her beauty. her sexiness by complimenting her. but dont go overboard. women can sense if you are genuine.
 
Ok then…I remind her of my love towards her and how much i actually care about her, stuff I already do all the time to be honest! This isn’t just about me but us as a couple and her as a person and woman
 
Thanks a lot for the help and now..how the actuall flip do I make her want to like bbc without seeming like a freak for bringing it up
i really think you are missing the point of everything i said.

you have not even got past 1st base. why dont you start there? why you so concerned about the final part. youre still focused on what you want - a bbc to fuck her. thats all youre thinking about. start small. tons of dynamics here. each different.
 
Hey there, im 22 and i recently discovered this new kink by complete accident, ive got a loving girlfriend of 3 years and we still love eachother a lot.
I was curious about what this whole "interracial" lifestyle, i know that itll mean that ill have to.. give up on ever having relationships with my gf ever again and only letting black men fuck her, the thought itself makes me feel pretty excited and makes my dick really hard but i just dont know if this is the right thing.

I havent talked to her about it, in fact practically no one knows about this, I myself am pretty insecure about how to proceed with this. The thought of it makes me squirm but also a little dissapointed of myself and rlly wondering if this is really what i plan to be for the rest of my life. As for my partner she is a pretty open minded person in every way and has already accepted some of me prior kinks, but theres no telling on how she would react on this.

If anyone is nice enough to give me some advice, id really appreciate it!
Just because she fucks black guys doesn't mean you have to stop fucking her and never have a relationship with her again.
 
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