I've had sex with 8 black guys in the last 20 years since coming into the lifestyle (I'm 49) & have rimmed the last 6. It's not something I even contemplated with the first 2, but that was a "Me" problem and had nothing to do with them. I've never had the desire to rim my husband & I know he would love me to. He is a pure cuckold & understands why I am not moved to do it to him, but still has a little trouble dealing with it. I do other things for him, but rimming my black lover is kind of my way of showing him how important he is to me and how much I love him fucking me so amazingly. He knows I don't do it for my husband and I think he really gets off on knowing he's exclusive for that. I've been with my current guy for a little over a year & it has become a big deal to both of us. I will rim him thoroughly & tongue probe him for 20-30 minutes before It usually ends with him straddling me and sitting on my face until I literally can't breath anymore. He's not a sadist so as soon as I start gasping he will get off & fuck me into multiple "O" paradise. While I see a lot of interracial sex scenes with 20-30 minutes of the women giving extended blowjobs, my last 3 black guys seem to much prefer that time spent with my face & tongue in & around their beautiful assholes. Why is it a big deal for me? Because I am drawn to it as a form of servitude, respect & submission to only him. And, not to be discounted: I can clearly see how much it turns him on & that makes me feel proud & worthy of his time and his cock.