New to this game......help!

sam8535

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Hello, Recently my wife informed me that has developed some confidence in the bedroom. She has always been flirty and I suspected that was the source of her new confidence. Last week after sex she asked me if I enjoyed that. I said yes and that I always do. I then asked her if he enjoyed it....her answered was simple and harsh. "Meh, not really. Get my dildo for me." She procedded to cum a few times then hamded me the creamy dildos for cleaning and she went to sleep.
The next day after work she says we need to talk. It was not surprise that she said she is upset with my sexual performance. She went on to say that my 5.5" was just not enough. Fearfully I asked what size she wanted, she said 8" minimum. I was crushed. She did though say my tongue got her off and she liked that but she wants a "Real man's cock" (her words). I'm not stranger to the cuckold world as I've been reading these stories for a bit now....but it's different when it seems to be starting in real life.

What do I do?
 
Hello, Recently my wife informed me that has developed some confidence in the bedroom. She has always been flirty and I suspected that was the source of her new confidence. Last week after sex she asked me if I enjoyed that. I said yes and that I always do. I then asked her if he enjoyed it....her answered was simple and harsh. "Meh, not really. Get my dildo for me." She procedded to cum a few times then hamded me the creamy dildos for cleaning and she went to sleep.
The next day after work she says we need to talk. It was not surprise that she said she is upset with my sexual performance. She went on to say that my 5.5" was just not enough. Fearfully I asked what size she wanted, she said 8" minimum. I was crushed. She did though say my tongue got her off and she liked that but she wants a "Real man's cock" (her words). I'm not stranger to the cuckold world as I've been reading these stories for a bit now....but it's different when it seems to be starting in real life.

What do I do?
Life as you knew it is over.
For me its different because no one can F my wife better than me. We enjoy IR play because it is kinky and taboo and adds extra excitement.
But once your wife says your dick does not satisfy her it is a whole different ball game.
 
Life as you knew it is over.
For me its different because no one can F my wife better than me. We enjoy IR play because it is kinky and taboo and adds extra excitement.
But once your wife says your dick does not satisfy her it is a whole different ball game.
It is what I'm learning!
 
Hello, Recently my wife informed me that has developed some confidence in the bedroom. She has always been flirty and I suspected that was the source of her new confidence. Last week after sex she asked me if I enjoyed that. I said yes and that I always do. I then asked her if he enjoyed it....her answered was simple and harsh. "Meh, not really. Get my dildo for me." She procedded to cum a few times then hamded me the creamy dildos for cleaning and she went to sleep.
The next day after work she says we need to talk. It was not surprise that she said she is upset with my sexual performance. She went on to say that my 5.5" was just not enough. Fearfully I asked what size she wanted, she said 8" minimum. I was crushed. She did though say my tongue got her off and she liked that but she wants a "Real man's cock" (her words). I'm not stranger to the cuckold world as I've been reading these stories for a bit now....but it's different when it seems to be starting in real life.

What do I do?
I would hate to give a definitive answer to the dynamics of your relationship based on a short paragraph. Was she teasing based on your fantasies and/or seeking a little more creativity in the bedroom? If so, be a bit more creative and incorporate fetishes or experiment with other sexual positions and techniques for penetrations. Don't fool yourself, she probably knows what type of porn you have been looking at and reading. This may be her way to say that she would enjoy fulfilling your fantasy.
Is she truly dissatisfied with sex or dissatisfied with the relationship? You may have to become a cuckold to maintain the relationship or ask to try counselling. 8 inch cocks are rare. She is looking for the man who is in the upper 10 percent of all men. Dumping you will not guarantee that she finds it.
You two need to talk honestly and ask yourselves what are your interests, limits and risked consequences. Bringing in a third into a monogamous relationship does create romantic entanglements regardless of how certain you are that you can do it with clear boundaries. The third may decide that he is not satisfied with being a once a month stud and want a bit more romance and commitment. She (or you) may decide that your fantasy should move into commitment as well. Walk lightly where angels fear to tread.
 
Hello, Recently my wife informed me that has developed some confidence in the bedroom. She has always been flirty and I suspected that was the source of her new confidence. Last week after sex she asked me if I enjoyed that. I said yes and that I always do. I then asked her if he enjoyed it....her answered was simple and harsh. "Meh, not really. Get my dildo for me." She procedded to cum a few times then hamded me the creamy dildos for cleaning and she went to sleep.
The next day after work she says we need to talk. It was not surprise that she said she is upset with my sexual performance. She went on to say that my 5.5" was just not enough. Fearfully I asked what size she wanted, she said 8" minimum. I was crushed. She did though say my tongue got her off and she liked that but she wants a "Real man's cock" (her words). I'm not stranger to the cuckold world as I've been reading these stories for a bit now....but it's different when it seems to be starting in real life.

What do I do?
There are websites that professional men with large penises advertise on.
You could hire one of those gentlemen to do your wife for an hour or so. Many cucks do.
 
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