be recognized by someone

[SeldomSeenSlim]

Nancy and I were caught in an unusual "recognition" thing one time a year or so ago. We were at the lobby to a local casino when a woman noticed Nancy and shouted pretty damned loudly "I saw you fucking a black man on the internet!". It seems that there's a vid or two of her with a BBC (on a pay site and no, I don't have a copy or key - sorry).

Need I tell you how the crowd shut up and turned all at once to look at Nancy? She smiled and kinda shrugged her shoulders with a "Well, yeah, so?" look.

S'truth!!

 

[kevtat]

We had a bad experience. A couple recognized from online. Got weird and scary at work

 

[romanodoc]

We had a bad experience. A couple recognized from online. Got weird and scary at work

This os one of the problem i mean

 

[Seth1805]

When something that is considered taboo and becomes a normal part of your normal daily life for a long period. It’s easy to forget and lose touch with the masses of people that might not understand what may excite you! But I see times are changing slowly. But still our circle is pretty small. So it’s best to try our hardest to stay under cover. Others just would not be able to relate to this subject!!!

Drops mic! This is why we would never want to be outed. Everyone knows us to be like them, a polite, conservative married white couple that is completely normal. If any of our friends or family got word of this they would surely think of us as despicable and no longer associate with us.
It sucks the world is like that but what are we to do? We both want and need this for us, it is odd but it is like this was the one thing missing in our sex life. Well hung black men excites us and the idea of my wife having a black man as a partner seems to be the perfect fit.

 

[James J]

To me personally it wouldn't be a big deal. I don't mix with my professional life. My family pretty much already knows so no harm there.
The people I am involved with know about each other. We have and understanding and respect each others privacy.

 

[Seth1805]

To me personally it wouldn't be a big deal. I don't mix with my professional life. My family pretty much already knows so no harm there.
The people I am involved with know about each other. We have and understanding and respect each others privacy.

But you are not the married white couple in this are you? A single male has very few issues to be concerned with.

 

[James J]

But you are not the married white couple in this are you? A single male has very few issues to be concerned with.

True, my risk is less. Except I do have to consider my personal life, job, home, etc...

 

[Seth1805]

True, my risk is less. Except I do have to consider my personal life, job, home, etc...

I can respect that. All of us face certain societal constraints. Given our family and friends and how segregated we live from the black community there are "expectations" of us as a couple to behave in a very specific manner and to support our own if you will, and that certainly means not being involved in this lifestyle much less including a black man as a sexual partner..

 

[J and G]

No. It is best kept private. I never put my face on the Internet. Many hours of video with lovers. Not to share.

 

[romanodoc]

To me personally it wouldn't be a big deal. I don't mix with my professional life. My family pretty much already knows so no harm there.
The people I am involved with know about each other. We have and understanding and respect each others privacy.

Respect is the word, but we live in a world where respect is not so easy to find

 

[Valleygirl82]

No! I enjoy having this secret and its exciting to have a secret life that nobody knows or would ever suspect from me.Only down side is it makes it extremely difficult to find a bull.

 

[Mikeandstacy]

We had a bad experience. A couple recognized from online. Got weird and scary at work

Holy krap..would like to hear more about this sometime

 

[Mikeandstacy]

But you are not the married white couple in this are you? A single male has very few issues to be concerned with.

Nothing to lose and everything to brag about over a few beers

 

[Leeice]

I have been recognized many times, most of the times it was cool. Unfortunately many believes you will just stop what you are doing drop and fuck them on the spot.
Then there was a period for about a year where a guy who was a cop saw a pic I posted with a car in the pic. He ran the plate # , found out All types of things about me and started stalking and following me everywhere. Got to the point I wouldn't go anywhere by myself

 

[JScott]

We have not been approached by anyone other than members...we had a small group of 5 members gather at an Orlando club for some strip play with my sub...lots of fun!!

 

[chris john]

Has happened twice but its been ok so far.

 

[IROCCouple]

Our best one so far, another couple swam up to us naked at a lifestyle resort and yells "Hey Nickname" (redacted for profession). Of course we talked, but they know my Queen is strictly QoS so nothing more... Two weeks later he was in my office as a client

 

[Dstroke23]

Has anyone ever BEEN recognized by family, friends, coworkers etc?
If so, how they did react?

They were very weird about it. Didn’t know how to bring it up.

 

[Dblinsey]

I have on occasion gone out with my Bull to corporate affairs, parties and after convention get-togethers. I was once approached by a woman I didn't recognize, who had saw me at one of those functions. She said she knew him, saying he was always very nice and considerate. We chatted a bit more about nothing in particular and went our separate ways. Have always wondered if my Bull had had her sometime in the past, but never asked him about it - his business, not mine.

 

[Absanon]

They were very weird about it. Didn’t know how to bring it up.

They didn't or you didn't know how to bring it up?
But they must have succeeded I guess, otherwise you'd never know that she had been recognized?
So what happened after they admitted it?