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Cuckold club in real life - brainstorming ideas
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This is very good advice. Id be very interested in helping out, but I think simplicity is key.
whatever the wife wants
The Cuckold Club project -The idea is to create a safe and private club/community/group for cuckold couples. (Similar to a swinger clubs or anything of that sort, created for serving a good purpose to a group of people). it should be real thing formed by cuckold couples and bulls.
This is not for fantasy but an open brainstorming thread to create an idea of a practical and safe "cuckold club" for people in this lifestyle.
I will post with a basic idea and we can together complete it for safe practices for couples in cuckold lifestyle.
This will have a practical guide which is aimed at creating a safe environment for couples and to help newbies to start this lifestyle.
There will be fantasy part where we will consider the different kinks and fantasies that can be done in the club.
The Cuckold Club - The club can be created with two or more cuckold couples, like in any other real clubs they organize meetings, get together, parties and whatever. Only cuckold couples and bulls are allowed memberships in the club.
Agenda/uses of the club
1.Make it easy for couples to find bulls whom they can trust.
2.Bulls can find real couples easy.
3.All the involved can indulge in every fantasies without ruining their life(discuss it later in detail).
4.Make sure everyone in the club is safe.
5. Provide support for newbies who want to enter the lifestyle.
6. if the club have a place for "get together", couples who cannot invite their bull to their house can use the club space.
7. Wives who wants solo need not be afraid of safety, since the bull is from within the club and they meet up in the club safety is ensured.
The club can enforce a set of rules for its members to ensure safety and support to everyone involved. The rules should be designed to make sure no members of the club get abused or taken advantage of, anybody who breaks the rules should be punished (with fine, suspension or dismissed from the club). Some of those rules are
1. Every member of the club should contribute some services to the club based on their professional or personal ability. For example someone who has experience with counseling can provide free counseling to the club members (couples) to deal with any relationship issues arises due to this lifestyle, any members with medical background can provide classes about the health risks like STD, STI etc.
2. Every member or ( the cucks only) should pay membership fee to the club which can used for providing useful services to its members. example, the club can hire a therapist occasionally to provide relationship counseling to address concerns of cuckold couples in the
club.
3. The club can make it mandatory for the members (bulls and hotwives; you guess why) to take frequent STD tests.
The club structure
1.it should have a set of people who holds several positions who make and change the rules. The authority should include the husbands, hotwives and bulls to make it a fair authority.
2. The members are added in a way so that the number of bulls in the club is not too much. for example if there are 10 couples, then the number of bulls should be around 15.
3. The hotwives/couple can easily find a bull who fits their needs from the club itself.
4. If anyone crosses the line, the bull or the couple. They can inform it to the "authority" of the club and take the corrective steps(fine, suspension, etc).
5. The couples can either have a long term bull or just randomly choose anyone who is willing.
7. The husbands (cuckold) mostly act as volunteers for the proper running of the club and organize events (where is all the fun) and not participate.
8. Any hotwife and bulls can be lover/bf/master or whatever without breaking the rules of the club.
9. The members can enter into contracts with each other, the contracts made between the members of the club will be enforced by the club authority. For example if a contract is made between a couple and a bull or between the couple if any party break it, they will fined/banned temporarily from the club.
eg: if a couple enter a contract according to which the wife is exclusive to the bull for some time and the husband violated it, he will be fined.
Any such contracts can be made as long as the club authority find it is not an abusive one.(The contract are made between the members and there is no need to inform it to the club authority, it is needed only when anyone involved in it feels they are being used or someone breaks the contract).
This will provide a vast experience for couples who want strict femdom, FLR, ownership etc.
The "Cuckold Club" Funds
1. The funds are raised through membership charges, fines, etc
2. Funds can be for organizing parties for the members, or any other "get together".
3. It is can be used to fund vacations for the hotwives with their bulls. A lucky draw can be organized to choose the hotwives, the wives who got selected can choose a bull who is willing to go for the vacation. Couples who are not very rich will also get the cuckold vacation fun.
4. It can be also used to conduct useful services like couples counseling, sexual health awareness etc.
5. The Club can also organize fancy date nights or party nights for the wives and bulls.
THE FANTASY, FETISH, KINKS, EVENTS/PARTIES that can be done in the Club
- There is no limit, literally everything is possible.
here I ask all of you to contribute.
1. No matter what the cuck husbands' penises stay inside their pants in the club. it doesn't matter even if he is the president or anything of the club in terms of authority.
2. There should be a dedicated rooms or spaces in the Club where husbands are not allowed to enter, Only bulls and wives. If someone's wife is in there it is his fate he should accept it.
3. Every time the Club members "get together", there can be rules specific to that occasion only. For example - In a wives night out event, the husbands can drop off their wives and go home.
4. The Club can have a Locker facility for storing the keys (keys of huh?) of misbehaving cucks.
5. The Bulls count is greater than the no of hotwives? so they can compete with each other by trying to seduce the wives right in front of their husbands, which will be a great experience for all (Again, couples who are not interested in such can stay away )
6. There are cuckold couples with wedding fantasies, hotwives can marry her lover/bull in presence of other club members to get a feel of a real one.
7. Several events can be conducted and hotwives and bulls who are interested in it can participate. some of them like
- bareback group sex or orgy ( the Club can ask for STD test result from the participants, which is not so easy without the club structure). Or Anything of that sort can be organized.
Expecting more ideas from you all.
Again, I didn't made this as an erotica or anything. We can improve this idea and it may be useful for posterity!!
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jamesriske
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You'll need heavy security from the drive-by shootings.
beaverboy
Male
why?
jamesriske
Male
You would also be liable if someone got an STD
Wouldn't an APP like Club be easier? Each member is required to meet with a professional Medical person whom tests them and interviews them to create a membership card and access to Hotel Meetings. Clubing is Brick and Mortar EXPENSIVE. While Vegas style group meetings with STD testings and a HOST would make it far more useful. Like a MOOCA EVENT, These are working but not enough of them. Bulls will CUM if the Wives are HOT.The Cuckold Club project -The idea is to create a safe and private club/community/group for cuckold couples. (Similar to a swinger clubs or anything of that sort, created for serving a good purpose to a group of people). it should be real thing formed by cuckold couples and bulls.
This is not for fantasy but an open brainstorming thread to create an idea of a practical and safe "cuckold club" for people in this lifestyle.
I will post with a basic idea and we can together complete it for safe practices for couples in cuckold lifestyle.
This will have a practical guide which is aimed at creating a safe environment for couples and to help newbies to start this lifestyle.
There will be fantasy part where we will consider the different kinks and fantasies that can be done in the club.
The Cuckold Club - The club can be created with two or more cuckold couples, like in any other real clubs they organize meetings, get together, parties and whatever. Only cuckold couples and bulls are allowed memberships in the club.
Agenda/uses of the club
1.Make it easy for couples to find bulls whom they can trust.
2.Bulls can find real couples easy.
3.All the involved can indulge in every fantasies without ruining their life(discuss it later in detail).
4.Make sure everyone in the club is safe.
5. Provide support for newbies who want to enter the lifestyle.
6. if the club have a place for "get together", couples who cannot invite their bull to their house can use the club space.
7. Wives who wants solo need not be afraid of safety, since the bull is from within the club and they meet up in the club safety is ensured.
The club can enforce a set of rules for its members to ensure safety and support to everyone involved. The rules should be designed to make sure no members of the club get abused or taken advantage of, anybody who breaks the rules should be punished (with fine, suspension or dismissed from the club). Some of those rules are
1. Every member of the club should contribute some services to the club based on their professional or personal ability. For example someone who has experience with counseling can provide free counseling to the club members (couples) to deal with any relationship issues arises due to this lifestyle, any members with medical background can provide classes about the health risks like STD, STI etc.
2. Every member or ( the cucks only) should pay membership fee to the club which can used for providing useful services to its members. example, the club can hire a therapist occasionally to provide relationship counseling to address concerns of cuckold couples in the
club.
3. The club can make it mandatory for the members (bulls and hotwives; you guess why
The club structure
1.it should have a set of people who holds several positions who make and change the rules. The authority should include the husbands, hotwives and bulls to make it a fair authority.
2. The members are added in a way so that the number of bulls in the club is not too much. for example if there are 10 couples, then the number of bulls should be around 15.
3. The hotwives/couple can easily find a bull who fits their needs from the club itself.
4. If anyone crosses the line, the bull or the couple. They can inform it to the "authority" of the club and take the corrective steps(fine, suspension, etc).
5. The couples can either have a long term bull or just randomly choose anyone who is willing.
7. The husbands (cuckold) mostly act as volunteers for the proper running of the club and organize events (where is all the fun) and not participate.
8. Any hotwife and bulls can be lover/bf/master or whatever without breaking the rules of the club.
9. The members can enter into contracts with each other, the contracts made between the members of the club will be enforced by the club authority. For example if a contract is made between a couple and a bull or between the couple if any party break it, they will fined/banned temporarily from the club.
eg: if a couple enter a contract according to which the wife is exclusive to the bull for some time and the husband violated it, he will be fined.
Any such contracts can be made as long as the club authority find it is not an abusive one.(The contract are made between the members and there is no need to inform it to the club authority, it is needed only when anyone involved in it feels they are being used or someone breaks the contract).
This will provide a vast experience for couples who want strict femdom, FLR, ownership etc.
The "Cuckold Club" Funds
1. The funds are raised through membership charges, fines, etc
2. Funds can be for organizing parties for the members, or any other "get together".
3. It is can be used to fund vacations for the hotwives with their bulls. A lucky draw can be organized to choose the hotwives, the wives who got selected can choose a bull who is willing to go for the vacation. Couples who are not very rich will also get the cuckold vacation fun.
4. It can be also used to conduct useful services like couples counseling, sexual health awareness etc.
5. The Club can also organize fancy date nights or party nights for the wives and bulls.
THE FANTASY, FETISH, KINKS, EVENTS/PARTIES that can be done in the Club
- There is no limit, literally everything is possible.
here I ask all of you to contribute.
1. No matter what the cuck husbands' penises stay inside their pants in the club. it doesn't matter even if he is the president or anything of the club in terms of authority.
2. There should be a dedicated rooms or spaces in the Club where husbands are not allowed to enter, Only bulls and wives. If someone's wife is in there it is his fate he should accept it.
3. Every time the Club members "get together", there can be rules specific to that occasion only. For example - In a wives night out event, the husbands can drop off their wives and go home.
4. The Club can have a Locker facility for storing the keys (keys of huh?) of misbehaving cucks.
5. The Bulls count is greater than the no of hotwives? so they can compete with each other by trying to seduce the wives right in front of their husbands, which will be a great experience for all (Again, couples who are not interested in such can stay away )
6. There are cuckold couples with wedding fantasies, hotwives can marry her lover/bull in presence of other club members to get a feel of a real one.
7. Several events can be conducted and hotwives and bulls who are interested in it can participate. some of them like
- bareback group sex or orgy ( the Club can ask for STD test result from the participants, which is not so easy without the club structure). Or Anything of that sort can be organized.
Expecting more ideas from you all.
Again, I didn't made this as an erotica or anything. We can improve this idea and it may be useful for posterity!!
richardfaber
Male
For the location, you can simply rent a romance spa from time to time to host cuckold events.
I would suggest a sexfight room to have wives competing over bulls, or cuckolds cockfighting for the wives´ entertainment.
I would suggest a sexfight room to have wives competing over bulls, or cuckolds cockfighting for the wives´ entertainment.
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Great idea want some of it how can we join
Great idea
What drive-by shootings? Are cuckold couples at more risk of random violence than other lifestyle folks? We've never felt particularly in danger at any kind of lifestyle event, personally.
Are swingers dating sites and companies that host events currently liable for STDs?
There aren't a lot of cuckold-specific clubs out there, but you're aware that there are lots of businesses that offer events and social connections to consenting adults, right? Many have navigated the legal landscape well enough to stay in business a long time. I'm not sure what would make this idea any more risky (from a health and/or legal liability perspective) than any other adults-only/swingers lifestyle venture.
some Ideas.
The existing swingers resort can have black men avaible for extra services like massages, guide around, 24 room services, personal butlers for all holiday.
swingers club can have events for cuckhold couples with presence of BBC.
BBC gigolos websites? do you know if there are any of it?
The existing swingers resort can have black men avaible for extra services like massages, guide around, 24 room services, personal butlers for all holiday.
swingers club can have events for cuckhold couples with presence of BBC.
BBC gigolos websites? do you know if there are any of it?
More kinda like a branding, a count of how many bulls have fucked her
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Great idea I would definitely be interested
I completely agree with this. I am very much on board with the idea of a cuckold club, but when I was reading the suggested rules, there were several that don't apply to the way my wife and I play. We attend events like Splash Mocha and have no trouble finding people who like to play the way we do, even though it's not specifically for cuckolds. I think you'd have MUCH better luck getting people through the door if it was open to as many different play styles and preferences as possible. For example, my wife likes showing off my cage and putting me in revealing clothing when we go to parties. We and other couples we know really enjoy varying degrees of cfnm and/or small penis humiliation. Some couples like to unlock hubby and make him edge while watching his wife getting fucked. Some couples are into tease and denial, and the ladies like to physically tease their hubby's cocks while playing with a bull. Some ladies like DP but don't want a huge cock in the ass, and want hubby to be inside her ass to feel the much bigger dick in her pussy. Some couples are into pegging and that's the only way hubby can have "penetrative sex." So a rule about husbands not being seen naked inside the club isn't going to work for everyone, and only serves to alienate potential members.
Rooms and play areas can have specific themes, and there can be suggested attire and themes for specific nights, if exploring a very specific look is desired. And of course any rule that suits participants can be decided on in private rooms or play areas. Speaking strictly for my wife and myself, we don't need her rules to be the official rules of the house and enforced for everyone. She can (and does) manage the rules I follow, and takes quite a bit of pleasure in enforcing them herself. If she wants me to feel more submissive or self-conscious, she'll want the freedom to dictate where I'm allowed to be, what I'm allowed to do, what I'll be wearing, and what's expected of me.
We belong to a local dungeon, and I can tell you that even though BDSM is very "rules" oriented, the club itself doesn't have many of them. There are a few that are clearly in place to cover their own liability and the safety and comfort of their members (consent is mandatory, universally understood safe words are used, no breath play or ******* play), but members negotiate their own rules for their own scenes regarding attire, roles and responsibilities, general activities, etc. If you're serious about this being more than fantasy/erotica, I highly recommend giving members the flexibility to get whatever it is they personally enjoy out of a club like this.
I do like your idea of having members contribute by way of whatever applicable skills and services they're qualified to provide to the community. Perhaps contributing to workshops or classes, content, legal advice or representation, couples advice and counseling, massage therapy, personal training, website or other technical needs, extra staffing, etc. could be a way to save on the cost of membership. I do think that payment alone should be an option, however. Play time is already very limited for some people, especially parents, and not everyone will have the same amount of additional time to contribute. But if people see value in the club/community, I think plenty will want to contribute to improving it and keeping it running smoothly.
Lastly, unless you or someone directly involved already owns property or has a large amount of money to invest, I agree with the suggestions above that perhaps the best way to get started might be to talk to a local swingers club or hotel about renting the place for a periodic cuckold-themed night and building momentum that way. It's far less risky from a financial standpoint, and much of the work has been done for you. If your night proves popular enough to maintain a regular cadence, build some momentum for attendence, and make a little money, you can always look for a dedicated place to move into as it grows. Most festival promoters get started doing individual concerts or club nights at existing venues. Most swingers event promotors rent space to host their private events. Our city only has a couple of options for dedicated lifestyle clubs, and neither of them caters to a single specific niche, they both welcome the entire lifestyle and still sometimes struggle to stay busy. We don't even have many dance clubs that are dedicated to a specific musical genre, we just have clubs that have hip-hop or techno or house or pop/top 40 or 80s nights. I can think of a few upstart club ideas (adult/lifestyle related and otherwise) that have tried to cater only to specific interest groups in our city, but I can't think of a single one that has succeeded. We've also found that most of the other cuckold couples we know in our city all know the same roster of active bulls. Even if EVERYONE who identifies as a bull or cuckold couple were to join such a club, I'm not sure it would make enough to stay afloat. I don't know if there's a city in the US that's large enough to have enough cuckold couples and bulls to keep an entire club in business.
I think if you hope to have any chance of keeping a cuckold-specific club up and running, instead of just doing one-off cuckold nights in existing spaces you can rent, you'd really need to make it more of a resort, that people might actually travel to from all over. If you do that, you might have to reconsider more of your plan. Members who can only make it there annually or even less frequently are not going to want to pay the same level of dues that a local member or frequent traveler might be willing to cough up, and the cost of starting up would be a lot higher as you'd need to consider rooms and amenities that will make people want to stay there. My point is, any of the strategies above would require pretty major revisions to your initial plan as it's laid out in the original post. I love the idea of a private cuckold club, but I think a lot more brainstorming and planning would be needed in order to make it feasible.
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beaverboy
Male
I agree with our idea of flexible rules, it's just an outline I mentioned. Anyone who wishes to start something can change everything as they wish and I didn't mean that someone gonna start a dedicated club for this, what I meant is creating a circle of people who are into this lifestyle and organize meetups and "parties" as they wish with rules they like.
great idea
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