Interesting discussion.
I don't know a lot of women (myself included) that advertise what they enjoy doing, sexually speaking.
I mean, I've never run across a woman in the break room who said "You know, Ralph and I are swingers and we had the most wonderful weekend!"
To give you an idea, my husband and I enjoy nudism. Yet that pretty vanilla interest isn't discussed unless someone broaches the topic. I think a total of six 'real life' friends know, and of those six, all have at least gone skinny dipping with us in our pool. No, nothing sexual arose from any of those encounters.
Another thing to consider is statistics. As Mark Twain famously said, "There are lies. There are damn lies. And then there are statistics."
For example. A very constrained and well controlled sexual survey takes place (not in Cosmo, that's all BS) sponsored by a major university.
Of 10,000 women surveyed, 35 percent said they had an interracial encounter. (this is just an example to prove a point - totally made up numbers)
Okay, of the remaining women who said they HAVE NOT had an interracial encounter, how many had one when they were 20, and at 45, forgot about it while taking the survey?
How many, for whatever reason, had an affair with a Black guy and decided that they just didn't want to admit their one 'mistake' on a questionnaire?
How many woman want to have one and subsequently lied in the survey?
Finally, how many white women had encounters with Hispanics, Middle Eastern or Asian males and checked 'Yes' on the survey?
These are just some of the reasons why you'll usually see a +/- 4% on every survey worth the paper it's written on.
As I said earlier, the number is probably increasing for the reasons I outlined in my previous post, but to put a number on it and to show a trend, is really a futile exercise.
So, in other words, your guess is as good as mine!
Donna