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I think that if I continue to see the same black guy he would let me. Don’t see him letting me with someone we don’t know

Why do you say that? Have you had a bad experience with this?

Good afternoon all! :mstickle: Glad to see we got back on topic. I am definitely feeling more confident about trying this new lifestyle and the reality surrounding it :sex:

Thanks for your insight. I get caught up in the excitement and forget about what else can happen and how unsafe it really can’t be. Just gonna have to make sure I am a safety girl as I move forward.

This has nothing to do with what color the penis is. I was asking about advice on just being safe and meeting up with ANYONE. Don’t turn this into something it isn’t.

What are the red flags I should be looking for with potentials?

So do you ask to see test results? I do hate condoms (n)

I have had so many people give me great advice here. I appreciate all of you! Since I have never done the meet someone on-line for a one-night stand thing before, how far do you actually go to vet potential partners for a one night stand? What are some experiences you all have had that have...

Ok. So this thread has gone to *******. I appreciate all of you that gave me some real good advise and shared your personal experiences. I will probably hold off till things settle down and my husband and I can both get in the same page. Take care. Love all of you!!

Can we please keep the political ideology and debates for another time. Thanks guys. ;)(y)

So the general consensus has been to start a relationship and get to know these guys beforehand so everyone feels comfortable when we meet. Here is the vexing part of this for me... my fantasy is to meet a black STRANGER and sleep with him. So the issue is how can I feel like the guy is somewhat...

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I think my hubby is using this as an excuse.

Quick question.. this is site related. I am not techy at all and I was wondering how do you set up an album on your profile. I was looking and some of you have them but I don’t see the option.

With the COVID resurgence I am worried about how this will all work. I wanted to simply meet a guy from online at a bar and spend some time dancing and speaking with him to see how compatible we were. Now with the bars shut down it makes it hard to see if we naturally click and if there is...

Do you ask for a copy of an STD test? How do you know?

What do you mean by a con man?

We are both feeling this out for the first time. Not really sure how to approach it. He suggested to meet someone on line and then meet at bar and go from there.

I want to be open about all of this with my husband, which I have been, but it has been almost a year that we have been saying we were going to try this and it still hasn’t happened. I am just getting so sexually frustrated. I don’t want to go behind his back but it is getting hard to control...

Morning all. Thanks again for all your feedback with my situation. You guys are the best!