As a husband whose wife cheated with a black man and ultimately left me to live with him, I wonder how many guys fall victim to this cheating - interracial lifestyle. Do you have any suspicions of what she may be doing when she is gone ? Do you husbands who have already found out about your wife cheating detect unusual activities before you found out ? After my wife got pregnant be her black lover and confessed her affair I then started putting together what was going on while she was cheating behind my back. Don't disregard the little things, they can add up. I used to work overtime night shifts so we could save up to buy a house. While I was out working she would get together with her girlfriend and two black guys. I remember coming home after working an OT shift, and when I got in bed she would tell me that she didn't want to have sex. I hadn't even made a move when she would say that. Only later would I come to realize her reason - she had just finished fucking her black boyfriend. When this was all going on she would act very sweet to me and tell me how much she loved me and how lucky she felt to be married to me. Getting that type of treatment made me think that she would never cheat on me. Boy was I wrong !
Discovering your wife is cheating on you, opens the gates to a flood of overwhelming emotions that is hard to deal with, let alone when she's the type of woman you'd never suspected on being such a slut. It usually takes a while for a clueless husband to put together the pieces and accept the overwhelming facts, but eventually a day of stop being denial comes, and this is exactly when the pain of betrayal hits you like a ton of bricks in the head. The feeling of the emotional rollercoaster is something I know first-hand, as I've been cheated multiple times in my life, on different relationships in the past. Therefore, I know well how it feels to be heartbroken and rejected as a man, realizing again and again that my loving, caring, loyal and respectful nature is not quite enough for a woman's happiness. Just like you, life showed me in a cruel way, that women might value these traits when it comes to husband material, but still, they can't help themselves from being sexually attracted by dominant alpha-males that are confident, arrogant, and know how to use their raw masculinity and big egos. Depending your sexual performance, your wealth and the lifestyle you're able to offer to your wife, this is a war you sometimes win, but occasionally you'll lose too. Soon, you start realizing that fighting is not only traumatically stressful but also pointless, therefore the only option you truly have, is to embrace your beta-male nature and find your role in today's new order reality that define us as obedient servants or horny bystanders to our wives' extramarital adventures, whatever that means for someone's ethics and sexual limits.
I'm curious if other cheated husbands feel the same about this, but the fact you're on this forum, sharing the bittersweet experience of being married with a cheating whore who ended up pregnant by her BBC and dumped you for him, shows nothing but acceptance. It's funny how a cuckold's brain reacts when you become conscious of losing your other half over an alpha-male with a massive cock, who happens to be black, young and muscular! When the rage is over, and the infidelity is registered over our wicked braincells, there is an ******* effort to justify cheating, take full responsibility and desperately adopt the pathetic role we always meant to have in our woman's life by discreetly agreeing to serve her, giving her the freedom to explore her sexuality with other men. Apparently, that wasn't the case with you, but next time you have suspicions on your partner, it may worth playing your cuckold card right.