As long as it was just lightly to arouse me I was OK with it, but if he used it to punish me ... it could really bite.

if it was used to punish you, is that because agreements or understandings were not clear?
did the person holding the crop mistake your arousal for encouragement to hit you harder?
were you able to stop it when the hitting crossed the line to punishment?

sorry to be so wordy, but the real life experiences of women are interesting
 
if it was used to punish you, is that because agreements or understandings were not clear?
did the person holding the crop mistake your arousal for encouragement to hit you harder?
were you able to stop it when the hitting crossed the line to punishment?

sorry to be so wordy, but the real life experiences of women are interesting
Yes, if it were for punishment it was because I had not followed his instruction or had not done as I was told to do when I was told to do it.
No, when it was used to arouse me it didn't increase as I became aroused.
I had a safe word I could use, but never did. If I was being punished I knew I couldn't stop it by using the safe word.
 
Yes, if it were for punishment it was because I had not followed his instruction or had not done as I was told to do when I was told to do it.
No, when it was used to arouse me it didn't increase as I became aroused.
I had a safe word I could use, but never did. If I was being punished I knew I couldn't stop it by using the safe word.

thank you, and one last question Beth please…
did you ever not follow his instruction or not done something as you were told to do precisely because
you wanted a whipping that was more punishment than arousal?
 
Yes, if it were for punishment it was because I had not followed his instruction or had not done as I was told to do when I was told to do it.
No, when it was used to arouse me it didn't increase as I became aroused.
I had a safe word I could use, but never did. If I was being punished I knew I couldn't stop it by using the safe word.
I've never been one to get much out of watching a woman being caned but lately I've found watching videos of a woman being punished with a belt very arousing. Any thoughts?
 
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