Well, this is were the human differences come in to play. This is why there are so many different types of ppl. What is good for one person may not be good for the next. I am sure if you were to open up about yourself I, as well as many others would or could find faults in some of your personal life preferences. That does not make you wrong, that simply makes you - you. As does my life make me me. What me and my wife do is good for us, everything is between consenting adults and we are always withing the "Legal" laws of the land. So I thank you for your point and have one suggestion if you have some time there is a book out titled "My Thought" it is bt an author S.D. Owens it can be bought through Amazon.com It covers some of the roots of this type of polarizing thinking. It is a very healthy book, it not big boring and long only about 235 pages in paperback . good book though