How long do you women usually wait to give a guy a handjob?

How long do you women usually wait to give a guy a handjob?

  • On the first date

    Votes: 26 74.3%
  • At least a third date

    Votes: 6 17.1%
  • Usually 4th, 5th date, at least

    Votes: 1 2.9%
  • Other (write our opinion)

    Votes: 2 5.7%

  • Total voters
    35

I have had several relationships with girls. The last ones were the longest and lasted 2 years. I dated a wonderful woman who was 3 years older than me. Our sexual relationship was going well. I can even say that it was this woman who had a great influence on my sexual habits and preferences.

I was very liberated thanks to her, because she always encouraged my desire for sex and told me that I was a good lover, and she would teach me how to do better. Now I understand that she made me her own. That is, I am a good lover for her, but not for other women. Perhaps I was too naive a guy. Or perhaps the fact is that this woman was older than me.

We met on the same forum and corresponded for a long time before setting up our first date. We were in no hurry to move to a new level of relationship, because we were serious right away. We kissed probably only 2 weeks after the first date. I understand that my ex-woman wanted confidence and seriousness from a man.

I realized that I love her and also waited, did not rush things. Of course, I'm not made of steel, and she really excited me. I know that women have some ideas about time that after a certain number of dates or time that you date, a woman can have sex and all that.

When our meetings began to be more intimate, she became active and did not hesitate to touch my cock and massage it. One day I was ready for sex, but she apparently wasn’t ready. We kissed and caressed each other passionately, my cock was already hard. And my ex-woman gives hand job.

She caressed my dick for a while. I was ready to move on to sex, but she enjoyed it. She knew exactly how to give a man a handjob. Moreover, it was her initiative. I just relaxed and came. I don't remember what kind of date it was. But this was probably 2 months after the first meeting.

I've never had this before. But I don’t have much experience either. Then she did this several times. I became a hand job lover. And then a month later we had sex. All this leads me to the fact that I am now dating another girl. And everything is completely different. I understand that this is a completely different female with different habits. But still I have a question.

We met Sarah on the forum. At first, we just talked in the comments on general topics. I personally wrote to her asking if she wanted to communicate in person. So we started corresponding on social networks. And then I invited her for coffee. I feel I really liked her. We even had mutual friends.

I feel like I really love this girl. Our relationship has already lasted 3 months. Maybe I’m in a hurry this time comparing this relationship with my previous woman, but we kissed, but things don’t lead to sex at all. Yes, we hug, kiss, I get feedback from her. But I already want more.

I didn’t ask her for giving a first date handjob. Didn't get into her panties. I waited patiently all this time. She feels that I am excited, and my cock is erect, but does nothing with it. Or am I already confused about the fact that women and handjobs are one thing in a sexual relationship?

We had frank conversations about sex. Sarah is 21 years old and has been in intimate relationships with three guys, according to her. She prefers classic sex. All the guys had no relationship problems, nothing that would break her heart. But the last guy left her for their mutual friend. I asked her if this was a problem for her? She replied no. But they don't communicate anymore. I was afraid to ask her about the time she had sex with her exes and gave them a handjob.

Perhaps there is something I don't know about her. After all, there are women who do not like to look at a man’s penis. I read about this on one forum. Although it’s difficult for me, as a man, to understand where such women’s fears lie.

I started thinking about it, maybe my girlfriend has something similar. Maybe she is afraid to touch and look at male organs? After all, what else could be the problem with giving a guy handjob? I’m not even talking about the issue of oral sex, I don’t even know if she wants to suck me off. It's just that when women give handjob for men it seems like a more innocent activity.

I understand that every woman is different, and everyone has their own calculations about when to give sex to a guy and all that. Surely there is a time after which you women give a handjob to your boyfriend. I've been saying this about relationships for some time now. I'm not talking about first date handjobs.

Recently we had such a story. We were relaxing at a party with our mutual group of friends. We drank, but not that much. We were alone on the balcony and talking. Sarah was so fun and sexy. I really realized that I had a feeling of love for this girl.

I was already very active towards her about sex, but from her movements I realized that she was rejecting this possibility and was not ready yet. Okay, I'll put that aside for now. So at the party. We chatted, then started kissing. I feel like she's a very hot girl, and doesn’t mind my touching her ass and thighs, as well as caressing her breasts.

She is very pliable and gentle, passionate and an excellent kisser. This time I thought we could go a little further. Since it was warm weather, I was wearing shorts. In general, we passionately caressed each other for a very long time, she allowed her top to be lifted, and I stroked and caressed her tits and nipples, which were erect and hard.

I decided to go a little further. My cock was already hard, and the desire was very strong. I thought that just a couple of minutes and I could cum. I really wanted her love and affection, so that she would give me pleasure. I was also ready to do this for her.

I know she definitely felt my hardness in my shorts, because we were so close. But she still didn’t touch my cock. Then I decided to take this step. I took my cock out of my pants and took her hand and extended it towards him. She took it with her hand, and we continued kissing. Of course, I thought about the fact that she would give a handjob at least a little. But she just held it with her hand and that’s it.

Then she removed her hand. I thought maybe she doesn’t know how to give a guy a hand job. Although she did not seem so inexperienced, and she did not say that she was not experienced. Then I said that she could move her hand back and forth. I took her hand again and put it on my cock, but she didn’t do anything again, and after a while I removed it.

We stayed on the balcony for a little longer. I hid my hard dick back in my shorts and didn’t try to get it out anymore. I realized that I wouldn’t have any handjob today. To be honest, I didn’t really understand what happened?

Perhaps she thinks it's too early for giving handjob for me? I know that she is not innocent, and she has experience in sex. So my question is, are there any female nuances for this? Is there some time after which a woman knows how to give a man a handjob? What I mean is that you are already dating, not that a guy slips his dick into a woman's handjob on the first date.
 
Hard to put a time to it. But it happened many times with me the same day we made out, but it usually turned to way more. Only one girl I went on a date. I kissed her when we came to the car, and it got hot. A lot of touching, tities, neck biting, her rubbing my hard cock on top of my trousers, I drove off and found a dark spot to park and we did more. I started taking her clothes off but she stopped me. I slid my down down her panties. It was wet and warm. But she didn’t let me put it inside. I took her to the back seat. She took my cock out I thought she was going to suck it. It was throbbing hard and already precuming. She licked her lips. But then she just started hand jobbing me. I tried to push her head down but she said no. Only hand. That is how I came. Bust a huge loads some went on her clothes and my stomach. She wiped it out and that is it. A little weird I must admit, but it was hot and she did a great job, speed and pressure. Something tells me she has a lot of experience 🤫
 
I don't ever think about giving a guy a "hand job" it's not like a thing to do, or even a request from a guy I'm dating. If any request is made it's usually for a " blow job" or actually sex. Obviously kissing is top of the list, before an actual decision is made to go further. But I have to say I've never been in a position to do, or be asked for one.
 
I don't ever think about giving a guy a "hand job" it's not like a thing to do, or even a request from a guy I'm dating. If any request is made it's usually for a " blow job" or actually sex. Obviously kissing is top of the list, before an actual decision is made to go further. But I have to say I've never been in a position to do, or be asked for one.
Thought the same thing. Feels like a high school question.
 
A hand job is just a prelude to sucking his cock. I have done that on the "first date" so many times.
Really? I usually just put it in my mouth, bc kissing is usually the prelude, or depending on the chemistry, I can either suck or pull my panties off and catch a nice ride 🤷🏼‍♀️ or on a good night of amazing conversation it can lead to a suck and a ride so all is happy 🤪😘
 
Well considering that most of the women that are here, are here for sex a hand job is pretty vanilla.
crickets GIF
 
Really? I usually just put it in my mouth, bc kissing is usually the prelude, or depending on the chemistry, I can either suck or pull my panties off and catch a nice ride 🤷🏼‍♀️ or on a good night of amazing conversation it can lead to a suck and a ride so all is happy 🤪😘
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I usually just put it in my mouth,
Yup... That works for me 😜.
And I'm sure we both know a "proper" blowjob is done with the mouth not with the hand(s)...😉.
 
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I'm not, I'm just waiting for an apology from you.
I thought you'd be more interested in knowing why something like it would watermark your pics...Yet claims it doesn't know who you are on this site. More bullshit just like the term "banned for life" 👎🏽🙄👎🏽🤣.
BTW. Generally only decent human beings are big enough to apologize... From my perspective it doesn't even check the human being box 😆.
 

I have had several relationships with girls. The last ones were the longest and lasted 2 years. I dated a wonderful woman who was 3 years older than me. Our sexual relationship was going well. I can even say that it was this woman who had a great influence on my sexual habits and preferences.

I was very liberated thanks to her, because she always encouraged my desire for sex and told me that I was a good lover, and she would teach me how to do better. Now I understand that she made me her own. That is, I am a good lover for her, but not for other women. Perhaps I was too naive a guy. Or perhaps the fact is that this woman was older than me.

We met on the same forum and corresponded for a long time before setting up our first date. We were in no hurry to move to a new level of relationship, because we were serious right away. We kissed probably only 2 weeks after the first date. I understand that my ex-woman wanted confidence and seriousness from a man.

I realized that I love her and also waited, did not rush things. Of course, I'm not made of steel, and she really excited me. I know that women have some ideas about time that after a certain number of dates or time that you date, a woman can have sex and all that.

When our meetings began to be more intimate, she became active and did not hesitate to touch my cock and massage it. One day I was ready for sex, but she apparently wasn’t ready. We kissed and caressed each other passionately, my cock was already hard. And my ex-woman gives hand job.

She caressed my dick for a while. I was ready to move on to sex, but she enjoyed it. She knew exactly how to give a man a handjob. Moreover, it was her initiative. I just relaxed and came. I don't remember what kind of date it was. But this was probably 2 months after the first meeting.

I've never had this before. But I don’t have much experience either. Then she did this several times. I became a hand job lover. And then a month later we had sex. All this leads me to the fact that I am now dating another girl. And everything is completely different. I understand that this is a completely different female with different habits. But still I have a question.

We met Sarah on the forum. At first, we just talked in the comments on general topics. I personally wrote to her asking if she wanted to communicate in person. So we started corresponding on social networks. And then I invited her for coffee. I feel I really liked her. We even had mutual friends.

I feel like I really love this girl. Our relationship has already lasted 3 months. Maybe I’m in a hurry this time comparing this relationship with my previous woman, but we kissed, but things don’t lead to sex at all. Yes, we hug, kiss, I get feedback from her. But I already want more.

I didn’t ask her for giving a first date handjob. Didn't get into her panties. I waited patiently all this time. She feels that I am excited, and my cock is erect, but does nothing with it. Or am I already confused about the fact that women and handjobs are one thing in a sexual relationship?

We had frank conversations about sex. Sarah is 21 years old and has been in intimate relationships with three guys, according to her. She prefers classic sex. All the guys had no relationship problems, nothing that would break her heart. But the last guy left her for their mutual friend. I asked her if this was a problem for her? She replied no. But they don't communicate anymore. I was afraid to ask her about the time she had sex with her exes and gave them a handjob.

Perhaps there is something I don't know about her. After all, there are women who do not like to look at a man’s penis. I read about this on one forum. Although it’s difficult for me, as a man, to understand where such women’s fears lie.

I started thinking about it, maybe my girlfriend has something similar. Maybe she is afraid to touch and look at male organs? After all, what else could be the problem with giving a guy handjob? I’m not even talking about the issue of oral sex, I don’t even know if she wants to suck me off. It's just that when women give handjob for men it seems like a more innocent activity.

I understand that every woman is different, and everyone has their own calculations about when to give sex to a guy and all that. Surely there is a time after which you women give a handjob to your boyfriend. I've been saying this about relationships for some time now. I'm not talking about first date handjobs.

Recently we had such a story. We were relaxing at a party with our mutual group of friends. We drank, but not that much. We were alone on the balcony and talking. Sarah was so fun and sexy. I really realized that I had a feeling of love for this girl.

I was already very active towards her about sex, but from her movements I realized that she was rejecting this possibility and was not ready yet. Okay, I'll put that aside for now. So at the party. We chatted, then started kissing. I feel like she's a very hot girl, and doesn’t mind my touching her ass and thighs, as well as caressing her breasts.

She is very pliable and gentle, passionate and an excellent kisser. This time I thought we could go a little further. Since it was warm weather, I was wearing shorts. In general, we passionately caressed each other for a very long time, she allowed her top to be lifted, and I stroked and caressed her tits and nipples, which were erect and hard.

I decided to go a little further. My cock was already hard, and the desire was very strong. I thought that just a couple of minutes and I could cum. I really wanted her love and affection, so that she would give me pleasure. I was also ready to do this for her.

I know she definitely felt my hardness in my shorts, because we were so close. But she still didn’t touch my cock. Then I decided to take this step. I took my cock out of my pants and took her hand and extended it towards him. She took it with her hand, and we continued kissing. Of course, I thought about the fact that she would give a handjob at least a little. But she just held it with her hand and that’s it.

Then she removed her hand. I thought maybe she doesn’t know how to give a guy a hand job. Although she did not seem so inexperienced, and she did not say that she was not experienced. Then I said that she could move her hand back and forth. I took her hand again and put it on my cock, but she didn’t do anything again, and after a while I removed it.

We stayed on the balcony for a little longer. I hid my hard dick back in my shorts and didn’t try to get it out anymore. I realized that I wouldn’t have any handjob today. To be honest, I didn’t really understand what happened?

Perhaps she thinks it's too early for giving handjob for me? I know that she is not innocent, and she has experience in sex. So my question is, are there any female nuances for this? Is there some time after which a woman knows how to give a man a handjob? What I mean is that you are already dating, not that a guy slips his dick into a woman's handjob on the first date.
Personally hand jobs are a waste I woild
Much rather see what that mouth do. Also why get something I can do better myself.
 
Darlin'...😲.
Are you telling me you've never heard six of the most arousing yet duplicitous words in the English language🤭?
Them being...
"Let me just eat your pussy" 😜.
"True words" to live by😂 😉.
I don't think I've actually had a guy say that 🤔 I've had to like hint for them to go down, then like not let their head back up 🤣
 
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