I see you signed up not to long ago. It would be a great idea to verify as a couple. Its easy and worth it. Please see the link below. Hope to see you as Real :)
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/how-to-become-verified-as-a-real-person.50490/
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/how-to-become-verified-as-a-real-person.50490/