This is a really serious question for a woman. No bra is almost always sexier. But if you really love your woman and care how she'd look like at 50+, you would prefer her to wear bra whenever possible. Properly preserved perky stiff boobs of your wife will excite you and stimulate you, long after women her age have them flabby and drooping. Thiis is the reason we both firmly reject all games that involve boobs *******. Once my wife confessed that she always wears bra with one lover who loves to pump her from behind for a long time. She told me that with no bra her boobs are flying and jumping and she does not want them to be loose. So, to me this simple question is a matter of love. I plan to get old together with my beloved and I want her look her best as long as possible.