StevieGirl, no, don't apologize. Your comment is very logical. If the majority of the men she is with have an issue with their erections, it only makes sense to look at any and every aspect of the love making process. In the long run, it specifically helps that individual with a problem that he/she is not aware of, right? In fact, its only fair that each mate have their physical self assessed by their mates ... fat guts, dirty teeth, poor hygiene, etc ... if it affects the other mate, its your responsibility to try to fix what is a distraction to your mate. Always check everything off ... so, ASK your mate how you can improve your appearance; it benefits everyone.