I live an hour away from Atlanta, Columbus, Opelika- three cities where older women who identify as QoS/like younger black men are in abundance…
…BUT, I am not trying to travel an hour or so each way, especially with me not being able to host as I do not live alone at the moment. Reaching out to local women on dating/hookup sites has been mostly dead. I have been on AdultFriendFinder, with no luck. PlentyofFish has no one nearby. Fetlife led me to a woman in Alabama who was perfect for me but too far away for my liking, and another woman who has grandchildren, health problems who is too busy for me now. On OurTime I met up with one sweet lady on OT who found me very cute but she is far away, has no ride, regular cell service or a place for us to be intimate in private.
Basically, In my smaller town, the internet numbers are just too small. I’m going to have to start trying to find a mutually attracted woman in person, but I’m sure you can imagine that it’s a bit difficult to find a 40/45+ woman, who is white, and into hooking up with younger black men without having hundreds of awkward encounters. Any tips?
…BUT, I am not trying to travel an hour or so each way, especially with me not being able to host as I do not live alone at the moment. Reaching out to local women on dating/hookup sites has been mostly dead. I have been on AdultFriendFinder, with no luck. PlentyofFish has no one nearby. Fetlife led me to a woman in Alabama who was perfect for me but too far away for my liking, and another woman who has grandchildren, health problems who is too busy for me now. On OurTime I met up with one sweet lady on OT who found me very cute but she is far away, has no ride, regular cell service or a place for us to be intimate in private.
Basically, In my smaller town, the internet numbers are just too small. I’m going to have to start trying to find a mutually attracted woman in person, but I’m sure you can imagine that it’s a bit difficult to find a 40/45+ woman, who is white, and into hooking up with younger black men without having hundreds of awkward encounters. Any tips?
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