The part I've never understood is why is why people want to collect photos by asking for them, especially when there are literally tens of thousands of photos and video clips of amateurs posted online.
We wonder about this constantly. Regardless of what kind of kinks, fetishes or sexual fantasies appeal to you, there are countless Tumblr blogs, Twitter accounts, subreddits, Google image search results, etc. dedicated to exactly what you're into. Before my wife and I were doing this for real, and consumed more porn than we do now, it never occurred to us to beg anyone for pics. What a lame and inefficient way to find material!
You only really need to post a couple of pics to show what you look like, any more than that is pic collecting and is a clue you are not dealing with someone who wants to actually meet.
EXACTLY. The ONLY times my wife and I asked for pics is when a profile didn't offer any and a guy was expressing interest in her. I can't very well answer whether the interest is mutual if I can't even show her what you look like. But we've NEVER been like, "she's getting horny, send more pics of your dick and she'll probably want to meet you."
It's the same thing the other way, too. Sometimes a guy will say he likes our profile or just ask how we're doing, or MAYBE ask a question about our dynamic, and as soon I respond, say something like, "show me pictures of your wife!"
First of all assuming you can be bossy and rude to a stranger, regardless of whether they're submissive or into cuckoldry, is a huge sign they're not familiar with the basic etiquette and decorum expected in the lifestyle. But more importantly, we have pics up in our media section, multiple albums of stuff that should surely give a good idea of what my wife looked like and what we're into. We've even contributed to lots of picture threads. It's pretty safe to say that if there's something we want to share with strangers, it's already up. I think people who ask for a bunch of media right away are FAR less likely to be a real candidate for in-person meet-ups than those who take the time to talk to us and discuss mutual interests, etc. We're down to prove we're real before expecting someone to meet us in person, but by that time it would be pretty hard to keep up a facade anyway, as we would have discussed everything to the point where it would be pretty obvious if someone isn't being honest. If you don't have time to chat with us and develop a basic friendly rapport, you definitely don't have time to hang with our busy work schedules, the frequency with which we can actually get baby care, etc. To me it's strange how many posts I see about this topic. Fake people are everywhere, but it shouldn't be that difficult to separate them from those who are legit. I short time conversing should really tell you most of what you need to know.
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