Why I'm A Cuckoldress

Whatever that means? The article is what it is, someone’s fantasy, but there’s no statistics or proof there. Unless you take the writers word for it.
I have my doubts that many men actually desire to be cuckolded even if the fantasize about it. For one thing it usually means submission to a woman in a way that is totally obvious. Many men do not have trouble submitting to a woman as long as they can pretend they do not
 
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@MsThang I absolutely enjoyed reading this!! I wish more women could find their dominant side. I was introduced to this lifestyle 5 years ago and I could never go back to just a "vanilla" relationship. I believe the most important thing is communication between the couple. I agree that you have to take things slow and figure out what works. My cuck and I have a list of Yes, No and absolutely not's. Which I like to push the no's into yes'!! In our relationship I enjoy humiliating and degrading my cuck. Not all couples are into that and that is what excites me about cuckholding....there's no standard guideline...to each their own!! I wish there were more women to talk about this with as I've tried talking to dommes and they don't want to be bothered! I look forward to read more of your stuff!! @NYNJcuckcouple
 
Until people are comfortable enough to stop blocking out their faces in photos and videos, cuckolding isn't as acceptable as those in porn and on cuckold sites make it out to be. There is allot of pain as some couples realize to late that fantasy and reality differ often.
 
I liked the article for the most part. It's always good to hear an experienced woman's input on the topic.
I don't know who Dan Savage is, but I didn't necessarily agree with his statement, "It's not cuckolding if there isn't an element of humiliation, degradation, or denial."
I'm a purist when it comes to the term "cuckold" because of what mainstream porn has done to the genre. They destroyed it. So a cuckold is purely defined as a man with a wife who has sex with other men.
To me, those three things are branches of the BDSM tree that are often associated with cuckolding.
Had he said, "Cuckolding often incorporates blah blah and blah", then I would have agreed.
I agree and I'd like to add that it's not cuckolding if there isn't some form of commitment between the couple with a certain level of emotional attachment.
Otherwise it's just acting.
 
Love your blog
@MsThang I absolutely enjoyed reading this!! I wish more women could find their dominant side. I was introduced to this lifestyle 5 years ago and I could never go back to just a "vanilla" relationship. I believe the most important thing is communication between the couple. I agree that you have to take things slow and figure out what works. My cuck and I have a list of Yes, No and absolutely not's. Which I like to push the no's into yes'!! In our relationship I enjoy humiliating and degrading my cuck. Not all couples are into that and that is what excites me about cuckholding....there's no standard guideline...to each their own!! I wish there were more women to talk about this with as I've tried talking to dommes and they don't want to be bothered! I look forward to read more of your stuff!! @NYNJcuckcouple
Have you all been introduced to Venus? She has an amazing blog and podcast... a tremendous resource for us sexually empowered women. https://venuscuckoldress.com
 
I just love how incredibly happy she is. I know she will never leave me. She is desirable, and she does it only for her own experience and her own pleasure... She loves the attention, and of course she has a healthy sexual appetite. There are guys that she just teases, and there are guys she has known for a while that she has a great time with that part of the relationship. I can see how empowering it is.. as for the BBC thing, well I think she just started this lifestyle with a black guy, he showed her a good time and she liked it. Does she call her self a QOS and all that, well "No". I think she has fun with it though, she has shown me stuff she gets... from other men and some of it is about the swing lifestyle and that she likes black men. I don't pay much attention to her when she talks about it and when she shows me a little toe ring or trinket with a black spade on it. Or even when she has worn it. I guess I could do without that, it's really not important to ME... but she laughs and laughs at that kind of stuff... I guess I need to ask her about that. If I don't react to something she stops telling me about it. So I never react to her stories that I don't want to hear about. I like to hear that she is having a good time. My wife comes back tomorrow and I'm totally looking forward to that.
 
@MsThang I absolutely enjoyed reading this!! I wish more women could find their dominant side. I was introduced to this lifestyle 5 years ago and I could never go back to just a "vanilla" relationship. I believe the most important thing is communication between the couple. I agree that you have to take things slow and figure out what works. My cuck and I have a list of Yes, No and absolutely not's. Which I like to push the no's into yes'!! In our relationship I enjoy humiliating and degrading my cuck. Not all couples are into that and that is what excites me about cuckholding....there's no standard guideline...to each their own!! I wish there were more women to talk about this with as I've tried talking to dommes and they don't want to be bothered! I look forward to read more of your stuff!! @NYNJcuckcouple
Wow, what a lucky husband, strong women are sexy in the eyes of us weak desperate men🧎‍♂️🙏
 
Cuckoldry is here to stay. It's all over main stream media. A recent study found 58% of men and about a third of women are interested in this dynamic.

Here is my take: https://www.crystalwelch.com/blog/why-im-a-cuckoldress
Interesting article, i re-read this many times and i noticed that women with a strong dominant side to them can benefit from this lifestyle but i could be wrong about this.
 
Cuckoldry is here to stay. It's all over main stream media.

Adultery has been notably acknowledged as far back as the beginning of the bible, in the book of Genesis.
Cuckoldry IS nothing more than adultery, itself ... except its the female cheating on her spouse, whereas adultery includes cheating by EITHER spouse.
So, no, cuckoldry & adultery aren't going to get any less practiced moving forward. I can see a point in our future where adultery & cuckoldry won't raise an eyebrow, it hardly does now with average folks. But, in the future I can see adultery actually being practiced in the open as a society acceptance. Not sure that's a good thing, although Europeans and other parts of the world certainly treat extra-marital sex as anything special; only in the US, I think.
I guess Integrity & Loyalty will continue to mean less and less as well.
 
...although Europeans and other parts of the world certainly treat extra-marital sex as anything special; only in the US, I think.
Wrong assumption of many Americans, wrong assumption in general that Europeans are more open minded than Americans when it comes to sex. First of all, there are several countries in EU with different beliefs, kinda like Texans & Californians... Second, I know no part in the world where cheating is viewed as positive. I only know societies that accept polyamory and that's usually in favor of a man, meaning no woman has a harem, usually men are the ones with more than one wife.
 
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