Before and after(for the women)

[bob12]

Its my understanding that this lifestyle is primarily a male fantasy that we get our women involved in, but for the ladies on here, what were your thoughts, feelings and experiences, before and after?

Did you initially do it because of your partner?
Did it still remain something you did to please your partners? Or did you start to enjoy it and embrace it and become an active partaker?


Were you apprehensive, confused, and perhaps unsure initially? Did that change after your experiences?

Thanks!

 

[muni]

You might be right, it starts with a fantasy for both. I am not an expert of a veteran in this lifestyle, but what i have learnt in a short time is that all depends on the level of communication that both have going between them. For this to last , both have to be in it.
Ofcourse one would be apprehensive, at times confused but the ability to talk through it , is what matters.

 

[AnnieS]

Its my understanding that this lifestyle is primarily a male fantasy that we get our women involved in, but for the ladies on here, what were your thoughts, feelings and experiences, before and after?

Did you initially do it because of your partner?
Did it still remain something you did to please your partners? Or did you start to enjoy it and embrace it and become an active partaker?


Were you apprehensive, confused, and perhaps unsure initially? Did that change after your experiences?

Thanks!

You should never ever do anything just for the other partner. You do it because you want to or have an intrest. I was nervous as I should be and we talked that if it was not what I thought it was going to be then that was it. I enjoyed it and we decided to try it again a few months later with a more compassionate lover and it was amazing. So aftrwards- I feel like queen for a day serviced by two handsome men for several hours. What could be better?

 

[MrLickalot69]

You should never ever do aomething just for the other partner. You do it because you want to or have an intrest. I was nervous as I should be and we talked that if it was not what I thought it was going to be then that was it. I enjoyed it and we decided to try it again a few months later with a more compassionate lover and it was amazing. So aftrwards- I feel like queen for a day serviced by two handsome men for several hours. What could be better?

"What could be better"?
Probably to do it again... who in their right mind wouldn't want to make you "feel like a queen", again and again?

 

[Happy sussex]

For myself
My husband had wanted me to try sex with a black guy who would be much larger endowed than himself after seeing a black work colleagues much larger endowment while standing next to each other at the urinals.
I always refused although I was inquisitive.
my husband brought home interracial porn black guy’s with white women also realistic black dildos which were larger than my husbands penis. We would masturbate with these while watching the films , I really enjoyed this and my husband would ask me if i wanted to experience a real black cock , I would be so engrossed in using the dildo I would say ooooh yess .
Then afterwards he would ask again and I would say no it’s only a fantasy and that’s where it stays .
Many years later after a friends party totally unplanned I experienced seeing my first black guy’s penis , I was in a state of sexual shock seeing the size and colour contrast the length and thickness so much bigger than my husband’s with its bulbous purple head glistening with pre~cum I folded my stance and wanting to be fucked by this beautiful black cock .
I got my wish and as did my husband get his fantasy fulfilled seeing a black guy who’s penis is so so much bigger fucking his wife , while he masturbated.
The experience was amazing I had my first ever vaginal orgasm and had multiple orgasms as he fucked me deeper and harder than I had ever experienced. Touching sensuous parts of my vagina that had never been touched giving me orgasms so deep . I was hooked and now get regular black cock as the sexual satisfaction is so good , I have become addicted to black cock and I am now a white married black cock whore , I regret all the time I spent refusing to go black.
Then seeing the colour contrast as his black cock penetrates the pink folds of my white pussy is an incredible experience.

 

[dickhurtz472]

For myself
My husband had wanted me to try sex with a black guy who would be much larger endowed than himself after seeing a black work colleagues much larger endowment while standing next to each other at the urinals.
I always refused although I was inquisitive.
my husband brought home interracial porn black guy’s with white women also realistic black dildos which were larger than my husbands penis. We would masturbate with these while watching the films , I really enjoyed this and my husband would ask me if i wanted to experience a real black cock , I would be so engrossed in using the dildo I would say ooooh yess .
Then afterwards he would ask again and I would say no it’s only a fantasy and that’s where it stays .
Many years later after a friends party totally unplanned I experienced seeing my first black guy’s penis , I was in a state of sexual shock seeing the size and colour contrast the length and thickness so much bigger than my husband’s with its bulbous purple head glistening with pre~cum I folded my stance and wanting to be fucked by this beautiful black cock .
I got my wish and as did my husband get his fantasy fulfilled seeing a black guy who’s penis is so so much bigger fucking his wife , while he masturbated.
The experience was amazing I had my first ever vaginal orgasm and had multiple orgasms as he fucked me deeper and harder than I had ever experienced. Touching sensuous parts of my vagina that had never been touched giving me orgasms so deep . I was hooked and now get regular black cock as the sexual satisfaction is so good , I have become addicted to black cock . I regret all the time I spent refusing to go black.

good for you. hope you are still enjoying the LS.

 

[Stlhotwifecpl]

My boyfriend told me his fantasy basically me having sex with other men, black being even more exciting . My boyfriend before him was black so we played with the fantasy by me telling him about my previous love life. Sharing pictures and video. Eventually we decided to try it for real. My only fear was he would regret it after and not like you can take it back. But we talked through it and had a great time.

 

[aint1better76]

Its my understanding that this lifestyle is primarily a male fantasy that we get our women involved in, but for the ladies on here, what were your thoughts, feelings and experiences, before and after?

Did you initially do it because of your partner?
Did it still remain something you did to please your partners? Or did you start to enjoy it and embrace it and become an active partaker?


Were you apprehensive, confused, and perhaps unsure initially? Did that change after your experiences?

Thanks!

Great question! It's good hearing this from other's perspective. This lifestyle isn't for everyone and it takes a lot of love and trust to make it fun. It's very comforting to know that many who engage in this do so willingly and not due to pressure.

 

[europa9922]

Its my understanding that this lifestyle is primarily a male fantasy that we get our women involved in, but for the ladies on here, what were your thoughts, feelings and experiences, before and after?

Did you initially do it because of your partner?
Did it still remain something you did to please your partners? Or did you start to enjoy it and embrace it and become an active partaker?


Were you apprehensive, confused, and perhaps unsure initially? Did that change after your experiences?

Thanks!

Hub was into both nudism/swinging when we met...after I was comfortable with being nude among mostly strangers ( nude beaches ) we started swinging with cples he had played with..I eased into it " readily " lol...

 

[blkbull4whtcpl]

For myself
My husband had wanted me to try sex with a black guy who would be much larger endowed than himself after seeing a black work colleagues much larger endowment while standing next to each other at the urinals.
I always refused although I was inquisitive.
my husband brought home interracial porn black guy’s with white women also realistic black dildos which were larger than my husbands penis. We would masturbate with these while watching the films , I really enjoyed this and my husband would ask me if i wanted to experience a real black cock , I would be so engrossed in using the dildo I would say ooooh yess .
Then afterwards he would ask again and I would say no it’s only a fantasy and that’s where it stays .
Many years later after a friends party totally unplanned I experienced seeing my first black guy’s penis , I was in a state of sexual shock seeing the size and colour contrast the length and thickness so much bigger than my husband’s with its bulbous purple head glistening with pre~cum I folded my stance and wanting to be fucked by this beautiful black cock .
I got my wish and as did my husband get his fantasy fulfilled seeing a black guy who’s penis is so so much bigger fucking his wife , while he masturbated.
The experience was amazing I had my first ever vaginal orgasm and had multiple orgasms as he fucked me deeper and harder than I had ever experienced. Touching sensuous parts of my vagina that had never been touched giving me orgasms so deep . I was hooked and now get regular black cock as the sexual satisfaction is so good , I have become addicted to black cock . I regret all the time I spent refusing to go black.

Hahaha....I've heard this same story soooo many times from wives!

 

[Rvrcouple711]

I want and need this sooo bad. Still looking for
A BBC that doesn’t flake out in cali or Vegas.

 

[California's #1 BBC]

I want and need this sooo bad. Still looking for
A BBC that doesn’t flake out in cali or Vegas.

Right here

 

[MikeJan]

You might be right, it starts with a fantasy for both. I am not an expert of a veteran in this lifestyle, but what i have learnt in a short time is that all depends on the level of communication that both have going between them. For this to last , both have to be in it.
Ofcourse one would be apprehensive, at times confused but the ability to talk through it , is what matters.

What a sensible offering! Going into something like this without first having VERY open lines of communication is to court disaster. My wife and I talked about this for almost a year before we did anything about the fantasy. By the time we got around to it we BOTH were more than just ready. We were EAGER to get something started. That was five years ago, as of October, and we have no plans to stop or even slow down. The ability to communicate is the life's ******* of any marriage or arrangement.

 

[OneOldGuy]

For us it all started,We brought a new House on a small new build housing estate, We made some new friends.
One thing led to another and We started swapping, Having both of us enjoying it, and becoming more adventurous over time, We discovered other like minded couples, in the area.
So we developed a number Of couples whom were like minded.
However due to two occasions where the friends splitting up ( Because the Husband found He couldn't handle it ).
We were solid, and both of us were fine with swapping, and enjoyed it.
We always found We both loved talking about our different partners, and without fail, would end up reconfirming our love for each other.
So We decided to join???, Swinger Clubs ,that were a bit less voletile.
We became friends with a group of people We met a t the clubs, and not once did We have any of the problems experienced in the past.
We were Both it would seem to me to be reasonably popular as a couple, and got invited to many side event.
All still white on white events.
It,all changed when we got an invite by one of our swinging friends, to a Party at Radlett Herts.
It,was,the first time We had seen any Coloured/ Black guys at a swingers party.
While I was enjoying another Wife along with Her husband in A MMF situation and in another part of the house.
I came back to find Wifey in the main area of this massive house, Being fucked by one of the black guys, and was quickly joined by His slightly less endowed mate up Her bum.
This was the first time I had seen, guys fuck Her with such big cocks.
She obviously was enjoying it,and was trying to move to provide maximum friction for them inside Her.
She always had a Habit of Closing Her eyes, I remember one of the guys pulling Her head back as the thrust inside Her as Her head went back , She opened Her eyes and saw Me watching Her, She looked Me directly in the eye and slowly licked Her lips, and then smiled at me.The guys swapped places several times.
I,would add that the massive lounge was pretty full with other couples and singles both male,and female watching them sexing Her.
On the way home, The,first thing She said was “ Wow!!! That was amazing “
and that She had really enjoyed the experience.
I asked Her what She felt not only about the fucking but doing it in front of such a large crowd of people.
She said it didn’t bother Her and in fact it made Her even more enthusiastic.
She always loved showing off !!!

 

[C & C Lovers]

Hope the wife will leave a reply

 

[AmyRich]

I'm going on 57 and have beenblackened well over 20yrs and still going strong

Glad to hear there are others like us! I turn 59 next month, and have been fucking black guys since 1989. I took occasional breaks, like when my husband and I were trying to get pregnant and during certain other times. But I always came back to it, and now that we are empty nesters, I have had many visits at home with various boyfriends. I have slowed down the past year or so based upon the number of different guys, but my current boyfriend comes over about twice a month, and I've been seeing him for 13 years.

 

[Lhomme]

I'm going on 57 and have beenblackened well over 20yrs and still going strong

you certainly don't look 57....mmmhmmm

 

[cplefabetpat]

We meet us in a swingers party, so to try a BBC was in the line of the evolution for me.