Asian Wife's New Progress

I'm interested in the differences
The differences being that Asian American women grow up in a non homogenous society and culture. There is a lot more exposure to sex, provocative clothing etc. For example, wearing yoga pants, looser shirts showing a lot of skin is still not common and considered to be way too revealing in Asia, especially places like Japan. Of course there is a small percentage of westernized Asians that emulate that style and practices in asian countries but it still is very uncommon. With that said my Asian American ex gf was way more open for sexual exploration so was another Asian American gf I dated. My Wife however is not born and raised in America so she's very traditional and reserved as was another non American raised Asian ex gf I had before. So the differences are very different.
 
The differences being that Asian American women grow up in a non homogenous society and culture. There is a lot more exposure to sex, provocative clothing etc. For example, wearing yoga pants, looser shirts showing a lot of skin is still not common and considered to be way too revealing in Asia, especially places like Japan. Of course there is a small percentage of westernized Asians that emulate that style and practices in asian countries but it still is very uncommon. With that said my Asian American ex gf was way more open for sexual exploration so was another Asian American gf I dated. My Wife however is not born and raised in America so she's very traditional and reserved as was another non American raised Asian ex gf I had before. So the differences are very different.
In conclusion, americanized ladies will more easily go for hotwifing. But for non-americanized asians it will be more difficult to take the plunge.
Their journey will be longer.
 
Routing for you Sukiyaki! It might take some time, but you have a chance to turn her into a BBC slut. She's definitely open to the idea, you just need to approach it in the right way so you don't scare her off.

My wife is Japanese, and it took me 8 years to get her to go black.
 
The differences being that Asian American women grow up in a non homogenous society and culture. There is a lot more exposure to sex, provocative clothing etc. For example, wearing yoga pants, looser shirts showing a lot of skin is still not common and considered to be way too revealing in Asia, especially places like Japan. Of course there is a small percentage of westernized Asians that emulate that style and practices in asian countries but it still is very uncommon. With that said my Asian American ex gf was way more open for sexual exploration so was another Asian American gf I dated. My Wife however is not born and raised in America so she's very traditional and reserved as was another non American raised Asian ex gf I had before. So the differences are very different.
Very true, plus there is the perception of black men around the globe as well
 
Sukiyaki, does your wife work? Is there opportunity for her to meet the right guy in the workplace or through some of her other normal daily activities? My wife met her first lover (after we married) at the childcare place when she was dropping our ******* off for the day. It was one of those things were there was instant attraction for both of them and within a few weeks, I was watching them in bed together.

Just wanted to add: I think your experience with your wife and the porn vids is pretty normal. It's my view that when a woman sees porn the first thing she thinks is: "how do I compare with the actress? Does the actress turn my hubby on more than me?" I learned to be careful about sharing porn and let my wife pick the movies and she always asked me if the vid she chose would "be sexy" for me. We started playing before the Internet, and had to shop for our vids at the local adult bookstore (which led to other adventures later) and the good news was that my wife liked to go to the adult bookstore and shop for vids. Soon enough she noticed the guys hanging around the marquis window and when driving home she asked me "what goes on back there, anyway?" :ROFLMAO:
 
Routing for you Sukiyaki! It might take some time, but you have a chance to turn her into a BBC slut. She's definitely open to the idea, you just need to approach it in the right way so you don't scare her off.

My wife is Japanese, and it took me 8 years to get her to go black.
Thank you so much for your support and advice much appreciated! (y)
 
Sukiyaki, does your wife work? Is there opportunity for her to meet the right guy in the workplace or through some of her other normal daily activities? My wife met her first lover (after we married) at the childcare place when she was dropping our ******* off for the day. It was one of those things were there was instant attraction for both of them and within a few weeks, I was watching them in bed together.

Just wanted to add: I think your experience with your wife and the porn vids is pretty normal. It's my view that when a woman sees porn the first thing she thinks is: "how do I compare with the actress? Does the actress turn my hubby on more than me?" I learned to be careful about sharing porn and let my wife pick the movies and she always asked me if the vid she chose would "be sexy" for me. We started playing before the Internet, and had to shop for our vids at the local adult bookstore (which led to other adventures later) and the good news was that my wife liked to go to the adult bookstore and shop for vids. Soon enough she noticed the guys hanging around the marquis window and when driving home she asked me "what goes on back there, anyway?" :ROFLMAO:
Yeah she does but there are no black men at her workplace and would like to find someone not so close in our social circles.
 
For sure a colleague would be a opportunity but according to Sukiyaki, it's more careful to find someone not too close
You could have problems if you want to stop the relation.

I think the wife should be reassured and before sex she needs to be sure that the man is trustable.
 
For sure a colleague would be a opportunity but according to Sukiyaki, it's more careful to find someone not too close
You could have problems if you want to stop the relation.

I think the wife should be reassured and before sex she needs to be sure that the man is trustable.
For sure (y) Trust and communication are key and extremely important and yes the wife's concerns and comfort level always come first.
 
great read and it's great to see your wife opening up to it. keep using BBC porn as much as you can. my asian gf was already watching porn and kinda open minded before they started watching BBC porn together. BBC porn has open the floodgates wide open to BBC threesomes and gangbangs. keep putting it on and talking more about her with BBC and after awhile ask her to pick what she wants to watch. I ask my gf to pick and it always goes back to BBC. good luck with it all
 
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