Both cucks and Bulls should understand this. Wife is emotionally connected to her husband(cuckold) and sexually to her Black Bull, if they are not friends she feels torn apart between her heart and sexuality. Ideally, all (Black Bull, Wife or the cuck) can deeply enjoy this lifestyle if there some level of comfort, openness and trust between them, even Bull and cuck. This comfort, openess and certain level of trust are other words for friendship.
COMFORTABLE CUCKS & BUCKS MAKE FOR A LADY'S LUCK
For me, the quote above really nails it. Just like other types of relationships between people in life, I don't know that you can expect for a "friendship" to always happen. But at the very least, there needs to be a kind of open and honest "understanding" about why everybody is there, what it is that they want, and how they would like to be treated in the "relationship". When that happens, then everybody can begin to relax and their defenses . . . and their underwear . . . starts to come down.
What I'm saying is that in most cases that black buck has got to RELATE to that white cuck in some kind of way that gets everybody, including the woman in the middle, to trust each other. It's extremely rare that you're going to walk in and fuck another man's girl and have pretty much nothing to do with the man at all. It happens, but it's very rare, so don't even go in expecting things to play out that way. You've got to establish a level of trust, and in order to do that, you must have mutual understanding of how this thing needs to be in order for all the parties to feel happy and fulfilled.
Now if I feel I need to, one thing I will do right off the top is make it clear that I'm not there to interfere with or mess up anybody else's marriage or relationship. If I'm dealing with a couple, then I'm always sizing them up right from the get go to make sure that their relationship is in balance and that they are really "ready for this". If I sense any discord or uncontrollable jealousy in any way at any point, then I'm out! I'm not "thirsty", have never been, and will never be. I was in a situation once where I felt that the white wife was becoming too emotionally attached to me. She and her hubby got into an argument one night about something. She comes calling me crying her eyes out and saying she wants to be with me and so on. NOPE! Honey you need to fix what's wrong in your marriage without drawing me into it. The "candy shop" closed up quick, and that was that!
But to get back to the main point . . . black guys . . . understand that in most cases in order to have a good thing with a couple, especially long-term . . . you're going to have to have some kind of regular interaction with the husband that leaves him feeling satisfied too, and that's going to be different in every single situation. Every single one of them. And like all else it evolves, just like you do. So, you've got to cross that bridge each and every time. If you don't, then you're going to upset both him and the wife/girlfriend, and it's ultimately just not going to work out. Even "cuckoldry" takes some work.