It‘s almost hard for me to wrap my head around what others have to deal with, ever since we started playing this game about two months before we got married, all I had to do was walk in a room, smile at my hub, and whisper these words at him “I have a feeling anything can happen tonight”,,,that’s it, it doesn’t matter if he just had the hardest day of his life at work, he’d spring up and begin to get ready. I’ve been reading a lot of cheating wife stories and what never occurred to me was what the general response to women that brought the subject up, usually asking their husband for a hall pass for one night just to experience the thrill of a new or different encounter,,,besides the immediate “NO” that usually occurred, it was followed by an acknowledgement of the husband’s intent to file for divorce. This of course was based on the fact that if it was that important for her to do this and he said no, she’d most likely go ahead and figure a way to do it behind his back. I can see how this being the expected reaction, how dangerous it would be for a woman to approach this subject under any circumstances. Damn,,,sometimes I forget how lucky I’ve been and how my life could’ve taken a totally different direction,,,phew, definitely dodged a bullet on that one!