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ty for responding.

I feel that a lot of beta men on this site are afraid or too shy to post, make comments or know what to do. So I'm glad that a few of the betas that I have helped, given advice to will start to reach out to the Newbies and just help them find their way. I am working with a Goddess on Fet, who is trying to create a mentoring program for cuckolds.

If that sounds interesting to you. - just follow my profile on here and you will then get an alert when I post about it.
I will follow for sure, sounds fascinating cannot wait to hear more and continue on my path to be a good cuckold to my wife.
 
I will follow for sure, sounds fascinating cannot wait to hear more and continue on my path to be a good cuckold to my wife.
just so all the cuckolds and betas know
you made a NEW thread for cuckolds to chat with each other and post questions or to DM each other
 
I've been in conversation with an experienced bull on hhere (I'm sure he'll make himself known if he wants) and he's suggested I post about my friendships with other cuckold couples.

Since my wife met her bull we've helped introduce 2 couples to the lifestyle (one full on, dived in head first the other picks it up and down a bit) and I've become good friends with the cuckold husbands. We help each other talk through the wtf?! moments we have and the angst most cucks seem to get.

I'm also currently talking on the phone and online with a cuck wannabe who's wife has asked to speak to my wife to discuss how things work for her.

In all cases the big step has been when the men took a step back and encouraged their wife to live the fantasy that they have and not the fantasy the cuckold has. Let the wife/girlfriend find her own way with the husband's support rather than him pushing down his own fantasy world.

Do any other cucks talk to and support other couples or singles?
Would be interested to read your comments.

I found your words of “ a big step has been for men to take a step back and encouraged their wives to live their fantasy”
to be very helpful. I find myself leading the fantasy, pillow talk, as my wife moans along in agreement. She rarely verbalizes her fantasies. When i can get her to verbalize them I can tell she is holding back. She often will say she fantasizes about other women, which I do believe to be true, because I know she gets very horny watching two women going at it.

I am going to focus less on my fantasy and get her to open up more about hers. If anyone has any advice on how to get her to open up more, please share!
 
I found your words of “ a big step has been for men to take a step back and encouraged their wives to live their fantasy”
to be very helpful. I find myself leading the fantasy, pillow talk, as my wife moans along in agreement. She rarely verbalizes her fantasies. When i can get her to verbalize them I can tell she is holding back. She often will say she fantasizes about other women, which I do believe to be true, because I know she gets very horny watching two women going at it.

I am going to focus less on my fantasy and get her to open up more about hers. If anyone has any advice on how to get her to open up more, please share!
I find myself in a similar position. I’m trying to get her to focus and open up more about her fantasy/desires. When we first started talking and role playing she wants to be the one leading the conversation. She knows I’m a sub to BBC in the past before we got together so her role play started with the both of us doing things with one or more black studs. She’s made it more than obvious that she likes to bring up that as I’m ducking her a bull is pushing into me. She’ll say stuff like fuck me like he’s fucking you or fuck me how you want to be fucked. I’m not complaining but I would love her to simply say that she wants a BBC to fuck her. I’d love to know she feels free enough to just share her deepest desire for black men.
 
I find myself in a similar position. I’m trying to get her to focus and open up more about her fantasy/desires. When we first started talking and role playing she wants to be the one leading the conversation. She knows I’m a sub to BBC in the past before we got together so her role play started with the both of us doing things with one or more black studs. She’s made it more than obvious that she likes to bring up that as I’m ducking her a bull is pushing into me. She’ll say stuff like fuck me like he’s fucking you or fuck me how you want to be fucked. I’m not complaining but I would love her to simply say that she wants a BBC to fuck her. I’d love to know she feels free enough to just share her deepest desire for black men.
It's a great insight. I think that many wives suppress their fantasies, and some to the point that they haven't even really given themselves permission to have them, thinking that it was a "guy thing." One of the things that we did that I think were crucial to her feeling safe to even think about and then to share her fantasies was we read a book together on eroticism in the marriage (Esther Perel's Mating in Captivity). We read it chapter by chapter, discussing each chapter, asking each other questions about what we thought/felt about it. We actually did more than once, since the first time she was too closed off to to even engage honestly. But eventually, when she realized that I actually wanted to get to know her sexual self. she began to open up, to feel, to fantasize, and to share.
 
It's a great insight. I think that many wives suppress their fantasies, and some to the point that they haven't even really given themselves permission to have them, thinking that it was a "guy thing." One of the things that we did that I think were crucial to her feeling safe to even think about and then to share her fantasies was we read a book together on eroticism in the marriage (Esther Perel's Mating in Captivity). We read it chapter by chapter, discussing each chapter, asking each other questions about what we thought/felt about it. We actually did more than once, since the first time she was too closed off to to even engage honestly. But eventually, when she realized that I actually wanted to get to know her sexual self. she began to open up, to feel, to fantasize, and to share.
Very interesting
 
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