I have not been caught swinging, but I danced in the male revue in college. On the first show of my second weekend, my cousin was in the audience with some of her coworkers. They were all enjoying the show close up. I thought I was just freaking out until she asked the stage guy to send me a note ( this was before texting). She was engaged and had lied about where she was. I told her if she kept my secret, I would keep hers.
