What is the meaning of her wanting to “practice” with a big black dildo?

[IR Dreams]

For those that have explored, or currently in the lifestyle. My GF gets extremely wet and horny watching IR videos, especially those from blacked.com and recently Shane Diesel. We’ve viewed other non-IR pornographic videos together, but she has never reacted in the way she reacts from the IR videos. She stated that she likes watching the IR videos because of how much the women in the videos seem to be enjoying themselves . While watching IR videos I masturbate her with a couple of black dildos. We have given them names. I also reference them as her “bulls”. She cums very, very hard during these sessions. Actually I’ve never seen her cum soooo hard. Also recently she has begun to wear sexy lingerie and stiletto heels when we watch the IR videos together. She looks quite stunning. Recently she shared with me that she has some favorite IR videos, and that she wants to take a dildo home with her and, the exact wording she used, “practice with it”. The statement was a complete utter turn-on for me. With her actions, and the recent statement, what is she trying to tell me? Or is not a “hidden message”, or does she just plainly get extremely wet from IR videos and masturbation? Any feedback on what’s going on and/or how I should delicately approach this? I’m a little hesitant on just asking her what she is wanting and was wondering what I should say or do (or just keep doing what we’re doing)?
Thanks for the feedback!

 

[NWHotwife]

I've got some advice. Use your words and ask her if she wants to try the real thing.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Practicing with a big black dildo means probable disappointment. Go for a medium-sized toy instead! Men have smaller or bigger penises but a 9 to 12 inch dick is in the bottom percentile. If the goal is that she will experience some good dick with the extra advantage of size, she should not be used to a 13 inch thick dildo. You most probably won't get that experience from a man's dick in real life. But then your user name is @IR Dreams which is kinda suggesting that you're here for fantasy talk only?

 

[IR Dreams]

Practicing with a big black dildo means probable disappointment. Go for a medium-sized toy instead! Men have smaller or bigger penises but a 9 to 12 inch dick is in the bottom percentile. If the goal is that she will experience some good dick with the extra advantage of size, she should not be used to a 13 inch thick dildo. You most probably won't get that experience from a man's dick in real life. But then your user name is @IR Dreams which is kinda suggesting that you're here for fantasy talk only?

Thank you for your reply. But I’m a real male looking for real advice for a real girlfriend. Just wanting good input for good results. I have used plenty of good advice on this site, especially from community member, Mac. I know it’s ultimately her decision on where this will lead to. I’ve implemented several bits of advice I’ve asked for as well as read with IMO awesome results. I’m really trying to find out what she is “telling” me through her actions so I don’t disappoint her or myself. I only want what’s best for her in a safe, sane, consensual manner. Just trying to safely navigate through uncharted waters. Maybe I shouldn’t go down this road and not ultimately ask her if she wants to be blacked for real. However the play we’ve been engaging with has produced the best sex I’ve ever had in my entire like. Once again just wanting advice and guidance from those who are in the know!

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Seems you've already made some steps on your journey. i'd say, first know what you want! (Be careful what you wish for.) And then go for it! If you're not completely sure you will be able to handle it then better back off. If it's not too late already. (Once the seed is planted... )

But ImO open communication channels are a requirement. So, no matter how much you read here or how good or bad of an advice you'll get, ultimately you will need to talk with your woman. i think, when she uses words like this ("practice with it") she is asking/hoping for a reaction from you. Just speak your heart and see where it gets from there. (And make sure the dildo's she uses are not too big. )

 

[6 1/2 inch dick]

 

[IR Dreams]

Seems you've already made some steps on your journey. i'd say, first know what you want! (Be careful what you wish for.) And then go for it! If you're not completely sure you will be able to handle it then better back off. If it's not too late already. (Once the seed is planted... )

But ImO open communication channels are a requirement. So, no matter how much you read here or how good or bad of an advice you'll get, ultimately you will need to talk with your woman. i think, when she uses words like this ("practice with it") she is asking/hoping for a reaction from you. Just speak your heart and see where it gets from there. (And make sure the dildo's she uses are not too big. )

I think that’s what I’m mostly hesitant about: “being careful what I wish for”. Also I’m hesitant about sharing the fantasy because first, BCWIWF, and secondly her reaction, whether it would be positive or negative, whatever which is which. I’m having fun. She’s having fun. I know I won’t get an answer unless I question her if she wants to “advance” our enjoyment. Once you cross the line of fantasy into reality it obviously is no longer a fantasy. I know there needs to be a lot of communication to enter the LS. I feel I’m at the crossroads of fantasy/reality and it’s kind of scary. Thanks for the correspondence.

 

[6 1/2 inch dick]

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Me fucking my Shane Diesel toy and loving it

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My hubby fucking me with my Shane Diesel toy

 

[IR Dreams]

Now she wears her QOS panties and anklet with -charm to prepare for her “practice” sessions!!