The wife and I have been swingers for nearly all of our 20yr marriage. Finding 4 way connections has been harder and harder. We began to explore more 3some scenarios and solo play. At this point, we are more stag/vixen or “Hot wife”. Because I am open/bi curious, we have a few more bedroom options, but it has nothing to do w power dynamics, humiliation or other cuckold related scenarios. In fact, our trusted bull had some curiosities of his own we were all open and comfortable enough to explore. It made 3some even better. I’m still an alpha male and have hot wives I play w and love it. I don’t hesitate when their husbands ask for videos because I understand the desire.
I still get super excited when she heads out for a solo date, but I would guess every stag does! It’s dirty, taboo, and just fun to know your wife is comfortable enough to leave you and the family for temporary pleasure. Videos are a must of course. She is my porn star when I travel.
In term of race selection, it was never about BBC. We had plenty of playmates during our swinger times, but none were particularly large fellas, and she has become use to at least above average. Her first two single males were white and Hispanic, but were nervous and average in all ways at best. The next guy happened to be black. He was attractive, professional, confident, smooth, respectful, and could perform in every way possible (he’s been celebrated in our postings!!). The next bull we just happened to meet at a party and he’s been a playmate for years. We still haven’t ruled out others, but sites like this seem to provide her exactly what we are after, so why change it up!!
To the true cucks out there, have fun and do whatever works for you. Their is no normal. It’s whatever works for your relationship.
