I definitely led my husband in to it - little by little without him realizing my end goal. First I made him my submissive sexually, then little by little I introduced different things in to our sex life that became more and more sissy focused - him shaving all his body hair, buying sexy women's lingerie for him to wear, introducing pegging, spanking, then cum kisses, cum clean up, cock cage, making him masturbate for my viewing pleasure. I knew I needed to train him before we were married so once we were I could do whatever I wanted to. Eventually on our wedding night I cucked him with our sexy black best man.