A little input....

Lararr

Lararr

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OK here goes. So I'm a hotwife, I know it, hubby knows it. He's a very sexual and alpha kinda guy. He's not what I'd describe as a cuck per say. However.... He does love watching me with black guys. He's a great lover.... Gets me off everytime we're intimate, he's not huge, but hits the spot!!! He loves watching interracial porn with me.... And on his own!!! And is 100% supportive of me and this lifestyle. The question on my mind is...... Why!!?? What makes a husband want this.... What do the cucks and other guys supportive of this crazy world get off on?? Also to the Bulls who do the satisfying ! .... Do you prefer a married woman who cheat or to have the husband present??
There's no agenda or deep meaning behind or to this.... Just curious really xxx
 
Lararr said:
OK here goes. So I'm a hotwife, I know it, hubby knows it. He's a very sexual and alpha kinda guy. He's not what I'd describe as a cuck per say. However.... He does love watching me with black guys. He's a great lover.... Gets me off everytime we're intimate, he's not huge, but hits the spot!!! He loves watching interracial porn with me.... And on his own!!! And is 100% supportive of me and this lifestyle. The question on my mind is...... Why!!?? What makes a husband want this.... What do the cucks and other guys supportive of this crazy world get off on?? Also to the Bulls who do the satisfying ! .... Do you prefer a married woman who cheat or to have the husband present??
There's no agenda or deep meaning behind or to this.... Just curious really xxx
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In our case, my wife has always been physically attracted to black men. It's the skin, it's the physique, it's the dick. It's all the various physical and social contrasts. It's seeing my wife in a place where I know she's most comfortable and most at her peak, sexually. It just fits for her, and for us. It's everything.
 
luvwife-w-bbc said:
In our case, my wife has always been physically attracted to black men. It's the skin, it's the physique, it's the dick. It's all the various physical and social contrasts. It's seeing my wife in a place where I know she's most comfortable and most at her peak, sexually. It just fits for her, and for us. It's everythin
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And you are both still very much in love with each other?? X
 
I think the lifestyle is great, it is a great way for couples to enhance their marriages and for bulls to meet unique women and couples.
 
I think your husband is a Stag rather than a cuck. Both like to watch their wife with other men, but Stags are alpha and not sub to either the wife or the bull.

As for why we like this, for me, I want my wife to enjoy life as much as possible. I can't give her a first kiss from me again, the excitement of being with someone new, or more endowment by myself. But I can give her all those and more by encouraging her to find new men that she is attracted to.

Besides, seeing her in pure pleasure is so hot!
 
KateWantsFun said:
I think your husband is a Stag rather than a cuck. Both like to watch their wife with other men, but Stags are alpha and not sub to either the wife or the bull.

As for why we like this, for me, I want my wife to enjoy life as much as possible. I can't give her a first kiss from me again, the excitement of being with someone new, or more endowment by myself. But I can give her all those and more by encouraging her to find new men that she is attracted to.

Besides, seeing her in pure pleasure is so hot!
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Well said
 
I like this thread, the subject is something I've kept for years. My guy has always said he is not a cuckold. I had been very wild in my youth and when things turned to more than sex i told him everything I'd done. After about three years of marriage We started out by swinging. He realized i was highly sexed and it seemed like a good way to add extra sex without cheating. It became crystal clear that whatever happened it wouldn't be tolerated if hidden. The result is we have always been open, honest and happy.
The sex was always great he is endowed and a avid lover. That's probably why we got through three years without my doing something to ruin it all. He was my stud and i he said was his nympho . The poor guy had to explain to a medical man twice about burns on his cock similar to rug burns. I did that, he would cum several times and seemed fine but the next day after a all night session the damage done. I would get on top and ride him until i was exhausted.
The swinging thing I'm sure was for my benefit. He never said so just a feeling. He went to the meetings and at first pointed out his various lovers . The first night he was so excited telling me about the three women he had been with. Then it got to my turn and i told him the truth I'd been with eight guys and two of them twice. He was not shocked or hurt, i think he expected it because of things I'd done before we met. He never got
thrilled by watching me with others. He did check in at those swinger parties to make sure i was OK, not being hurt.
When i moved on to running adds in sex publications he always supported my actions. He advised and always took a firm position on anything he thought seemed unsafe. It became my thing that he supported or tolerated because we both were and still are so crazy about each other. I in turn have walked endless miles in some very rough places in pursuit of deer, elk or some other game. I tolerate this out of love and support for one of his favorite things. My only request that we only ******* what we eat. It was the way i was brought up.
So i believe him when he says he's not a cuck. Has he ever gotten off over what i was doing, of course what red blooded guy wouldn't if he looked in on a live fuck session. He says he can take it or leave it and that was so true. I did organized party's he never attended when he knew the arrangers would keep me from harm. For nearly thirty years i did things that he knew about. Things others would have blamed on him if they had known. Very few knew what i was doing. We agreed on that from the very first time and I'm thankful every day for that choice. We saw others who were outed and the problems sometimes caused. How it effected families and children who had a perception of mom and dad blown to hell by a rash or thoughtful decisions.
It's far easier to say i don't care who knows than to deal with the fallout if they actually do. One of my first friends in a swinger group has a ******* who hasn't spoken to her or her ******* for over eleven years.
 
Lararr said:
OK here goes. So I'm a hotwife, I know it, hubby knows it. He's a very sexual and alpha kinda guy. He's not what I'd describe as a cuck per say. However.... He does love watching me with black guys. He's a great lover.... Gets me off everytime we're intimate, he's not huge, but hits the spot!!! He loves watching interracial porn with me.... And on his own!!! And is 100% supportive of me and this lifestyle. The question on my mind is...... Why!!?? What makes a husband want this.... What do the cucks and other guys supportive of this crazy world get off on?? Also to the Bulls who do the satisfying ! .... Do you prefer a married woman who cheat or to have the husband present??
There's no agenda or deep meaning behind or to this.... Just curious really xxx
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I want her to have the best of everything I can provide - house, car, vacation, jewelry, support, affection, whatever.
She had previously told me I was her best lover out of 8 previous partners. But a few weeks ago after a very attentive bull had given her the 20th or so orgasm of the night and made her squirt for the second time that night she told him he was "by far her best fuck ever."
Instead of being jealous, I was proud I had convinced her it was ok to be a hotwife and that I had organized this date for her.
 
I think this is because of watching too.moch porn. Because when u watch 2 people fuck each other then later husband would wanna see real life his wive getting fucked!
 
KateWantsFun said:
I think your husband is a Stag rather than a cuck. Both like to watch their wife with other men, but Stags are alpha and not sub to either the wife or the bull.

As for why we like this, for me, I want my wife to enjoy life as much as possible. I can't give her a first kiss from me again, the excitement of being with someone new, or more endowment by myself. But I can give her all those and more by encouraging her to find new men that she is attracted to.

Besides, seeing her in pure pleasure is so hot!
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Interesting. Stag. Learned a new word. Thanks.

I do not feel like a cuck in the way alot of guys describes them self here at the forum. Being submissive and stuff. I rather just like the idea of my wife getting here pussy and ass stretched for her pleasure and I love her moaning and I would love to see here beeing pounded by a well hung black guy.

I have not introduced my fantasy to my wife yet, have to wait at least a year because there is no room for advance xxx adventoures at the moment any way. I also would like to do it in some dirty hot fashion which I know she likes. Tie her up, blindfold her, play with her and end up putting a huge black dildo in her pussy when she are close...like to see her expression afterwards when she realize what she had inside her.😉

I hope she takes the bate and dont find it like she is cheating or something. Because I really would not see it like that, it is just a strong fantasy that I really want to realize. I do not know if there is a woman here in the forum that hesitated about it because of that reason?

I do not "fear" the life style as I have seen some talk about In the forum. Me and my wife are really happy, I just think this would add some extra spice to our sex life. I do not like to swing though as many seems to find exciting...not really interested and do not fantasies about other women. Just find it boring. Have my sex godess and are happy with that. I hope my wife do not want that as an "exchange" and I will turn down any such request or suggestion from her. Maybe double standard for my part...but no.
 
I would like to have a go at answering at least part of your question. You asked, “why do guys and/or cucks like this lifestyle and what do they get out of it?”
First, I think all men whether alpha or cuck separate sex from love very easily. Only some women can do this and many can’t. Second, I am a natural cuck, so I’ll limit my opinion to that aspect. I know I have sexual cuck tendencies, but in the outside world and day to day basis I perform as an alpha. I am a leader and make many decisions each day. I guess when sex comes around I have leader fatigue and want to be subordinate and ordered around. I crave the escape and brain endorphin high being a sub. No woman, and I feel secure in repeating, no woman is sexually attracted to submissiveness. Knowing this, a cuck who truly loves his wife can only give himself and his wife what they sexually desire at the same time, is to introduce the third party who fills the dominant roll. A cuck is someone who truly loves his wife and wants to provide all things for her, but is selfish in a way that he will not give up his desire to be a subordinate or beta, even if his wife doesn’t consider him a beta.
I don’t consider myself a stag so I can’t really comment
 
words are meaningless and each person has their own reasons and desires. I suspect that for many it is primal and about forming a bond with another person. a woman can have a non sexual relationship with other men and it is
 
Men who like to see their wives be satisfied by other men:
#1. Want their wife to be their very own fantasy porn actress! Fantasizing about an interracial porn actress taking bbc is one thing, actually having that fantasy fulfilled right in front of you with your wife as the porn actress is the Ultimate level of fantasy porn.
#2. The husband knows that his wife is sexy, beautiful, and desirable to him and it's a total turn on knowing that other men want her and would very much enjoy her pleasurable company. He also wants to show his wife she is a hottie and lots of men other than himself want to fuck her and enjoy her goodies! When that man shares his wife it makes him proud to know that other men are enjoying his rare and exclusive prized possession! Like breaking out that 12 year old scotch and Cuban cigars as a man I would know that ******* is rare and special and the same goes for a man's wife!

I prefer hubby to be present so that I can look him in the eye and tell him how good his milf or gilf hotwife is and how much I am enjoying the ******* out of her and that if I was her husband I would be doing daily exactly what he sees me doing right now!💦♠️😎
 
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