This is a great story and I'm glad you posted it, because these things happen. When I have told people my truth, people typically stop talking to me. I'm from New York and like your husband, I was also started young. I was lured by a black man to his house with promises of a beer and showing me porn. Naturally, when we got there, he started in on me, and when he was done, told me never to come back. It took about two weeks, but I did come back. Again and again for about six months, until one day he was just gone. Your husband is so lucky to have you as his wife. I've been looking for a woman like you for years, without any luck whatsoever.