In my case, no. Never. I always get creeped out. I don’t even like the woman mentioning that shes married or whatever.
Why does it creep you out? With no disrespect intended, do you prefer thinking you are their first?
I don’t like other men inserting themselves in my sexual experiences. Its repulsive. The last thing I want to even think about when dealing with a woman is another man. Ugh.
Oh. What makes it ok for you to insert yourself in theirs?
When you interact with a woman, you don't want to hear if she's married or in a relationship because it creeps you out. If she is, whether you know or not, aren't you inserting yourself in their relationship?What do you mean?
Can you clarify? If you say most aren't the type you'd hang out with, is that a statement about people in the lifestyle in general, or a nuance of the people you would associate yourself with generally? I might be sensitive because THIS site is IR focused but the post seemed rather stereotypical if not condescending.I would say there’s a big difference between being cordial and being friends...a friend to me is someone I would hang out with on a regular basis or outside of the lifestyle and honestly most arent the type of guys I would hang out with that’s not to say they aren’t great people in general but outside of the lifestyle? No but if we’re set to have drinks or something before a session I’m more than happy to chat about the typical guy stuff or just catch up if this isn’t the first time meeting
The original question posed was “Can cucks and bulls be friends” idk how you managed the mental gymnastics to come to the generalization that I spoke on all people in the lifestyle so just to clarify No I do not believe that as a 25 year old black male that I can be genuine friends with a middle aged man who is more than likely. Going to be white or LatinoCan you clarify? If you say most aren't the type you'd hang out with, is that a statement about people in the lifestyle in general, or a nuance of the people you would associate yourself with generally? I might be sensitive because THIS site is IR focused but the post seemed rather stereotypical if not condescending.
Mental gymnastics?The original question posed was “Can cucks and bulls be friends” idk how you managed the mental gymnastics to come to the generalization that I spoke on all people in the lifestyle so just to clarify No I do not believe that as a 25 year old black male that I can be genuine friends with a middle aged woman who is more than likely. Going to be white or Latino
Typo...you can go back and re-read the comment nowMental gymnastics?
The original question had NOTHING to do with the woman, it literally said "cucks and bulls".
Absolutely not. Who gives a fuck what she has going on? I don’t. That’s her issue, not mine.When you interact with a woman, you don't want to hear if she's married or in a relationship because it creeps you out. If she is, whether you know or not, aren't you inserting yourself in their relationship?
OF course, contrary to what is being said here, As a cuckold for almost 40 years I would say 95 to 98% of the time you end up being friends unless it is a immature bull who is so full of himself he can't see the forest through the trees.Obviously yes! They are allied, they pursuit the same goals!
You can be friends with a cuck and still not have that be an issue in my experience.I'm a cuckold, I have never been friends with bulls, nor do I want to be, if I become their friend they can end up being influenced by me even unintentionally. Things like not fucking her on my birthday or anniversary, Valentine's Day, etc. etc. For keeping things calm, I prefer that they do not consider me.