The greatest lie women ever told was that men are the bigger deviants sexually. No, our sexual deviancy is encouraged and we lack the self-discipline from generations of slut shaming and having to stroke the ego of the sole bread winner. If we could read women’s minds, we would be offended constantly.
I’m curious about having my wife seduced but not know I’m setting it up.
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i would probably blush lol
I agree with you
This was the first time I had been asked to do this by a guy and so I didnt realize what I was walking into. So when it blew up in the cuckolds face - I guess you learn your lesson. I will never do this again, but I have been asked multiple times by guys to hit on their gfs or wives without them knowing and I just back away. Its a red flag for me at this point.
I do not shame betas, subs or cuckolds. but if you have ZERO respect for your gf/wife to tell her your true fantasies - then I dont want any part of your toxic male energy. And yes, beta cuckolds can be 100% TOXIC when they do back-handed and conniving crap like this.
100%
I think in those circumstances, she would be very open to flirting with someone who found her interesting. She is very switched on, and can easily identify a creepy guy and discard him, but intelligent conversation would turn her on, I think. Would she take it further?? Well if she liked the guy and had my full support, maybe she would. But that's a big maybe!
She knows my fantasy fully well, and lets me talk about during our sex. I've even noticed her Pussy gets very creamy when I talk about her with another Man, but still she says no..
you ask some good questions and you raise some good points.
so here's my advice from all the experience I have. I think you are in a good situation, so just make sure you want to go further with it. If your wife is as shy as you say she is - then she is not ready for what you are proposing.
There is no such thing as a "chance" encounter, which means you would be tricking your wife. So here are 2 suggestions:
1. Tell your wife that you and she are going to meet someone for drinks
2. Organize a meet up. with multiple men - think a social party like the Millionaire Matchmaker does on that TV show - and your wife can talk to and flirt with whoever she wants.
I have done both scenarios. It really depends on your wife's personality.
In my experience shy women prefer option 2 because there is no spotlight on them. There is a group of people and if she doesn't want to talk to someone, there's other people for them to talk to.
I have a lot of experience with women similar to your wife. I fully understand the religious background issues and repression.
I've helped many women overcome those issues - very similar to what you have done with your wife. It just seems the missing piece you don't have is how to help your wife UNLOCK her true sexual potential. Thats just something Ive always been good at doing. Women reveal secrets to me they don't tell anyone else. There's no real formula to it - which is why I can't teach anyone else how to do it.
But what I will say is women really love talking to me, so if you listen really well, they tell you exactly what buttons to push.
Sounds realistic - it s a pitty that we are so far .
Guess to set up without her knowledge is a hot idea but in reality it needs a " real bull" otherwise it will destroy your marriage .
the reason I only allow verified profiles to contact me is because too many men on this site are ONLY interested in "fantasy" scenarios and don't want to or don't seem to care about reality. And that's a red flag for me. If you have a gf or a wife, and you aren't putting her needs and safety first, then what do you think my impression of you "as a man" will be?
I see too many posts on this site and others where men "post" ridiculous ideas about their female partners. Those posts show people's true colors and its not good. A real man puts his gf or wife first. A POS only thinks about himself and his fantasies.
If more cuckolds, submissive and beta men stopped fantasizing and started LIVING their truth--they would fulfill more dreams and desires. In my extensive experience women like to feel needed and wanted. If their partner, someone they love and respect is saying, it would make me happy if you fucked another guy - your woman will be shocked at first (society has conditioned women to HATE sex) but she is going to want to hear "why?" Why do you want me to go against society?
Stop thinking about the sex, and start thinking about the reality. Why do you want this?
And "it's hot" is not an answer. For guys that give that answer, "what are you 5?"
For anyone in the NY/PA/NJ area - you should try and connect with
@Idowives0763
I would consider him the "King" of this lifestyle in that area. I am trying to organize groups, parties and events here in the West.
CA/AZ/Las Vegas
So if you're in those areas, just hit follow and maybe we can turn this into a more viable option for women in reality.
Just FYI - I used to run happy hours for singles to meet in Manhattan for 3 years before covid. We had a kink group, a BBC group and also a cuckolding group. It was a lot of fun and my parties always had a lot of women attending, in fact, that was the complaint, "not enough guys."
Well said , it s true . She need to be in the focus - otherwise she would only be an object to fulfil his phantasy .
As my wife did nt talk about sex ,it s difficult to say . but as husband i know some of her desires . e.g. she like to be treatened more rough . ( asking to bite her nipples , bite her pussy ) ; she s not into soft touching and long forplay ; or even slow motion fucking . ( ask for harder ,faster,deeper; spread my ass,slap my ass)
As a leading manager she has to be tough - so in bedroom she enjoy the oposite .
She like younger fit guys . i am 12 years older .
And some other small things .
But with 44 her selfconfidence about her body is become very low plus asian society is more conservative .
As my wife did nt talk about sex ,it s difficult to say . but as husband i know some of her desires . e.g. she like to be treatened more rough . ( asking to bite her nipples , bite her pussy ) ; she s not into soft touching and long forplay ; or even slow motion fucking . ( ask for harder ,faster,deeper; spread my ass,slap my ass)
As a leading manager she has to be tough - so in bedroom she enjoy the oposite .
She like younger fit guys . i am 12 years older .
And some other small things .
But with 44 her selfconfidence about her body is become very low plus asian society is more conservative .
We only play together whether I join in or not is up to her. Playing without me is cheating and neither of us would accept that. Some don't want to do that, oh well dems the rules, move on. I enjoy watching as well as joining.
Loosing face is a big fear for her . she would not trust a chinese guy . is she into black guys ?- half half i would say - some of the black guys in china did nt have a good behavior . ( to offence in public ). For her it needs a gentleman until the bedroom door is closed .
For me a threesome in which two guys please her would be perfect .
It may brings back her confidence
well put, she wants to have 2 guys together as I put it an oreo situation she/ I would enjoy it very much.
I think your initial instinct was correct -- you didnt fully explain the situation to me, so my advice was based on the limited info you gave.
first of all - I am not "applying" for the position. I was a little taken aback and just bemused by your notion that I have any interest in this scenario. I was simply trying to be helpful. Maybe that puts your mind at ease, that Im trying to be a neutral 3rd party, therefore whatever I have to say does not personally benefit me.
I can tell that you know your wife very well. But it sounds like your wife is wrestling inside her own mind, which means you need a man that has a very high IQ, but also a background in behavioral psychology, because your wife's childhood trauma and repression is not going to be easy to overcome. I would fully expect if I met your wife, that I would probably trigger a deep seeded repression. And to be quite honest, I have no idea how she would react - and more importantly, I don't think you know how she would react.
You are opening pandoras box here. I think you realize that.
From what you said, my best suggestion would be to "role play" some scenarios that are much more deeply psychologically rooted.
Right now you are just doing surface role play with her and purely physical/sexual role-play. Your wife is semi comfortable with that since she is doing it with you. And because of all the therapy and the support you have given her - she trusts you with her life. So she is more willing to do something with you. I think you know that by now.
But your wife needs to have her emotions pushed a little, so that you can have a better idea if she can even handle more that what you are doing. When I work with a newbie couple, and a woman like your wife - I basically TEST the wife emotionally and psychologically to see if she can even handle the situation before you go past the point of no return.
I get the sense that you would like it and you can handle whatever might happen.
But your wife has never really been a human being before. She is a programmed shell of a human being, acting and speaking and doing whatever she was programmed to do. I know, sounds sick and twisted, but that's basically what has happened. Normal human beings, or people that don't have their minds scrambled, do not freak out like this over situations.
rational adults can have a health conversation with their spouse---because based on everything you've told me you are a very truswothty guy, so your wife should have nothing to ever worry about. All of her fears and insecurities are just programmed into her - its not really her.
And unfortunately there is no therapist on this planet that can correct what's inside her head, because it would be completely unethical.
Your wife really needs a full "re-brainwashing" basically someone needs to clean her mind of all the CRAP that has been put in there.
Its really hurting her more than you even comprehend. She is like a prisoner inside her own brain. I feel for you and empathize with your wife, its not right what society did to her.
Please feel free to ask more questions, but I understand your situation a lot more now.
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