Stag Vixen (non-cuckold)

Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing.

Bulls, why would you fuck another man's wife and want her husband to clean you up or even want to watch him eat your cum out of her? Doesn't that make you bisexual?

I personally love to have sex with other men. While I am the one with the control and can say no anytime, he can also say no anytime he wants. That means if I want a man but husband doesn't like him, he can nix it right there, and he has done it. Every guy must go through him to get to me. Is there anybody else out there like us? I must say we have some very respectful bulls.


We feel the exact same way as this. Nice post!
 
There is nothing attractive for us in humiliation...that ******* is fuckin dumb IMO!
Stag Vixen would be the correct category for us.
For me the turn on is seeing another guy stretch my wife and seeing her reaction....it has yet to happen but great things take time I suppose :)
Still torn if him dumping a load in her is anything interested, but seeing her cum on his dick...massive turn on!
 
Hi guys, I know the whole cuckold thing is a whole genre of porn and a lifestyle. I really am interested in finding out some answers so don't go off and get all butt hurt.
What I want to know is where are the non cuckold couples. I personally would never want my man to be a cuck. If you are, then good for you. I would never want my man to do that and I think the Stag Vixen lifestyle is growing. etc etc

What a sensible position! As far as the cuckold relationships are concerned, we have never understood that, but we also have never condemned them. Who are we to say that another couple can’t do a certain thing? It required a lot of time and talk before we decided to give it a try, but Stag Vixen turned out to be exactly what we want. Our rules are simple: no means no, condoms (with one exception) are always required, each of us has a veto and no reason has to be given. It’s not exactly a rule, but all of the black men (5) we’ve met with have been married, married men being less likely to ‘fall in love’. It’s also not a rule, but long term relationships work better for us.
 
We agree completely with this, as someone above said, I think that cuckold couples are actually a minority in this lifestyle, but they seem to dominate the online presence with their fantasies.
Yes, they do seem to be more prolific. It's good to see others with the same frame of mind tho.
 
A cuckold is any man who has a wife who fucks other men regardless if he knows or does not or sucks the other mans cock. If a man knows his woman is fucking other men and he tolerates it then he is submissive to her. Few women will abuse a man who will submit to her in fact women value men like that. All this ******* about humiliation is mostly fantasy just like the stuff about black cock , women decide who they fuck
 
you either accept her fucking other men or you do not, if you accept you can proceed from there. You may resent it or not or even encourage it. you may have nothing to do with the other men or you may end up being a cum eating cocksucking husband but anyway you are a cuckold and accept being dominated by a woman, pretend what you want
 
^ physical "cuckold" per dictionary definition but not necessarily emotional. A "lifestyle cuckold" is yet another thing. In lack of a clear definition some folks distinguish a lifestyle cuck from a "Stag". There is no right or wrong definition as everyone has their own. :( Looks like we have to live with that for a while. ;)
 
A cuckold is any man who has a wife who fucks other men regardless if he knows or does not or sucks the other mans cock. If a man knows his woman is fucking other men and he tolerates it then he is submissive to her. Few women will abuse a man who will submit to her in fact women value men like that. All this ******* about humiliation is mostly fantasy just like the stuff about black cock , women decide who they fuck
Completely disagree.. My husband is in no way a cuck. We BOTH have other partners, we are equals in our marriage 100%, he's not submissive to me in any way whatsoever. I wouldn't want him to be, submissive men are a turn off to me personally and I would have no use for a man like that.

The literal definition of a cuckold is the husband of an unfaithful woman.

There are many cucks around here who claim that if your wife has other partners, you're a cuck full stop - but per the dictionary definition, that isn't so. Unfaithful would mean in contravention of a previous promise or understanding.. if the dynamic of your relationship has been agreed upon by both partners as non monogamous, nobody is unfaithful.

To me it boils down to this:

A cuck is either a man whose wife is unfaithful (as in without his consent or knowledge) or - as @mywayintermsofsex put it, the "lifestyle" definition - a man who encourages his wife to have other partners as it's providing sexual gratification for himself.

The lifestyle version tends of have some manner of power exchange element in which the husband prefers to take a more submissive role, otherwise there is the stag distinction.

Poly or just generally non monogamous people generally don't fall into the definition of cuckolding since nobody is unfaithful and nobody is getting sexual gratification from their partner sleeping with other people.
 
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Labelling is useless.. I love my boyfriend to death and we’re equals in every aspect of the relationship, he has an average dick (which is also enough for me as I’m small) but he enjoys sharing me with bigger cocks, this is a win win for everyone, right? It doesn’t give anyone the right to talk down to him or come up with weird theories about what he is like as a person
 
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