If you would, please elaborate.I’m Asian. A lot of it has to do with where and how they’re raised.
If you would, please elaborate.I’m Asian. A lot of it has to do with where and how they’re raised.
This parts of the world are by far more conservatives than Europe and USA, specially in terms of race,Asian,Oriental and Arab world,yes they like hip hop,soul etc etc but dating a black man or black woman it will not be easy their family structures are very strong specially in terms of race.Being black and having lived in Asia for 5+ years, there appears to be an apprehension that Asian women have in regards to Blacks. From Japan, China, Korea, R.O.C., no sly glances, small talk, etc. Not one "take me" moment." Is it more taboo for Asian women to be with Black men than it is for White women (and White women, I know it's not easy for you, either!)? Love Asian and White women!
You don't think that's rare? More importantly, do you live in the U.S. or in Northern Asia?I don’t think that’s true. I’m part Asian. And my three sisters like black men. My youngest is married to a black man.
We’re from San Diego but live in AZYou don't think that's rare? More importantly, do you live in the U.S. or in Northern Asia?
Where are you meeting them? I think most Asian (especially Japanese, Chinese and Korean) families would be embarrassed to have their ******* bring home a black man (goes to the concept of "saving face"). If you're getting "many" Asian couples and women, you're one of a few.Not true. I’ve played with many Asian cpls and women.
One thing is dating Oriental or Asian couples in USA, UK or Europe but dating in their home countries is a totally different game ball.Where are you meeting them? I think most Asian (especially Japanese, Chinese and Korean) families would be embarrassed to have their ******* bring home a black man (goes to the concept of "saving face"). If you're getting "many" Asian couples and women, you're one of a few.
You are only making assumptions but I’m speaking from personal experience. I’m not meeting their parents. They are discreet cpls I meet on various lifestyle sites. Not on B2W bcuz most ppl on here are full of *******. Keep hunting. They are out there tho.Where are you meeting them? I think most Asian (especially Japanese, Chinese and Korean) families would be embarrassed to have their ******* bring home a black man (goes to the concept of "saving face"). If you're getting "many" Asian couples and women, you're one of a few.
No, I've lived throughout Asia. NOT in the military, but in residential areas from Tokyo to Shanghai to Seoul for 8+ years. You are trying to tell me that I'm making assumptions? Read my initial post that started this thread, then read the overwhelming number of posts that support my position, then tell me that my years overseas, and the number of posts supporting my position are only "assumptions." How long did you spend in Asia? If the answer is "zero," you can speak to your experiences here in the States, but that has absolutely nothing to do with the core issue I'm addressing. The issue goes much deeper than your limited experiences here in the States.You are only making assumptions but I’m speaking from personal experience. I’m not meeting their parents. They are discreet cpls I meet on various lifestyle sites. Not on B2W bcuz most ppl on here are full of *******. Keep hunting. They are out there tho.
Totally agree with you. That's why I've questioned where the people who claim that "it's all good" are meeting women. If you look at my posts on this page, I've basically said the exact same thing that you're stating (making a distinction between Korean, China, ROC and Japan vs. the rest of Asia).We are an Asian couple and once again, we tell people that its not a homogeneous group. Asia itself has many different ethnic groups and they can't be painted with the same brush. You have the Han ethnic group which is essentially people from China, Korea, Taiwan, with some closely related group like the Japanese. They are characterized by lighter skin, and usually live in developed countries.
The other large group are Austronesians which are basically your Filipinos, Indonesians, Malays. They are characterized by darker brown skin, and usually live in lesser developed countries to the south of the first group. Thais have some elements of Austronesians and can be grouped in with this group.
People in the first 2 groups don't consider Indians from the Indian subcontinent as "Asians", although many in the West refer to them as "South Asians"
People from the first Han group very rarely have interracial relationships with Blacks. There are the exceptions of course, and we are one of them. They mostly prefer whites if they were to marry out of their race. That is why you will find many old white guys with younger Asian wives from the Han group. Its a cultural thing.
People from the second group are more accepting of darker skin races and hence you see Filipinas, and Thais dating blacks and Indians. Again, its a cultural thing. So, when people ask why there are few Asian women into BBCs, they need to qualify which group of Asians are they talking about.
Yeah, in my opinion, you can classify Asian people into 3 main groups.Totally agree with you. That's why I've questioned where the people who claim that "it's all good" are meeting women. If you look at my posts on this page, I've basically said the exact same thing that you're stating (making a distinction between Korean, China, ROC and Japan vs. the rest of Asia).
That is true, some of us really enjoy BBC mannot all Asian like this,I just hope a BBC can get along with his wife happily
That is true, some of us really enjoy BBC man
We should lead more Asian wives to get along with the BBCThat is true, some of us really enjoy BBC man