I've been to a number of Bachelorette parties but the ones that ended up at a male strip club, it never fails that the black performers always got the most attention...and also never failed that one of the girls in our group (one time the bride-to-be) would disappear with the black dancer for awhile. and a couple times when we got ready to leave, we had to wait in the limo for the girl who disappeared ..no-one ever disappeared or gave much attention to any white performers..It was like the party didn't get started until a black guy appeared..