I think its not so much folks aren't real we all just either have regular fuck buddies already or have a different method of finding them...as a for instance I/we use swingers sites to meet guys mostly because they are then local, I/we look for regular guys so for that reason alone if they live much more than a half hour maybe forty minutes away then they are not on hand at short notice, short notice for us is usual as we run/operate businesses so time is always an enemy....don't give up so easy guys there are genuine folks on here they may, like us, just not be looking at this to use as a platform to meet people...
